Escort Articles - November 2024

Ladies and gentlemen who are clients of sex workers. Please be kind to the providers you choose to see. Many sex workers live with a disability that is either visible to the naked eye, or not visible. Sex workers with disability have lots of different reasons for choosing sex work. Many find that sex work is more flexibile than other jobs. As a sex worker with fibromyalgia, I need to have a break between clients to rest. It's not that I don't want to see you, or don't appreciate your interest in me. It's just that I can not physically see several clients back-to-back, straight after each other. I need to rest between each client, otherwise my health will deteriorate, and then I wont be able to work at all. I chose sex work after resigning from a high-level corporate career spanning 25 years - as my body just could not do it any more. With sex work, I am in control of the days and times I work. I can take a day off when I need it. I can see lots of clients in one day if my body is up to it, or only 2 or 3 clients if my body is not up to it. If I can't see you on a particular day, I will always offer you options for other days I can see you. I will never just tell you no, I flat out can't see you. Please be kind to ALL sex workers you encounter. We have lives outside of sex work. We have feelings and emotions just like you. We have crap going on in our lives, just like you. Kindness is free. Use it as much as you can.

Hi All, In the era of digital transactions, bank transfers might seem like a convenient option for service payments. However, there are several reasons why relying on this method can expose service providers to substantial risk.  Disputes and Chargebacks  One of the biggest issues with accepting bank transfers is the potential for disputes. Clients can contest payments, leading to lengthy investigations and potential reversals. Unlike cash or instant payment services, bank transfers can be canceled at the sender's request even after a service has been rendered, leaving the service provider out of pocket and with no recourse. Fake Receipts and Fraud The rise of technology has given rise to fraudulent practices, including the ability to create fake bank transfer receipts. Sophisticated apps can mimic legitimate bank notifications, making it challenging for service providers to verify whether a transfer has genuinely taken place. This means you could easily be left holding the bag when a fake receipt leads you to believe a payment has been made. Delay in Processing Bank transfers can also be slow to process. Unlike instant payment methods, bank transfers can take hours, or even days, to appear in your account. If a customer promises payment via bank transfer and delays it, you may find yourself with a big gap in your cash flow right when you need it most. Consider Safer Alternatives  Given these risks, it’s wise to look for safer alternatives to bank transfers. Cash payments are instant and cannot be reversed, providing peace of mind for service providers. Consider also using payment solutions like PayID or Beemit, which offer the advantage of immediate transactions that are secure and irreversible.  In summary, while bank transfers may appear to be a straightforward option for receiving payment, they come with many hidden risks. Protect yourself and your business by opting for cash or reliable instant payment services. Your peace of mind is worth it!

My Honest Review of Pjur Lube: A Gold Coast Escort’s Perspective Hello, gorgeous! It’s your new favorite Gold Coast escort here, ready to spill the tea on one of my most essential bedside staples—lube. As someone who thrives on creating unforgettable experiences, I’m always on the hunt for products that elevate intimacy, enhance pleasure, and make every moment feel luxurious. Recently, I’ve been putting the Pjur Original Silicone Lube to the test, and let me tell you, it’s been a game-changer. Whether you’re new to the lube world or a seasoned connoisseur, here’s everything you need to know about this sleek little bottle of magic! ---. First Impressions: Minimalist Chic Let’s start with the packaging. Pjur keeps it simple and sophisticated, with a black and silver design that’s discreet and classy. It doesn’t scream “lube,” which is a win if you like to keep your private essentials subtle. It’s also compact enough to tuck away in a drawer or travel bag for those spontaneous getaways. --- Texture and Feel: Liquid Perfection The first thing I noticed about Pjur Original is its texture—smooth, silky, and oh-so-luxurious. Unlike water-based lubes, this silicone formula has an almost velvety feel that glides effortlessly over the skin. It’s lightweight yet deeply satisfying, creating the perfect balance between comfort and sensation. I tested it during a variety of situations (you know me, always thorough!), and it consistently delivered. It’s long-lasting and doesn’t dry out mid-play, meaning fewer interruptions and more uninterrupted fun. --- Performance: Silky Smooth from Start to Finish Pjur Original absolutely lives up to its reputation as one of the best silicone lubes on the market. Here’s what stood out to me: Unmatched Longevity: This lube doesn’t quit. A little goes a long way, and I didn’t have to reapply, even during long, steamy sessions. Waterproof: Perfect for shower or bath play! It held up beautifully without losing its silky texture. Non-Sticky: Unlike some lubes that leave a tacky residue, Pjur keeps everything feeling smooth and clean. --- Versatility: Beyond the Bedroom One of the surprising perks of Pjur Original is its versatility. Not only is it a phenomenal lubricant, but it also works as a skin conditioner or massage oil. I’ve used it to give sensual massages, and my clients rave about how soft and luxurious their skin feels afterward. --- Things to Consider While I’m head over heels for Pjur, it’s worth noting a couple of things: Silicone Toys Caution: Since it’s silicone-based, it’s not compatible with silicone toys. Stick to glass, metal, or other non silicone toys when using this lube. Or water based lube. Wash Up Required: Silicone lubes don’t dissolve in water like water-based options, so you’ll need soap and water to wash it off completely. Final Verdict: Is Pjur Original Worth It? Without a doubt, yes! Pjur Original Silicone Lube is one of the best investments you can make for your pleasure arsenal. Its silky texture, long-lasting performance, and versatility make it a go-to for anyone looking to enhance their intimate moments. As a Gold Coast escort, my priority is creating unforgettable, sensual experiences—and Pjur has become a trusted companion in making those moments even better. If you’re ready to add a touch of luxury and ease to your playtime, this lube is a must-try. So, what are you waiting for, darling? Let’s make every touch, every kiss, and every moment unforgettable. Xoxo, Natalie

Within the following pages are 10 commandments to guide and aid escorts in providing a better, more professional escorting service to clients. This has been created for entertainment purposes, with a pragmatic approach of aiming to educate current workers and potential new workers on some guidelines that allow you to provide the most professional service to your clients. With two years of industry experience, I have the emotional awareness to understand this is the sex industry, and so how you decide to attract clients is slightly different to your standard business. For example it is commonly known not to have sex with the person you are doing business with, sex workers have sex with people to create business. You probably shouldn’t go out and try to intimately flirt with people to then pitch them your next business venture during pillow talk, but going out to intimately flirt with potential clients is how a sex worker may attract new clients. A digital marketing agency can practically post whatever they like on social media, sex workers are limited – which I agree with to some extent, what irritates me and probably most people is just the inconsistency. Just like in a standard business, sometimes you’re going to need to do something that no one else is willing to do to succeed. Do something that most people will tell you not to, but a lot would secretly enjoy seeing you pull off. You can have a lot of fun as an escort trying to attract new clients, because the aim of the game (at least for me) is to make people feel good, have fun, and escape from the mundane ties of life. Personally, I am willing to be a little more bold, take some risks, willing to be a little different, just to break the cycle of everyone’s day. In a world where everyone is bored, bring something different. And from my perspective so many escorts just look the same, men and woman. People enter the industry, copy and paste a bio, take some sexy photos in the exact same poses, and call it a day expecting the money and clients to just roll in. I’ll be the first to put my hand up and say I was slightly guilty of this in the beginning – in the beginning I wrote an immaculate biography, and went for a professional boudoir photo shoot, and I honestly thought the work was going to be a lot different to what it has been. Since then I have changed my business model a few times, taken some risks, failed, possibly changed someone’s life, and found a deep appreciation for the work that we escorts provide. While sex is the biggest element of this work, sex is so much more than just putting a penis in a vagina. What are you going to do to make people want you? What will make people want to keep you around? If it is just sex & your appearance that you offer you are replaceable unless it is the best sex in the world, your physical beauty will fade and there will be new soon.   As escorts we are working with people, we are working with physical bodies, we are working with emotions, we are working with spirits, we are working with psychological experiences, and both escort & client matter, and we both share our own individual positive and negative memories and future desires. People claim to be bored. People are unsatisfied with their sex lives, their marriages, their jobs, their neighbours, even their pet dog scruffy fucks them off three times a week. Do you understand human nature at a fundamental level? Do you know how to deal with conversations about traumatic experiences? Are you trying to add value to the other person or just me, me, me, me, take, take, take, take. Did you know that different cultures have different values around business, with some cultures putting emphasis on giving more value, to receive more in return. Think ‘the law of reciprocity’. Money does not always equal value, and value does not always cost a large amount of money.       THE 10 COMMANDMENTS TO BE THE BEST ESCORT 1. Do an STI screening regularly If you are regularly having sex and seeing clients. STAY REGULARLY TESTED! While the new decriminalisation laws within applicable states allow workers to work without being tested, I arbitrarily believe that not getting tested can lead to the spread of dieses more easily. Obviously, there may be workers & business owners who disagree with me here, and so please educate me on how not being regularly tested keeps EVERYONE safe. I understand that there was a large amount of people who were anti-vax during the covid-19 pandemic, those who did not want to get vaxxed, and wanted the freedom to make their own choices; so under this premise I understand a provider may exercises their body, their rules. That being said, being vaccinated and being tested are two different things. One is putting a substance into your body, the other is finding out if you have a transmittable disease that needs to be treated. Using covid as an example again, you may have tested positive to the illness so you took the required steps to stay isolated & eliminate the sickness. Just as being tested positive to most STI’s may mean you do not service clients for a limited time while you cure the infection. From all accounts that I talk to about this subject, most STI’s are treatable. At the bare minimum be tested once every three months. DO AN STI SCREENING REGULARLY.   2. Educate yourself on SEX and STI’s Sex is so much more then a penis going into a vagina, learn the skills that make even the most basic vanilla sex fun and lively, it could be as simple as moaning, grunting, and dirty talk during sex. Learn how to entice the masculine and feminine within sex’s that you intend to service. Both you & your clients may get stuck in your thoughts from time to time during a booking, do you know how to bring yourself back to the present. Learning about STI’s is essential to this line of work, there are some stigma’s around STI’s. Obviously no STI is a fun experience and you won’t wear a badge of honour that says, “I have the clap and am proud”. The talk & thought of STI’s can bring on anxiety but a lot of STI’s are treatable and curable today as mentioned above. Learn how to have fun, good sex. Learn how to have safe sex. EDUCATE YOURSELF ON SEX & STI’s. 3. Treat the client how you would like to be treated “My time my rules”, “Their paying me for MY BODY”, “I hate when clients try to milk the most out of a booking” a few of the uncomfortable comments I have come across within this industry. Yes, it is your time, yes it is your body; it is also the clients’ time, the clients’ body, the clients’ money, the clients social & professional risk. If sex work was paying $55.73 an hour do you really think you would still be saying “my body, my time”? Would you even still be a sex worker? Probably not. Go get a standard job and tell your boss that you will work when you want, how you want, because it is your time, your life, your energy. They will say, “Oh, I’m so sorry you’re right. It’s my job, my paycheck, and my position that says you’re now fired. Enjoy your life”. I could imagine that even being an escort for a reputable agency would have similar consequences. Put your ego aside and accept the fact that these clients are paying good money and deserve good treatment. Have your boundaries, stay safe, sane, consensual, and comfortable; should the client behave in a manner that is inappropriate have the conversations that need to be had, and if necessary take the steps to never see them again. I have heard accounts of working men who stay glued to their phone the entire booking, talking to their girlfriend at home. I have heard about men who asked clients to pay a full hour of pay or make another booking just to reassure a client that they (the provider) had a good time. Are you that money hungry that you can not even send a thirty second voice message that says, “Hello gorgeous, thank you for seeing me, you were a wonderful client to spend time with, and I look forward to seeing you again soon”, fuck me! That is a 7.74 second message. There are people generating tenfold the amount of money as you, tenfold more busy then you, add tenfold more value then you and they still have the time of day to reply to fan mail, you as a professional worker have the time to send a TEN SECOND voice message that says, “I had a great time”. I had a client tell me that they hired escorts previously who busted in ten – twenty minutes and then went to sleep for the remaining four hours. That is appalling. TREAT THE CLIENT HOW YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED.   4. Your price tag is not your real value Just because you look good for the camera, with an oiled body, edited professional photos; or are a pretty face with big breasts and a perky ass, does not mean you are worth the price you set. Marketing gurus may say otherwise, but you are not always worth that price. It’s just like a coach selling you their $10,000 a month service without a legitimate business behind them. As Culture Kings founder Simon Beard has said, “Coaches are selling their ‘knowledge’ without having built a legitimate business or achieved a great deal of success. Their business model is coaching to help fund their coach”. It’s just like people who see the DJ selling out shows with 10,000 people, jumping up and down, pressing a couple buttons and think I can become a world famous DJ & producer. To be a REAL DJ is hard work. While producing a track is a lot easier than it was ten years ago, are you just dragging and dropping a sound or creating something slightly unique? Are you regurgitating the presentation your coach presented to you or are you creating something completely unique? Only you know. People (men & women) see the price tag of a successful escort, enjoy sex (like everyone), and think that’s for me I’m going to be rich and have lots of sex. You do not need to be the best lay; you do not need to know everything about sex in the beginning; you do not need to be the smartest person or the most attractive. But you do need to genuinely like interacting with people; have a fundamental understanding of human nature and behaviour; be willing to listen, learn, & grow; and understand and enjoy the facts, that there is more to sex & sexuality than a penis filling a hole. Now that Australia is slowly decriminalising sex work you are going to need to do more and more work to be successful. Depending on your target demographic, aspirations & career goals, you are going to have to continuously work on yourself, work on your skills, do emotional work, and possibly travel to see more of the world. I seriously question how the fuck some females enter this industry and instantly start charging $1,500 an hour. I won’t turn this into a political debate, but when an extremist tells me there are pay gaps that men in Australia are paid more because they are men, I simply ask, “Have you looked at the sex industry in Australia?”. Can you speak another language fluently? How good are you at sex? Are you about to give the man the best sex of his life? Do you have a brain? Do you have a point of difference? Your beauty will fade if you do not look after yourself. For men the standard rate is between $300 - $500 an hour, even men who I know for a fact have great sexual skills, a brain on them, and are attractive, would struggle to charge over $1,000 an hour. Conversely there are some males who should not be charging $500 an hour because they do not have any of the hallmarks of being a genuinely good gentleman, their profiles look horrible, they say they are intelligent while half of their sentences are missing words & letters, and they are not adding any value or educating people in anyway shape or form. Having an OF account (OnlyFans) does not mean you are adding value or educating people. Here are two examples of providers who I believe demonstrate value to their price point. Male – Rhys Phillips or Rhys Sensual. He is tall, muscular, an attractive man, in his 30’s, and has a warm social presence. On his TikTok he adds value to the community and clients by sharing his knowledge and experience of sex, and sexuality. His public price ranges from $500 - $800 an hour. Female – Jenna Love. She is not your ‘stereotypical’ hot, blonde, model with big fake tits and thick ass. She is a curvy woman, mature age (36), has strawberry blonde hair, a seductive smile, big natural breasts & a thick ass. She adds immense value to the community through her podcast channel and Instagram reels where she answers questions, and discusses comments that people may make. Her public price starts at $700 an hour. What I believe this demonstrates to clients is that they (Rhys & Jenna) are professionals who know what they are doing and talking about. As a client you are in good, safe hands. They (Rhys & Jenna) have the knowledge to understand and address your individual needs. Due to the nature of this work, I believe that both of these providers price points are equal to the value you receive. They have also been providers for a number of years. Your rate is over $1,000 an hour while you’re making stupid toks, smoking weed all day, snorting your paycheck, and complaining about inflation.  YOUR PRICE TAG IS NOT YOUR VALUE.   5. Self-respect Hold yourself accountable. Set boundaries for yourself. Carry yourself in a way that you can nobly hold your own head high – it’s on your shoulders. Can you look at yourself in the mirror and say, “You are one great person”. This is vitally important for this line of work because to often uneducated people think of us (escorts) as just an object, a piece of meat that steals peoples money, takes advantage of the lonely, or are just cock and pussy whores. And while most sex workers do probably have a stronger interest in sex than most, we are also human and have other interests. Remember this as a provider; you matter, you are a human, you do deserve to feel safe, you deserve to love & be loved. Should a client or a person you are speaking with about the work, make you feel uncomfortable about yourself or your work, remember that you are number one in your own life. If what someone else is saying is not coming from a place intelligence, respect, or is not constructive, then listen to yourself and hold your head high. SELF-RESPECT.   6. Hygiene Some providers have clients shower and use mouth wash prior to the sexual engagement; most providers that I have talked to will do a quick STI screening at the beginning of the sexual interaction. I personally believe the client deserves the same level of hygienic respect. Now because we (the escorts) are the ones providing the services, and the ones supplying the business we do not have to shower in front of the client, nor do we need to let them do an STI screening on us, though if they ask to see your erogenous area, does it really hurt to educate them and demonstrate how they might perform a STI screening when they are with someone else. Depending on your work load will determine whether you shower before & after every single client. Obviously if you are seeing four, five, six clients in one day you may not have a shower before and after every single client. Though a thirty second rinse & re-fresh may not hurt you. For arguments sake let’s say you had one booking for the day; in your booking preparation have a shower, clean yourself, and freshen up. Why does your client not deserve that level of professionalism? Have a shower and give your client the best presentation. For some of us the shower symbolises the transition into our working character. The shower after could be in your own time; or should both you & the client(s) be comfortable, and sharing the water as after care, you could use this time to clean yourselves. I shouldn’t have to explain why showering and cleaning yourself after a sexual experience is good for your hygiene. Other hygienic practices are maintaining oral health and ensuring that you do not have bad breath, seeing a dentist a couple times a year, use mouthwash prior to bookings, do not shower yourself in twenty layers of deodorant and perfume but still smell nice; and while it may not be categorised as hygiene, iron or steam your clothes. Really simple things that tell the client you want to impress them. HYGIENE. 7. Escort directories are not dating sites! Dating apps can be tastefully used to attract clients, but escort directories should not be used to find the love of your life. It’s that simple. This rule is tailored more to nuance providers, as it seems some profiles present themselves as a dating profile more than an escorting business. While most of us offer a GFE & BFE which could entail dating services, it is transactional, it is business. If you are lonely yourself do not put an add on a directory in hopes to find a new wife or husband. ESCORT DIRECTORIES ARE NOT DATING SITES.   8. Learn a self-defence Especially all lady workers. I have heard that some carry pepper spray, some girls know kick boxing. At the very least I personally believe as a woman you want to be able to inflict enough pain that you can escape the danger adequately. Obviously there are a range of things you can do depending on your situation, but be prepared to bite, scratch, poke an eye, break something etc; then leave as fast as you can. Learn Ju Jitsu, Mauy Thai/ Kick boxing, Judo, or Kung Fu. Something that teaches you defence and counter attacks. For the men, learning self-defence is also a recommendation, maybe not so much for problems with clients but for other individuals. I always promote de-escalation with words, “The most successful battles & wars are won without violence” Sun Tzu The Art of War. It is better to know something and never need it than need it and not know it. LEARN A SELF-DEFENCE.   9. Safety first Until the decriminalisation laws were passed I believe sex workers couldn’t even have other sex workers as their ‘safety’ – a common industry term referring to the person we tell our whereabouts too. A simple location and name of the person you are seeing is sufficient enough. This is a worker’s protection, or at the very least the problem solver God forbid the very worst case scenario happen. And while you the client may be the loveliest person in the world, most workers will have the anxious thought in the back of their mind, “What if this person tries to kill me?”. Some of us are sleeping at the rendezvous with our clients that we have just met, it is only normal to think the what ifs. Know your exits. Worst case scenario how do you get out. Be careful of food and drink. You can never be too safe, though you do not want to be over paranoid, you could ruin a genuinely good, fun, experience. Just be aware. SAFETY FIRST.   10.              Make time for yourself and only you As an escort you are constantly fulfilling other peoples desires, needs, and wants. It is vital to take time to do the things your birth identity enjoy doing. Reading a book, planning a high-quality date with your partner or friends, just watching a movie by yourself, sex that is focused on your individual pleasures, exercising etc. Doing something that you thoroughly enjoy and allows you to shut off from the world for a short period. This is vital for highly active providers.  MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF AND ONLY YOU.   This extra rule has been added because I think that it is vital to the growth of this industry. This industry just like the creative industries could move society forward in a positive direction. This requires collaborations and having discussions not arguments about different views and beliefs. Unfortunately there is too much bitching, gossip, he’s right, she has a certificate, that’s wrong because I wouldn’t do that, jealously and a range of other bullshit. Everyone is right. Everyone is perfect. We all take golden shits first thing in the morning.   11.              Do not criticise other workers if you are not prepared to be criticised yourself   Unless you are prepared to hear criticism from others do not criticise the way someone else conducts their business. Your uneducated, emotional, self-righteousness is not wanted. The conversation of sex and sexual education can create hostile conversations, hot debates, and hurt emotions. Just like when discussing religion and politics everyone wants their voice to be heard, they want their beliefs to be the one & only and if you’re not in agreeance with us than you are against us. This mindset does not create growth, it does not move society forward, it does not aid anyone. All it does it create resentment, hate, and emotional arguments. You do not have to agree with everything that everyone says – even those you look up to. I love the work of Jordan Peterson he is an intelligent man, but still disagree with him from time to time. I think that males do need to swallow the red pill and stop being little sissy’s, accept responsibility, be more accountable, and learn to be a better role model, though I do not agree with the red pill movement that woman should not have any rights and men should be total dictators. Feminism is great, woman should be allowed to work, excel and even build companies if they so wish, there should not be a pay gap just because she is female and he male – though someone working a retail job should NOT be earning the same as someone laying roof sheets on houses all day or a surgeon saving lives; woman should be allowed to vote, if she wants to grow hair on her legs so be it – The book ‘She Doesn’t owe you pretty by Florence Given’ explains this perfectly; woman are human! Though I believe that extreme feminist’s hurt society just as much as the red pill movement. I support the LGBT and believe gay people should have a right to get married, and raise a child if they are fit to be a parent – there are heterosexual parents that fail at this miserably, so who is to say a sound educated gay couple can not raise a decent adult. Though your 10+ genders can shove it! It is one thing to have a view that is opposite to someone and expressing your personal beliefs. Differences allow for growth. But if you are going to publicly or privately share your belief or thoughts, bring facts & intelligence, not emotions.   Let’s look at a good example where I constructively criticised someone within the sex industry. Bonnie Blue. A female worker who is under public scrutiny within the sex industry at the moment. When she posted the video of her & a friend walking down a main city street holding signs saying, “Shag for free” with families and children walking past I criticised her, making a comment on her video. While I am in full support of making sex less taboo, and creating better sexual education around the world, that is not the way or place to do it. Great content idea, wrong place. I did my best not to appear emotional and just state a fact that children & families do not want or NEED to see that as they walk the street in the middle of the day. I also disagree with her schoolies skits where she has sex with barely legal schoolies to create content, yes they are eighteen and of age to make their own choices such as: have sex, drink, smoke, go out to clubs, vote; now being seen as adults, but 98% of them still have no fucking clue what life is. Even at twenty-six myself I have no fucking clue what this great big, complexation of life is. This all being said, I also agree with what some of Bonnie talks about, and also think that some of her other content is pure gold. When she says that women need to put out more for their husbands I understand her point of view. I’m not about to speak about this at length because her viewpoint creates a very deep, complex discussion that involves sexual education, responsibilities from those involved, and males also becoming more accountable and accepting responsibility. Why would a woman put out for her husband if he has let himself go and is not as sexy as he once was? Why would a woman put out if the man is not creating the desired environment? Why would a man create the environment if he doesn’t believe his woman will EVER give him anything in return? Maybe he thinks because his woman has become lethargic with her life, he can be lethargic with his life? Bonnie’s view point for this particular issue opens a very big and necessary relationship conversation. I also think that the content where she spontaneously put her location online and says to come have sex with her for five minutes is ingenious. Providing she upholds a strict age restriction and checks all ID’s, provides the release forms for people to sign, all parties are consensual, and not related; this content is pure gold. She is a hot, blonde, British bombshell, with the confidence to match. she knows she is hot and she has the confidence to do what a lot of industry workers would not. I would enjoy seeing this spontaneous location content become something more, she had a line of men outside the rendezvous! She could create the sex industry edition of ‘The Amazing Race’. Have people travel around different parts of a city or even the world with hidden clues as to where to travel next, and at the end they have the reward of her graciousness. She could use the different locations to educate people on the history of sex, and the sex industry; or even her own kinky adventures throughout life. For example, one of the hidden clues could be hidden at the first park she had sex in (I hope my assumption is not making an ass out of you & me), what a way to tease and excite those who are playing the race.   Above is an example of constructive criticism within this industry. A lot of people within the industry, particularly within Australia hate Bonnie for the content she has made, especially the schoolies content, and last I heard she is banned from entering Australia. Before you decide to send me hate mail for also conferring Bonnie credit for her good quality content I want you to look at the phone you have, do you have an Iphone? Apple was known to make its original products from child slaves. Do you own a pair of Nike shoes? Nike was under scrutiny years ago for making their products through sweat shops. Do you have a channel bag? Apparently one of their most popular bags is produced for $80 and sold for $3,000! Do you own Balenciaga? Recently they went under scrutiny for a very bad campaign. There are many more examples of brands that either have bad practices and/ or a poor culture behind closed doors, and you still support them. Last I checked you do not NEED the newest Iphone to survive, buy a cheap touch phone that allows you text & calls, and tell your friends & clients to contact you via SMS or calls. You do not NEED a $5,000 bag, there are plenty of bags that serve the exact same purpose and look just as cute for a fraction of the price. There is a meme of a girl sitting with a mac computer that has a sticker saying fuck capitalism, while she has either a branded bag or clothing, and is drinking a large Starbucks coffee – I hope I do not need to explain every contradiction. So while I stand by the rest of industry that does not condone some of Bonnies actions, I also believe that she can use this experience to learn, grow, and create better more suitable sex content.   Different views create growth. CONSTRUCTIVE CRITISM creates growth. Your uneducated emotional overreaction does nothing but make the person your criticising want to continue, especially if you are not in a position that they are trying attain themselves. You are not a perfect saint yourself.   DO NOT CRITICISE OTHER WORKERS IF YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO BE CRITICISED YOURSELF. THE 10 COMMANDMENTS TO BE THE BEST ESCORT   Thank you for reading, Lexx Soule.

If it wasn't for my regular clients, I'd probably give this up. I'll never understand the joy men get from being abusive towards an escort, or wasting their time, or wanting a free fuck.. sure, I'll fuck you for free, when you service my car, do my yard maintenance, or fix things around the place. Until then, boot off with your bs.

So you want to hire an escort for sex, companionship, to be arm candy, to travel with, to play video games with – that’s an expensive game; or a wide range of other personal reasons. Welcome to the sex industry, and in particular welcome to the escorting side of the industry. Escorts are a great option to hire for several reasons, ranging from a rebound from a shitty ex to losing your virginity within a safe, professional and hopefully educational environment. From just accompanying you for a dinner, to travelling with you afar. From joining a kinky couple to exploring a singles wild side. From joining the lonely old lady to the ever busy business man. Escorts see it all. There is not a lot that could surprise full time escorts. Something that seems to be an issue is an understanding of what we escorts expect from clients as far as behaviour and standards are concerned. There are sights, pages, and forums that do cover a lot of what I am about to discuss; though with the growing interest of escorts, and the decriminalisation of sex work in Australia this type of information can never be overstated. We (escorts) are a business. We are humans. We have behaviours and expectations to upheld. And so do you the clients. These 10 commandments are guidelines to being the best client you can be, every escort runs their business slightly different, every escort is their own individual person, and what you are about to read are guidelines that most escorts would probably agree with. Bring your best self to the bookings and you give yourself the best chance at receiving the best service that, that escort can offer.   The 10 commandments to being the best client     1. DO NOT ASK FOR DISCOUNTS While you may think that because in previous blogs I have mentioned that you should enquire about a providers service by asking respectful, thoughtful questions as you would when buying a washing machine, fridge or great bed; that you can ask for discounts the same you would for these products. This is unfortunately not the case. Because while we do provide a service, and we are a ‘product’ we are also a human. And our services are much different. Should you be seeing your provider on a regular basis – at least once a month for a minimum of 6 months, then sure you could negotiate a discounted price with your provider. We have a better understanding of who you are, how you will treat us, and the services you desire; you are also demonstrating a higher level of commitment to our business. This is not a guarantor message that you will ever receive a discount from any provider, just some words of advice for those who ask for discounts in life. Should you be asking for a discount on your first interaction you will irritate your provider which in turn leads to a less pleasant experience for you. Like I said, you may walk into a homewares & kitchen store and ask for a discount on a fridge, even working escorts have done this. Trying to bargain and learn how to negotiate within life is a great skill, timing is a key element in negotiating. Commit to your provider regularly before asking for a discount, that is the nature of this game. Do not chuck a tantrum if they say, “No discounts”. That is their business and obviously if you have been paying them for the last few months they must have something you like.   DO NOT ASK FOR DISCOUNTS.    2. DO NOT SEND TIME WASTING MESSAGES This is an occupation for us; and while we do have empathy and genuine care for you, your life, and your difficulties we do not want to be called in the middle of the day to ‘chat’, we do not want to be updated about your troubled marriage, your annoying kids, the dog that just won’t shut up because it has dementia at the ripe old age of sixteen. We too have our own difficulties, wives, husbands, friends and family members needing things from us. This is a transaction. This is business.  All this being said, there are some providers – I can’t be the only one; who have platonic conversations with clients and potential clients online from time to time. At the time of writing this I allow people to DM me through social media, and all that I confer with, understand to stay patient with my replies. Sometimes I am free for a ten-minute conversation, other times that same conversation may be prolonged out over a few days. For me, replying to DM’s is no different to the entrepreneurs who respond to emails of fans. Other examples of time-wasting messages are, “How much do you charge”, shows you have done no due diligence. “Hi hru”. “Do you offer discounts”, explained previously. “Have you got any plans this weekend”, and/ or stringing the conversation on like you are willing to make a booking, with no real intention of making a booking. Genuine questions like, “What exactly is xyz service?”, “I really want to do abc, is this a service you are willing to provide?”, that contribute to the progress of the booking either happening or not, are acceptable.   DO NOT SEND TIME WASTING MESSAGES. 3.  PAY YOUR DEPOSIT! Personally I have never had this problem, but it does seem to be a common issue amongst female providers. The potential male clients will show interest, ask good questions, send reasonable photos of themselves. Though the second the conversation of a deposit is made they ghost the girl. THIS IS TIME WASTING TO A T! If you are a potentially new male client reading this blog, or any potentially new client at all; understand that some workers will ask you to pay a non-refundable deposit. Each worker has a different rate, and policy around their deposits. Most will let you change dates once if an emergency is to arise, others will make you pay the deposit again. These deposits are to prevent you from wasting our time. When you make a booking with us we schedule that time slot for work, you cancelling is an inconvenience to us and our schedule. Imagine if your boss was to ask you to work, you then decline a friend’s invitation to do something fun because of your work commitment, then the boss rings and says, “Cancel that day, I don’t need you”. You than ring your friend to say you can join them, only to find out that the activity is now full. Maybe you are the boss and own a company, imagine you have a business meeting with another company but then they just pull out for no reason at all, I know for a fact that most of you who own a business would feel annoyed. Things do happen and if the owner of the other company rang and said we have to reschedule the meeting my partner just died; an empathetic, compassionate business person would understand. Do you see what I am saying here. I also understand that some clients may want to pay the full amount in cash. Explain this to the provider and they can make the adult choice for their business. Again, if they say the deposit must be paid prior to the engagement, do not throw a tantrum, and either pay the deposit or just wish them a good day.   PAY YOUR DEPOSIT. 4. NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER APPROACH A PROVIDER IN GENERAL DAY TO DAY LIFE! We have private lives, we have family & friends, some providers are closed face, some providers have other occupations, we may be with another client. Just as you would hate our wives, husbands, and friends approaching you & I when we are together; we do not want you approaching us when we are out and about. Please do not take it personal, you may be our favourite client, there is just one hundred and one reasons why a provider does not want you to walk up to them in public and start a conversation. Now look you’re human, I’m human; through the great serendipity of this world we might be standing at a same café at the exact same time, next to each other. Should a provider be appearing alone in line I personally do not see any harm in starting a PLATONIC conversation with a STRANGER. “Oh wow, you’re a handsome young man”, “You have pretty shoes”, “I like your hair, did you get it cut recently?” small little compliments that DO NOT REVEAL anything about us, and allow us providers to remain ‘unseen’. Should we answer with short answers, or seem uninterested in the conversation do not take it personally. We may be with a client you can not see, we may be on our way to a client, we may just not want to engage in conversation. Should the provider return friendly conversation do not reveal the fact that you & they have a private escort, client relationship. Do not ask if you can make a booking. Do not ask us when we are free next. Keep it simple, talk about your day, the shoes that caught your attention, maybe an event that is on, the coffee shop that you are currently at.   NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER APPROACH A PROVIDER IN GENERAL DAY TO DAY LIFE!   5.  Hygiene Unless you have made prior arrangements to see the provider in dirty, old, sweaty clothes; please present yourself respectfully and hygienically. Clean clothes, clean body, oral care. Really simple basic things that you should be doing before any date. Some providers may still ask you to shower again, and to use the mouthwash they supply, do not argue or complain, it’s part of the process for most providers. If you are intending to have a sexual booking with kissing; brush your teeth a few hours before that experience, not directly before. As I have recently learnt myself, brushing your teeth can cause micro cuts, which can lead to transmission of dieses more easily. Experienced providers will have a good gauge whether you are clean or not and sometimes may begin the booking without asking you to shower. Again, do not argue with the provider or make a fuss over it, just do as they ask. HYGIENE.   6. Sobriety Please do not arrive to the bookings overly intoxicated. This includes but is not limited to being drunk, being high on meth, cocaine, copious amounts of weed, LSD, mushrooms etc. Some of you have probably just read a couple of those substance and thought, “What the fuck, here comes the fun police”, and look there is a reason that sex is the first word in ‘sex, drugs, rock & roll’, and if you have followed me for a while you know a little about my story – a couple bongs or a doobie never hurt; when times are desperate a Coca-Cola can works wonders (stoners will understand); I have been known to bake the best brownies; I’m a ‘bad boy’ and partied over my years. I have disassociated myself with that lifestyle, though I’m not a prudish saint. As a professional though I highly recommend being sober for bookings with escorts. We need you to be cognitive for one hundred and one reasons, and apart from weed, those other drugs have the potential to have some seriously negative side effects, especially if you lose control. Being with someone stuck in an unstable psychosis is dangerous and scary.   A little while ago I had a client who was a heavy alcoholic, and I did not find this out until I arrived. For the most part she was a lovely lady and quite attractive. We had relatively normal conversations, her texting was completely normal, she was cognitive, she was able to clearly consent and communicate. Though when things became a little uncomfortable for me and I said that I had to leave I was aggressively told that I was a bad person, and to fuck off. She then later apologised and asked to see me again, I agreed providing she had a glass of water for every glass of vodka she had. She was a good girl. The reason I am telling this story is for two reasons; (1) the educational purpose of workers, (2) to educate clients on the risks. A lot of people within this world (earth) use substances, smoke cigarettes, and have vices; either as copying mechanisms, stress relief, or an escape from their reality. As a provider you need to be aware of this and make your own judgements for your own self about whether or not you service people with such vices. Some workers do not, some do. Let’s imagine that my client was a cocaine addict or ice addict and when I said I was uncomfortable and was leaving, she became violent instead of verbal. While drunks & alcoholics can be equally violent & dangerous, from my experiences they are a little less coordinated than those on substances like cocaine and ice. If you know anything about those two drugs you will know what I am talking about. Should you be a client using these substances you put yourself at risk when hiring escorts. What if you hired a bad person who was selling themselves as an escort, you pass out drunk, wake up and all your valuables are gone. That would be horrible! SOBRIETY. 7.  Treat the escort how you want to be treated Would you like an irritated, miserable, arrogant provider? And not in the consensual way where you’ve asked for a spanking and dirty words. The kind that complains and nags about everything you do wrong, the kind that sits on their phone the entire time, the kind that says I’m going to pleasure you for fours but then jack hammers you for ten minutes. Would you like your escort arriving to a booking stoned off their face & drunk? 95% of clients answered no to that last question. So, we (escorts) need you not to be an irritated, miserable, arrogant client. Just some basic respect really. No man whore/ slut shaming! No trying to cut the bill! No taking videos & photos without our consent! Do not threaten our identities if we are closed face! I don’t know what’s worse, man whore/ slut shaming; or the fact that you are willing to pay for a man whore/ slut in the first place….. Should the escort not live up to your expectation, that is unfortunate, do not see them again. This is why if it is your first time hiring someone, I recommend only paying for two hours. Two hours allows a comfortable amount of time to become acquainted and settle the nerves with conversation and a massage, the sex, and the aftercare. Should you just desire companionship for the first booking, two hours is a great time to have a good conversation and gauge whether or not the escort is someone you could spend time with. Sometimes escorts are like an expensive brand of shoes, they look great, but they just don’t fit your foot or give you blisters. Should you have the spare cash and intend to have a long term relationship, then a longer eight hour booking would be the best booking length for first time interactions because you will develop a strong sense of whether the escort you hired is the right escort for you.   TREAT THE ESCORT HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.    8. Be punctual Should the booking time be arranged for 7:00pm, be at the rendezvous at 7:00pm. if it’s a hotel booking and you’re waiting in your room not the lobby, I would say that is acceptable. Do not make the escort wait in the lobby for hours on end. There are very rare cases where for whatever reason the booking is delayed, simply contact the provider as soon as you know there will be a delay, apologies and give them an eta. The provider may at their full disclosure decline the booking and leave, or ask for a waiting fee/ extension. This is where showing the provider respect with your initial enquiry and messages is important; should you have sent all the information the escort asks for, a clear photo (if they request one), and paid your deposit you will most likely have an escort more willing to wait for you. Should you have complained, nagged and tried to cut the fees the worker will be irritated and be less inclined to stay. If you leave the provider waiting longer then fifteen minutes without an update and information regarding your whereabouts, they have every right to leave the rendezvous and keep the deposit. My rule after my one incident became if you are more than fifteen minutes late to the rendezvous without a legitimate reason, I will be excusing myself. You would be irritated if your escort arrived late. Escorts become irritated when you arrive late. WE ARE NOT SLAVES!   BE PUNCTUAL.    9. We do not want to date you Genuinely good escorts, that enjoy their work adore their clients, we have a deep-rooted empathy, we enjoy making you smile, we enjoy giving you a space to adventure your sexuality and so much more. What we are giving you though is a fantasy, or at least the very best version of ourselves. We are not Tinder, we are not eHarmony, we are escorts. We are not going to stop doing this line of work to be with you; we aren’t lonely and depressed; we have our own sexual, intimate, psychological needs; We have things that we do not show. Thankfully I haven’t had to face this scenario yet, talking to some female providers apparently it is quite common. How would you be able to handle the fact that we will continue to do this work? You are not going to ‘save’ us. We do not need ‘saving’ – well most of us don’t. Save yourself the stress, strain, and sanity, and leave this as an escort client relationship Have you experienced family troubles, relationship troubles, employment troubles or any other troubles? Fun fact. We escorts have those things too. We may not talk about them like you, which you need to respect if we choose not to, as we do you. But surprise, surprise we too take the rubbish out, go to the toilet, have a family that is nagging us, a friendship circle that need us, and a range of other normal life things. Escorts are either a fantasy character or our very best selves. Not your lifelong partner.   WE DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU.   10.              Educate yourself Educate yourself on sex work, escorting and STI’s. doing this will aid you in being respectful of what we do and the services we provide. Instagram pages like ‘The Good Client Guide’ provide a great stepping stone for the education clients need - https://www.instagram.com/thegoodclientguide/ You do not need to be an expert, you just need to demonstrate to us providers that you care enough about the experience to learn. You care enough about the business relationship that we share, that you will make us feel safe. Demonstrate to us that you value us. Demonstrate that you genuinely want us to be there. Demonstrate to us that you are looking at a person, and an individual not just a novelty sex doll. You can be quirky, you can be yourself, you can be different, just be your best self, your most well-mannered self – saying please, thank you, bless you, pardon me goes a long way. Even my alcoholic client mentioned earlier had great manners. Most professional escorts accept & welcome your differences, you are you; we just also want to be treated like a person too. When you educate yourself on sex work, escorting, being a client, STI’s, and sex as a whole, you will theoretically behave in a much more appropriate manner with your escort. You will begin to see the importance of this work, and how we are not just objects of penetration. We too want to feel like we actually matter, and that we are adding value to someone else’s life. Begin educating yourself on sex, sex work, consent, STI’s, and human nature to help bring your best self to the booking, giving yourself the best chance at a good time.   EDUCATE YOURSELF.

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Well nothing uh bad, I mean size queens would say it's great, other would say it's a lot (at first) The 99% man. If your unsure what that means well, I'm large, like top 1% of the population large. Twice the average length and girth that is wider then the average length. I'm not bragging, I'm not one of these size is the only thing that's important guys, I'm actually quite the opposite. I jokingly say, they call it too big, then they don't stop calling. But it's also the level of comfort and care that often hasn't been experienced before. But it's once again not about the size, it's about everything that comes before. I call it the invitation. 1) well this should be the first 5) butf oreplay, foreplay, foreplay. That begins with the mind, it's the conversation, it's the music, it's the soft lighting and the fragrance I have chosen based on what I know about you. It's the slow undressing, the slipping into a robe. It's the Relaxing massage where you get used to my touch, where you can release tension from the day or from the nerves of having someone new touching you. Then it's the foreplay. Where I check in, find you what you like, asking for permission to kiss and touch and adjusting speed and pressure. I am being directed by your breath, your lips and how they curve, your eyes, their dilation and how often you blink, your toes. I am figuring you out like an instrument a complex equation that I want to find the answer for. Waiting for the moment of you being fully open and ready. And it's not just shoving it in and getting to work. It's checking in, finding thep ositions that work for you, some likep ressure on their cervix othersf ind it painful. I have found some clients have completely different orgasms after menopause, if this is something you have experienced we can workshop it together. I'll bring texters, craft paper and we can put together a PowerPoint (this is a joke but totally take me up on this) It's again a mix of verbal and physical queues, listening to you, being present and in the moment. If we need to change it up we will. LL, X

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Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 12 (Monica), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-12-monica. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “You’re such a well-behaved girl Monica, you adore submitting to my whim don’t you!” Lexx rhetorically asks, receiving a submissive glare from Monica’s eyes coupled with the most gentle of affirming nods. Lexx (28) stands before his submissive twenty-three-year-old client wearing only his long silver & grey checked dress pants; Monica kneels on both knees wearing Lexx’s favourite pink lingerie set – a laced two-piece pink bra & knickers, with orange flowers embroided over the most private of the erogenous zones (nipples & vagina). With a firm two finger grip of grace Lexx supports his clients chin, keeping her nuzzle upright towards his dominant stare – a leader showing his follower who is in charge. “Once you do all that I ask of you today, you will be rewarded with cuddles, body tickles, ice-cream, and all that you need to feel like the pretty princess that you are. Do you understand?” “Yes” she gently replies. “Sorry I did not hear that?” Monica had forgotten how she was supposed to refer to Lexx. Monica has been hiring Lexx for a little over one year now, initially seeing him for her virginity to be taken away. She comes from a wealthy background and so money was no problem for the innocent girl when she desired re-hiring. With the large portion of males in her life just trying to score a few baskets she felt that seeing a professional would preserve her and prevent any damage from being done – gaining assistance from her older sister (35) to help find the right escort for her. From the moment Monica laid eyes on Lexx she felt warm, comfortable, and safe; though she could see the aura of a bad boy hiding inside of him, someone who was not meek, but a candid leader. Their first encounter was just a meal at a local lunch bar in Ascot, Brisbane; conferring about what Monica hopes to achieve from hiring Lexx and seeing if he is a good long term fit for her needs – Monicas’ older sister & boyfriend doing their due diligence unbeknownst to Lexx. Now one year later, Monica wishes to explore other realms of sex outside of vanilla, slow & sensual and the basic toys; she wants to submit to a top. Being the first time, the pair share a dominant & submissive bedroom space things are taken slowly.   “Sorry…. Yes sir” Monica correcting herself and silently pleading with Lexx’s soul through his eyes. Lexx Squats down to her eye level while maintaining his alluring stare, he wants his client’s soul, he wants to lift her spirit to places unknown to her – a soft ‘daddy’ style of domination. “Good girl Monica. Good Girl” Lexx seals the compliment with an ardent kiss that could melt a million hearts. Swiftly Lexx shoots back up to the standing position, and forces Monica’s face into his fabric covered crouch, using his right hand and hips to rub the growing piece and aphroditic face together. “You will do as you are instructed today! You will do everything I ask in order to please this cock! You will be my little slut today! Do you understand Monica?” Lexx’s tone strong, firm, but soothing at the same time. “Yes sir” Monicas’ tone not showing Lexx the enthusiasm he needs to hear. “Please answer me again Monica. Do. You. Understand. Monica?!” his tone more domineering the second time as his continues grinding his crouch against the client’s face. “Yes sir!” Monica emotes enthusiastically. “Good girl!” Lexx releases the candid pressure of his hand, setting Monica’s head free. Without hesitation she intuitively knows what to do next, rushing her hands to the button and zip, peeling Lexx’s lascivious banana out of its’ skin. While living out her hazy dream she stares at the thick seven inches by six inches of gold, stroking it softly & slowly, why rush something so delicious – both with a luscious state of mind for each other.   *Audio affects (Blowjob sounds. Male moans).   Lexx picks up his lean size ten client from the ground and lays her onto the spacious kitchen bench, fetching a pillow from the couch for her back to rest against the wall. Viciously pulling Monica’s cute lingerie from her hips and shovelling it into her mouth; proceeding to devour the luring, melting, pleasure calling flower. Cream leaks from the glorious hole and into Lexx’s warm, luscious mouth. Monica confers Lexx another delicious pussy by following his booking preparation instructions: A medical certificate, cinnamon, pineapple, plenty of water, and lots of fruit. She is a non-smoker which also aids with the taste of her wetness – A+ treatment for an A+ client. The come just flows down Lexx’s throat, “You have such delicious pussy young lady!” Lexx compliments with his full mouth of luscious, lascivious, juicy papaya. “God damn I love when women give me good tasting pussy. I’ll eat that shit all day!” are the type of thoughts running through this hungry boy’s mind. Lexx has his index, and middle finger slightly bent upwards while he scoops come out of the deepest parts of his client’s hole, a consistent good rhythm simultaneously merging with the sucking and licking motions of Lexx’s oral pleasure.   *Audio effects (Oral and fingering).   “Get down. NOW!” Lexx pulls himself away, clicking to the floor where he stood. He retrieves water from the bar fridge, opening and offering the first sips to his gorgeous client before he finishes the bottle. He encourages his client to join him in a quick two-minute stretch, before they continue copulating. Bending her over the bench and manoeuvring the pillow to a prime position for his clients’ face, he has the dominant ability of holding both her hands behind her back while he can fill her physical, spiritual, and emotional desires.   *Audio affects (Sex claps. Female/ male moans).   Thank you for reading, L.Soule.

Discretion and anonymity are a must for all escorts in Christchurch. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned professional, maintaining privacy is necessary for your safety and security. This article explores effective strategies to navigate the world of escorting while minimising your digital footprint and protecting your personal life. Keep reading! Cultivate Online Anonymity Your online presence is paramount. Here's how to establish online anonymity effectively: Pseudonyms: Use a professional pseudonym for your escort persona. Avoid using your real name or anything easily identifiable. Burner Phones: Consider using a separate phone number for escort business. This keeps your personal contacts separate and allows you to manage communication effectively. Encrypted Messaging Apps: Use encrypted messaging apps for client communication. These platforms offer additional security compared to standard texting services. Photo Selection: Be very selective with photos used on your profile. Avoid including anything that reveals your location, identifiable landmarks, or social circles. However, we still insist you use quality photos. Fake Location Services: Some platforms allow blurring or masking your location. Explore these options if available. Remember: Never share personal information like your home address or social media handles with clients. Secure Your Physical Space Your safety extends beyond the digital space. Here are some physical precautions to take: Meeting Locations: Meet clients in well-lit public places for first encounters. Once trust is established, discuss private locations with caution, choosing secure environments every time. Cash Transactions: Consider using cash for transactions to avoid traceable payment methods. Remember to discuss payment methods before committing to any encounter. Remember: Always trust your gut. If a situation feels unsafe, politely decline service and leave. Cultivate a Discreet Network with Other Escorts in Christchurch Building a network of trusted individuals can be invaluable. Here's who to include: Security Contact: Have a trusted friend or fellow Christchurch escorts informed about your appointments. Share details like location and duration and establish a code word to discreetly signal for help if needed. Medical Professional: Maintain a connection with a healthcare professional who understands the specific needs of an escort. Legal Counsel: Consulting with a lawyer familiar with the legalities of escorting in your area can provide valuable guidance and peace of mind. Practice Good Digital Discipline Developing healthy online habits goes a long way. Here are some tips that will be helpful: Separate Devices: Use a separate device for escort business to minimise the risk of data mix-up with your personal life. Regular Data Wiping: Regularly clearing browsing history, cache, and cookies on your work device will help you stay safe and anonymous. Avoid Public Wi-Fi: Escorts in Christchurch have many online enemies. Public Wi-Fi connections are vulnerable to hackers and other cyber-attacks. Use a secure Virtual Private Network (VPN) when conducting escort business online. Password Management: Set up strong, unique passwords for all your online accounts. If possible, avoid setting passwords that are your personal information and can be easy to decode. Consider a password manager for secure storage. Remember to be mindful of what you share online, even on seemingly private platforms. In Closing Maintaining privacy in the escort industry requires vigilance and a commitment to good practices. By implementing the strategies outlined above, you can minimise your digital footprint, enhance your physical safety, and lead a secure and successful escort career. What are your best tips for staying under the radar as an escort? Share your experiences in the comments below!  

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The world of escorting presents a unique set of ethical considerations. One of the most common dilemmas escorts in Auckland face is whether or not to accept clients who are married. For a profession that has for the longest time been considered taboo, there is a clear conflict between escorting and formal relationships, especially marriage. In this article, we shall discuss the boundary between escorting and society's moral compass in line with marriage.  Understanding the Client's Motivation: Why Do Married Clients Seek Escorts in Auckland Services? Married men and women who seek escorts in Auckland have a variety of motivations. Some may crave intimacy or a specific type of sexual experience missing in their marriage. Others might be battling loneliness or seeking an emotional connection outside their relationship. Understanding these motivations can help you assess the potential risks and set boundaries. It's crucial to note that escorting doesn’t necessarily involve sexual encounters; part of escorting involves pure company with no sexual relations whatsoever. Weighing the Risks of Meeting Married Clients. There are several risks involved in seeing married clients, which no school will teach you. These include: Possible Emotional Complexity: Most married clients seek to fill a gap in their marriage. For example, emotional dissatisfaction. Such clients might bring emotional baggage to the encounter, leading to potential manipulation or attachment issues. Potential for Violence: except for open relationships, most clients will seek escort services in secret, without the knowledge of their partners. A jealous spouse could pose a threat to your safety if they find this out. Legal Issues: Depending on your location, local laws regarding adultery or prostitution could come into play. It's therefore important to familiarise yourself with the law. It's crucial to put first your safety and emotional well-being. If a client displays red flags like excessive possessiveness or dishonesty, it's best to decline their request. Setting Clear Boundaries with Married Clients. Open communication comes first when dealing with married clients. Here are some steps to establish clear boundaries: Be Upfront About Your Services: Clearly define the scope of your services and avoid situations that could be misconstrued as emotional involvement. This is more common to clients who seek more than just a sexual encounter. Establish Ground Rules: Discuss expectations beforehand, including time limits and acceptable behaviour during the encounters. This will prevent any frustrations. Maintain Professional Detachment: While providing a pleasant experience, avoid emotional entanglement with the client. Respecting Your Values as An Escort in Auckland. The decision of whether to see a married client rests with you. Consider your personal values and comfort level regarding the matter. If seeing married clients goes against your moral compass, it's perfectly acceptable to decline such requests. There's a vast pool of potential clients who respect your boundaries. In Closing   The escort industry allows you to be your own boss and set your own terms. By understanding the risks and rewards of seeing married clients, you can make informed decisions that align with your values and ensure a safe and successful career. We recommend regular meditation and soul searching to evaluate your moral inclination and whether it aligns with the services you want to offer. What are your thoughts on seeing married clients? Share your experiences in the comments below!  

Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 11 (Dorothy & Jacob), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-11-dorothy-jacob. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “Good to meet you again Lexx. Dorothy is just finishing getting ready. Would you like a beer or anything while we wait?” Jacobs’ hospitality cordial. Lexx declines the offer, before the pair take a seat adjacent to each other on the couch – waiting for the sweet treat. The five star hotel room has been set perfectly; lamp lights illuminate the room with a bodacious energy, a blood orange & sandal wood candle augments the room with the desired chemistry, with light jazz house tunes meditating their minds’ sexually. As the pair sit on the three-seater grey, cushioned couch Lexx is alluded to the two STI medical certificates & envelop of cash. After certifying the certificates and counting the money Lexx sits back into the couch and acquaints with Jacob about how life has been, and an overview of what Jacob & Dorothy are expecting from the service tonight. Jacob & Dorothy have been happily married for ten years; they use a selection of male escorts to explore their adult fun due to the negative experiences they faced when they originally tried to join the kink community. They never felt that they fit the community ‘standards’, they hated the political bullshit that went on, and multiple figures tried to exclusively break the boundaries of the pair. They nearly gave up on having any kinky fun until they found Lexx, who introduced them to other providers that he vouched for, and since then have had a world of fun privately & professionally. Jacob is a bi-sexual thirty-three-year-old man, Dorothy is a straight thirty-five year old women. Both just your ‘normal’ happy, healthy, married couple with kids. “Are you ready?” a noise echoes from the bedroom door open ajar. “Are you ready?” Jacobs looks to Lexx with excitement, Lexx grins cheekily and smiles, eager to see how the meal will be presented tonight. “She bought a new set for us today, I’ve already seen it; you’re going to love it!” Jacobs’ excitement grows. Jacob does not identify as a cuck and in fact is quite the opposite, Dorothy defends this too. Just like Lexx, Jacob enjoys seeing a woman be devoured by two men. Dorothy seductively graces the hair conditioned carpet floor with her soft steps, finishing the cat walk in front of her two toys. A thin girl (size 8) with three-hundred and twenty cc breasts, a small tushy, pale white skin, and brunette hair, stands in the power position – hip extended to the left, hands placed on the small of her back. Her body covered with an all-white lace silhouette that has orange, pink, and green flowers patterned over the lascivious fabric. “Do you boys like what you see?” Dorothy begs to ask; “I think I like it more then the first time” Jacob flirts; “You look very sexy Dorothy” Lexx compliments. Dorothy lowers herself down onto the carpeted floor and runs her hands up the inner thighs of her men, teasing them into sexual desire. While unbuttoning her husband’s shirt Lexx begins unbuttoning his, however, he is met with an instructive “Wait!”, Dorothy wants to undress both of her men. Once the undressing is done Dorothy sits between the two men and begins stroking their lascivious logs. The two men take as they want, kissing at the woman’s neck, rubbing her clit, removing her hands from their cocks and practicing dominant play by putting her hands behind her back – Dorothy loves to surrender to multiple men. The first position that the pair exercise is a spit variant that has Jacob receiving the blowjob, while Lexx penetrates Dorothy from behind. The sex is casual and fun.   *Audio effects (Blowjob. Thrusts. Claps. Moans.)   Lexx leaves the interaction by sitting on the back rest of the couch and stroking his cock while the couple copulate – focusing on his breathing and staying present. The couple then manoeuvre themselves into the cowgirl position directly next to Lexx; the riding is nothing strenuous, just good casual fun sex. With Jacob paying for the added oral service Lexx dips his balls into Jacobs’ mouth while his wife Dorothy sucks on Lexx’s piece tenderly. Jacob licks and sucks on Lexx’s balls while Dorothy places her warm, saliva filled mouth around Lexx’s thick cock, simultaneously holding & massaging the gold. “This is so bad, but I love having my husband watch me suck another man’s dick” Dorothys’ mind paces. The trio continue this position for about five minutes before Lexx begins to cramp and needs a quick stretch.   *Audio effects. (Blowjob. Thrusts. Claps. Moans.)   Returning with water for the couple Lexx takes a moment to stretch and limber his body, while the pair enjoy their drinks. “You look so hot in that lingerie Dorothy!” Lexx flirts again as he takes his seat at the opposite end to which he sat before. “Thank you” are the manners he receives in return. The lady enjoys riding stallions, so onto Lexx’s cock she hops, again nothing crazy and intense, just fun, casual sex – with a kinky twist. Jacob lays down on the ground, head underneath his wife’s pussy and begins massaging Lexx’s balls. Juice oozes’ from his wife’s pussy onto his face, the inner lipped labia a beautiful site; even better when it’s dropping liquid onto it’s owners face with balls dangling from it – a site that would turn on any bi-sexual husband. Tonight’s four hour booking quite simple, with the trio doing the basic things casually all night long, adding fun kinky acts to keep the night spicy.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule.

Touring to the Gold Coast between the 13th and 15th of December x This tour will only go ahead if I get prebookings beforehand. So if you are interested please let me know now x

The landscape of sex work and escorting is constantly evolving, in line with technological advancements, social movements, and shifting cultural trends and attitudes. Understanding these emerging trends empowers escorts to adapt, thrive, and navigate the exciting possibilities that lie in the future. This article will explore five key trends that are likely to impact the future of sex work and escorting. Destigmatisation and Normalisation of Escorting There's a growing movement towards sex positivity and open conversations about sexuality. For a profession that has for the longest time regarded as morally questionable, this is the best news ever! This could lead to a decrease in the stigma surrounding sex workers and escorts, potentially making it a more normalised and accepted profession. Increased public acceptance could translate into improved working conditions, legal protections, and healthcare access for escorts all around Australia and in other parts of the world. Transition to A Tech-driven Industry. Technology continues to revolutionise every aspect of our lives, and sex work is no exception. With the massive invention of awesome gadgets that have made the world a global village, sex work has certainly benefitted. Here are some ways tech might influence the future of escorting. Online platforms: Secure and discreet online platforms may become the primary venue for connecting clients and escorts. These include directories and websites. Although these already exist, there is much room for improvement. Virtual reality (VR): Advancements in VR could lead to the rise of immersive sexual experiences, such as virtual sex, potentially creating a new profitable niche market for escorts. Cryptocurrency: Cryptocurrencies offer anonymity and could become a preferred payment method, although legal considerations would need to be addressed. Focus on Client Wellness The industry is likely to see a shift towards a more comprehensive approach, with a focus on client wellness and emotional connection. Escorts who cultivate strong communication skills and emotional intelligence will be well-positioned to cater to this evolving demand. Evolving Service Offerings The definition of "sex work" itself might broaden to encompass a wider range of services and clients. This could include companionship, emotional support, or even non-physical intimacy experiences. Escorts who expand their skills and cater to diverse client needs will likely find success. Legal and Regulatory Landscape The legal and regulatory landscape surrounding sex work is complex and varies greatly by location. In some states, escorting is decriminalised while it is legalised and under an abolitionist model in others. However, there's a growing movement for decriminalisation (such was the case recently in Queensland) which could lead to increased safety and worker protections for escorts. Conclusion The future of sex work is buzzing with possibilities. By staying informed about emerging trends and adapting their approach, escorts in Australia can position themselves to navigate this ever-changing industry and build a fulfilling and profitable career. What trends are you most excited about in the future of sex work? Share your thoughts in the comments below!  

Me without the make up and glamour. Enjoy a day in my life.

I’m available today I’ll be checking in at the great eastern motor lodge:) let me please U

Sometimes, you’re not just in the mood for any intimacy. There could be many reasons for this, including fatigue, medical reasons, and some mental reasons. However, just because you’re not in the mood for some doesn’t mean you can’t switch up gears and bring yourself right back on track. Sometimes, revving up your sexual engine is as simple as changing your environment. If you’re curious, here are some easy tricks that will help you up your sexual desire.  1. Start With Mental Stimulation.  While most of us think of sex as the deed itself, the truth is it starts with the mind. The power of the brain is so underrated when it comes to sexual encounters. Escorts in Perth suggest that you start with thinking of sexy thoughts or simply thinking of something that’s sexually arousing. This could be a specific fantasy that you have, something you did before with your partner or a steamy scene you saw in a past movie.   2. Use Some Scents.  The body is incredibly responsive to touch and smell. Aromatherapy will undoubtedly help you rev up your engine. Studies have shown that nice scents such as licorice and lavender tend to stimulate blood flow, which plays a vital role in arousal. If you’re highly receptive to smell, try getting some nice-smelling scents and placing them in your bedroom. This could be in fragrances or scented candles.  3. Soak In a Bubble Bath.  Whether you're up for a solo run or a session with a partner, a bubble bath will always come through. Bubble baths will shut off all the noise and allow you to sink in the moment. Remember, sexual stimulation starts in the mind, and one of the best ways to clear the day off is by jumping into a bubble bath.  To spice it up, bring along some wine, scented candles and soft music. You’ll thank us later!  4. Make Your Space a Relaxed Atmosphere.  Arousal is all about relaxation since it's more mental than physical. Make your bedroom or space a little more inviting. Start by cleaning up and bringing along some clean and nice-smelling sheets or bedding. Next, remove any clutter and light up some dim candles, preferably scented ones. Lastly, put on some music, and of course, turn off any possible distractions such as alarms and phones.  5. Practice Sexual Mindfulness  Mindfulness practices are all about allowing yourself to sink into the present moment, in the oblivion of your surroundings. Being in sync with your surroundings will help you feel and enjoy any sound, touch or smell.  In Closing  The key to being stimulated fast is all about understanding what works for you. If you have a partner, you’re lucky since it will be easier for you. If you’re going solo, the above tips should be helpful, although it all goes back to what you like.  What turns you on? Drop your comment in the blog comment section below. 

....gahhh I could think of at least a half dozen other ways to be spending my down time but its one of those things that if I don't do it, you will most definitely notice that it needs to be done. So tell me why it is that when I do it (and I definitely do it well...) that you never notice? Because its for your better enjoyment, that's why. There's a simple method to madness that applies here. The closest I came to anyone noticing was a "I'm loving your new towels Nat, love the colour choice. So much better than the standard white, black or blue ones)" followed by a " I'm pretty sure this girl I saw once used the ones her Mum had for the dog so I bailed" from someone else, but neither noticed the time and effort spent in ironing all the sets of bed linen and bed covers, bathrobes, towels & wash cloths. Yes, if I'm short for time or had another argument with the clothes dryer (I'm getting better at accepting I lose arguments with inanimate objects) then yes I will iron them once the bed is made but geez guys.. lets not get pushy about why I can answer the phone yet not be 'available right now'. I am making my little office a perfect haven to release your stress and get all of your angst out of balls without the frills amd flowers. Keeping an on-trend off-load zone requires a little background work mixed with a lot of effort so for now if anyone wants me, I'll bemaking friends with the washing machine

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Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 10 (Bianca), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-10-bianca. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “Oh my gosh, I’m so nervous but excited at the same time!” Bianca emotes like a bride on her wedding day. “You have nothing to worry about” Lexx confers confidently as he holds his thirty-four-year-old client close to him. “You’ll protect me if there are assholes right?” Bianca looks across to her escort with an eager expression of excitement, trusting Lexx will lead the way with this kinky experience. “I’ve wanted to do this for so long!” Bianca continues as the woman behind the service desk asks the pair to come forward. “Just two tickets please” Lexx requests politely, “two tickets for the cinema. That will be sixty dollars please……… Thank you” Lexx pays for the tickets, receives the compulsory instructions & rules of the viewing and then leads his client to the room of kinky fun! Bianca’s nerves are evident as she grips Lexx’s arm tighter then a chimp; the doors open and to both their fortunes the screening today is relatively quiet; one man is in the back corner stroking his attractively large cock; two other men are sitting a couple seats away adjacently; and in the front row are a man & women that are just kindling and what appears to be fondling with each other lightly. On the screen is a threesome of two females and one male, and the smell is relatively clean considering this is a place of daily masturbation.   *Audio sounds (Porn).   Lexx leads his client to the middle row where a doubles couch is situated – the perfect position in the room. Bianca can see the other couple and knows that the people in the back row can see her, after all she has informed Lexx of her desire to be watched by a stranger while being fucked. Should she become comfortable enough Bianca has asked Lexx to let other men masturbate & ejaculate on her big fake tits. Like a traditional movie date Lexx caresses Bianca by placing his arm around her shoulder, he strokes her arms & legs, helping ease the nerves of being in an adult cinema with porn on the big screen & five other people sexually pleasing themselves. A couple minutes into the viewing the female from the front row crouches on the couch, extending her ass cheeks past the short, easy access summer dress that she wears. “HOLY FUCK. I CAN’T BELIEVE WE’RE DOING THIS. I’M IN AN ADULT CINEMA WATCHING A GIRL SUCK A MANS COCK. PORN ON THE BIG SCREEN. AND SOON I AM GOING TO HAVE LEXX FUCK ME IN FRONT OF EVERYONE HERE” Biancas’ mind races. “Can I please just stroke your cock first, I’m still very nervous”. Lexx kisses Bianca just above the ear lobe and whispers his answer into her ear, “Of Course, our tickets last all day, we can stay as long or as short as you like, come & go as we please. You are safe”. Lexx nuzzles his clients’ neck which naturally encourages Bianca to sink into his arm more; she slides her hand up his shorts and begins bulging his log. Five minutes later Lexx & Bianca watch as the guy from the corner approaches the couple at the front, he bends down behind the back rest next to the mans head, they exchange words before he moves to the front of the couple for what looks to be a little size & health screening, the seated male nods and hands the new comer a condom; the condom is fitted and then put to work.   *Audio sounds (M/F moans. Group sex. echoes).   The new comer begins fucking the woman from behind while she continues sucking on her man’s cock; bodacious moans augment the room loudly as the trio ignite the sexual desire in the room. Bianca turns to look at the other two men to see them stroking theirs cocks; she turns her attention back to the trio where she stares, she ponders, and begins pleasuring herself lightly; beginning with her nipples, before uncontrollably gliding her hand down to her tingling pussy. She stares at Lexx’s throbbing cock unaware that Lexx has been watching her the whole time. With a very gentle (almost undetectable) push Lexx guides his clients head down to his crouch; and with no resistance she fills her mouth with Lexx’s dick – moaning as she swallows every inch of meat. Five minutes later she has become completely aroused and submerged in the experience, conferring Lexx to begin cunnilingus on the couch. *Audio sounds (M/F moans. Blowjob followed by Fingering & cunnilingus). “Holy fuck! I am being licked out by an escort in an adult cinema with people watching. I’m doing it. It feels so dirty. It feels so good” are the thoughts racing through Biancas’ mind as she has her pussy fingered and clit stimulated with a warm, wet tongue. She feels like a dirty whore, but she feels like a new woman; a kinky, sexy, goddess. “Shall we go to the next level?” Lexx asks; Bianca nervously nods in agreement. With her nerves in mind Lexx opts to keep her in missionary position to start with, that way she is slightly out of sight but still visually seen as a public sex whore. Two minutes into the penetration the men from the back of the room come up to Lexx and Bianca and ask if they can join the fun; Lexx respectfully sizes them, not for the penises but to say if you break the boundaries I break you! He then asks his client what she would like, she puts both hands into available spaces as a gesture for a hand job. Lexx leans down kisses his client with passion before leaning back upright and continuing his penetration and observations of the room.   *Audio sounds (M/F Moans echoing. Thrusts. Background porn).   Lexx & Bianca stay in the cinema for another hour, with another couple entering the kinky fuck room and joining both parties. At the conclusion the three women in the room get on their knees and press their tits up for the men to ejaculate on, a sticky, warm, milky mess. Lexx takes his client back to their hotel for a long hot shower and comforting cuddles.   Thank you for reading, L.Soule.

For many couples and escorts alike, achieving sexual satisfaction can be a balancing act. While some might desire a longer-lasting experience, traditional condoms can sometimes heighten sensitivity, leading to a quicker climax. Enter delay condoms, a specific type of condom designed to help extend pleasure for both partners. In this article, we will discuss delay condoms, explaining how they work, their benefits and considerations, which will empower you to make informed decisions about your sexual health and enjoyment. How Do Delay Condoms Work? Unlike traditional condoms, delay condoms contain a lubricant infused with a mild anaesthetic. These anaesthetics, most commonly benzocaine or lidocaine, work by temporarily numbing the penis's glans (head) where the most sensitive nerve endings are located. This slight numbing sensation helps delay ejaculation, allowing for a potentially longer-lasting intimate experience. Important to Note: The amount of delay can vary depending on individual factors like sensitivity level and dosage of the anaesthetic, which varies with condom brand. Benefits of Using Delay Condoms Delay condoms offer several potential benefits for couples seeking to enhance their sexual experience: Enhanced Pleasure: By delaying ejaculation, delay condoms can help both partners achieve orgasm or maintain a more consistent level of arousal throughout intercourse. Increased Confidence: Sydney Escorts are witnesses to how bad it is for individuals who experience premature ejaculation, specifically men. Delay condoms can offer a confidence boost and a sense of control during intimacy. Improved Communication: The potential for a longer encounter can encourage more open communication between partners regarding their preferences and desires during sexual encounters. Remember: Delay condoms are not a guaranteed solution for premature ejaculation. If you experience persistent concerns, consulting a healthcare professional is recommended. Considerations When Using Delay Condoms While delay condoms offer potential benefits, it's important to consider a few factors before using them: Sensitivity: Some individuals might experience a slight burning or tingling sensation due to the anaesthetic. If discomfort persists, discontinue use, and consult a healthcare professional. Reduced Sensation: While the goal is to numb the glans slightly, it's possible to experience a slight decrease in overall penile sensation. Allergic Reactions: As with any product containing anaesthetics, there's a slight risk of allergic reaction. Discontinue use if you experience any irritation or unusual symptoms. It's always recommended to test a small amount of the lubricant on a non-genital area before using a delay condom for the first time. Choosing the Right Delay Condom With a variety of delay condoms available, choosing the right one depends on your individual needs and preferences: Anaesthetic Strength: Consider the dosage of the anaesthetic. Lower dosages might be suitable for those with minimal sensitivity concerns, while higher dosages might cater to those seeking a more pronounced effect. Lubricant Type: Delay condoms come with various lubricants, like silicone or water-based. Choose one that is compatible with your and your partner's preferences. Size and Fit: As with traditional condoms, ensure a proper fit for optimal comfort, effectiveness, and safety. Safe and Enjoyable Use of Delay Condoms Delay condoms, when used correctly, can be a safe and effective way to enhance your sexual experience. Here are some key points for safe use: Always follow the manufacturer's instructions. Check the expiration date before use. Store condoms in a cool, dry place. Use a new condom every time for optimal protection against STIs and pregnancy. Conclusion Delay condoms offer a potential solution for couples seeking to prolong intimacy. By understanding how they work, their benefits and considerations, you can make informed choices to enhance your sexual satisfaction. Have you tried delay condoms? Share your experiences (positive or negative) in the comments below!    

This has been written from a heterosexual point of view, but if you’re not a prude and float another direction you’ll get the deal.   Okay you’ve made it. We’ve trecked through the depths of the kinksters and some of their more extreme pleasures. We’ve talked to the love birds about how you could enjoy real, deep, love making and a brief insight into the REAL origin of tantric sex and it’s significance. But what about plain old vanilla sex, the good creamy Blue Ribbon stuff that started this gangster shit. What defines vanilla sex? Is vanilla sex really a thing of the past, left for the over forty’s? Are toys classified as vanilla? How long should a vanilla sex session go for? What if I want chocolate Ice-cream but with the simple pleasures, is that still vanilla? Good vanilla sex can never be underrated. Good vanilla sex is fun. Good vanilla sex can incorporate practices & things you learn from BDSM & sacred sex, to create the best, creamiest, tub of ice-cream you ever taste. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH! Vanilla sex! HOW GOOD IS GOOD VANILLA SEX! Those twenty minute quickies in the car; that morning sex where side cuddles just somehow end up with a cock sliding into a waterfall; that goodnight kiss that just lingers a second longer than anticipated and has the man now ploughing his meat into her for thirty minutes before bed. Let’s be real, vanilla sex is probably the most practical form of sex to have, to become good at, and enjoy. Vanilla sex is great and I believe due to it’s fundamental basis within the world of sex, it needs to be continually enjoyed even as you journey and explore other avenues of sexual fun. Some of you may be reading the, ‘To become good at’ and think to yourself, “How can you not be good at vanilla sex, it’s the easiest form of sex”, there are learnable skills required to be good or even great at vanilla sex. When you educate yourself on the topic of sex and the subjects around sex you will learn that the skills & techniques to have good vanilla sex are very simple; breath work, how sexually active you are, diet, and mindset. Your relationship to sex will determine how much effort, time and practice needs to go into developing the skills required to have good vanilla sex if this is an area you believe needs improving.       Before we had ‘120 days of Sodom’, and ’50 Shades of Grey’; before the idea of sacred sex was popular, and tantric sex was practiced; we had just plain old vanilla sex - and it doesn’t take Einstein to figure that one out. Just about every animal has their own version of sex to reproduce, and we are in fact our own species of animal. Even as a man of faith, I do believe science a little more when it comes to our evolutionary history and the facts that we have evolved as the superior animal species. So, what was sex in the beginning? I can imagine that in the beginning our male species would pull their willies out and put it inside of the thing we now call a vagina, transcending his genes onto the next stage of life. Side thought; how did the first species of any animals including homosapians know that putting a willy inside of the vagina would create a baby; could you imagine being the very first thing ever to realise that putting a pee pee inside of a hole generates another thing, mind blowing. You would honestly feel like a magician. Imagine being the very first woman to go into labor or give birth, poor woman, probably died. Back to the educational conversation. There was no tying someone from the ceiling and filling every hole; there was no, “Let’s sit and tell each other how beautiful our bodies are while we make slow love in each other’s laps for twenty minutes”; there may have been some level of primal intimacy just like chimpanzees and other animals have, but I would argue that it all began with just plain old vanilla sex on a rock. Obviously over time the way in which we have sex, the way we view sex, the reasons we have sex, and the meaning of sex has changed. Sex used to be for reproduction only; now is a form of leisurely pleasure, deep spiritual bonding, and primal releases. When sex was for reproduction purposes only you did not need to know how to control your breath; you did not necessarily need to know about hydration; you did not need to know what positions gave the woman the most pleasure, or which positions allow the man more control of his ejaculation; you did not need to know other little tricks that make positions like missionary the most incredible position in the world – I could do missionary & the pretzel all day and not get bored. As former industry professional Stirling Cooper has pointed out, the only purpose of sex at the beginning of time was for reproduction. The male needed to put your penis inside of her vagina and ejaculate as fast as possible. Now with sex being the phenomena that it is, even vanilla sex has a certain level of skill to it. So let’s talk about how we can turn Home brand vanilla sex, into a Blue Ribbon tub. Australian ice cream joke. Prioritising your health goes a long way with any sexual encounter, a long way! So just doing the basics of health will make a vanilla encounter that much creamer. Things like staying hydrated, stretching throughout the day, consuming fruits like; watermelon, mango, blueberries, strawberries, and banana’s; these fruits give you energy and help you taste better as well. Watermelon has been linked to helping men have harder erections, mango has been linked to making you hornier, blue berries are a great antioxidant, and banana’s have long been known as the energy bar of the natural world. Pretty basic stuff right. Do some form of exercise; you do not need to have six pack abs or look like a super model - that would be obnoxious and ignorant; but getting out and moving the body does great things for the chemicals within your brain. I’m not a science geek like some of the people I follow but it has commonly been known that exercising generally makes people have more libido and a higher sex drive. Go for a twenty-minute walk a few times a week, or do some yoga, maybe take up that dance class you have always wanted to do; something that gets the body moving and heart pumping. All of these simple things go a long way in enjoying normal sex. If you have explored or intend to explore the realms of BDSM & Tantric/ sacred sex you will learn very quickly that stretching, breathing, and staying consciously aware of yourself are vital practices for a positive experience. I have mentioned all of this throughout the last couple months in my sexual education blogs. Before you are hog tied from the ceiling it is usually safe practice to stretch your muscles first, you’re going to need it. Stretching before engaging in sexual intercourse is apart of the stress removal process of tantric/ sacred sex. Apparently we need to breathe to continuously supply our body with oxygen, so learning to control our breathing is probably very important for good sex too. Go outside and enjoy the sun for a little while. All these basic things that promote great health are going to aid you in having great vanilla sex. Vanilla sex is just sex, just as good health is good health.   Put away the porn. We have already spoken about this during the blog ‘Sacred Sex’, and while porn has it’s place and some people have control of their vice, there are an awful lot that do not. If you’re watching extremely graphic porn videos like gangbangs or reverse gangbangs, extreme BDSM, fantasies that are unrealistic you are going to struggle being aroused when you have a real person in front of you wanting the most simple thing – or for some men becoming hyper aroused when you have a real human experience and finish too quickly. And if you are anything like what I was like when I consumed porn, you enjoy seeing someone attractive on your screen. If you are constantly masturbating to these hyper attractive woman, and hyper attractive men you may struggle with a range of different sexual complications when in the company of a real person who looks nothing like your last three-hundred-and-sixty solo orgasms. If you as a woman have been using a high intensity vibrator regularly on your clit and inside your vagina for a number of years, there is a high likelihood that you will struggle to become aroused from the physical touch of a real person. If you have been masturbating to ten out of ten ‘super models’ with giant, perfectly symmetrical tits, a perfect ass, tight waist, and tanned skin for the last God knows how long; and you then have an experience with a girl who may be a little thicker, one breast is slightly bigger than the other, and she has a couple scars, you may struggle to become erect. Maybe you’re a quick releaser and just need to masturbate for thirty seconds to have that post nut clarity after work, there is a high liklihood your practice will be preached and your thirty seconds will repeat itself in the bedroom. Quite recently I mentioned that I consume porn for training purposes; I have exercises that I do to increase various strengths, muscles, and sizes around my erogenous zone, and because I do not have a partner that I am regularly sexual with in my personal life porn is the easiest option when in need. Though as I edit this blog I am now two weeks without consuming any porn for such purposes, I simply use the power of my imagination. Due to my diet and daily supplements, I can maintain a healthy erection – if not, a stronger erection when training. I went clean from porn for about two & half, three years and during this process did not masturbate at all. I was dating someone for most of the time, and when I was not dating anyone I was not highly active. I can tell you firsthand about the problems associated with the over consumption of porn, the effect porn has on our brains and mindsets, and the effect it has on your relationships. If you have a partner(s), I now personally believe there is no reason anyone within the relationship should be consuming porn, while also having the broader view as to how & why the snake is eating it’s own tale. Put the porn down, learn how to excite, entice, seduce, romance, ravage, make love over a number of days, and fuck until you can’t fuck no more. Okay, the dad advice is out of the way now.   Even during vanilla sex you can practice a range of different things to enhance the experience. As a woman you could moan deeply, as your man grunts. Nibble on your partner’s earlobe while you are body to body. Whisper dirty things in your partner’s ear (personal favourite). Learn how to pull & grab hair correctly. Learn how to hold someone’s throat correctly. Adjust the pace. Add a pillow. As the man you’re probably accustomed to doing most of the thrusting, let your woman move her hips and do some work from time to time. Learn to enjoy the sight of a sexy human giving you, or receiving your pleasure while staying in one continual position for five, ten, fifteen minutes. There are like ten variations of missionary off the top of my head, and there is an entire body to learn about and explore. We live in a time of such short attention spans that we become bored easily and crave ‘the new’ too intensely, everything was yesterday and tomorrow can’t come soon enough. At the same time everything has already happened. Look at fashion for example, nothing really goes out of style, it’s just the season that our phones and social media tell us it is. And while I understand there have always been ‘trends’, we live in a time where you can make the fashion of two seasons ago, your thing of today. This is the beauty and the art of vanilla sex; learning to do the timeless well and just keep things simple. Why change positions if it feels good for the both of you. Who is to say that you can’t stay in one position for twenty minutes if it feels great and no one is cramping. Obviously doing the exact same four positions in the exact same sequence, with the exact same intensity, every. Single. Time. You copulate. Will be boring. Learn a little sexual & emotional intelligence. For a lot of people, virgins, and those who may not have a large experience of sex; vanilla sex still requires you to put in work, vanilla sex still requires you to learn, but vanilla sex is just sex, and sex that doesn’t need extravagant thinking or copious amounts of time. When you get past the need to come all the time you can have five to ten-minute quickies at your convenience which build up the sexual tension and eventually, and theoretically give you the orgasm you desire. You’re practicing sexual transmutation and delayed ejaculation, do you remember the XXL balloon analogy I used in the ‘Sacred Sex’ blog. If you struggle to have even a two-minute quickie then there are exercises and things that you can do to improve. As the man the first thing you will need to assess is how quickly you ejaculate when you watch porn. If you are fixing your ‘needs’ with a one-minute quick fix and then struggling to last thirty-seconds in the bedroom that will most likely be a serious factor. At the conclusion of this blog I will link some of the professionals that I have learnt from to aid in the skills to be a better in the bedroom. Read their work, contact them, and enrich your sex life. I understand and empathise with the fact that there are still complications for some people that prevent them from being able to enjoy plain old sex, and unless there is a medical interference, it shouldn’t be like that. To experience a good twenty minutes of simple vanilla sex should not be a commodity. Start slow, control your breathing, wear a condom, use some lube if need be   Most of my sexual experiences in life so far have been quite vanilla. Yes I’ve had sex in an adult cinema; jerked my cock for a sexting session for an entire day while on a trade site – obviously in privacy; I’ve had sex at a workplace with the bosses daughter; had a couple one night encounters; carried out a handful of BDSM scenes; practiced creating a multi hour tantric experience; received a blowjob in a festival cubical; I’ve masturbated into my hand and then rubbed them together; I’ve licked up my own seaman off tits and swallowed it – multiple times; I have drank female come straight from the pussy like you drink water straight out of a tap; and I’ve had sex with a woman while she was on her period. Compared to some people who made all of this happen the first week they lost their virginity - that’s an exaggeration obviously; I am quite tame. Then you have the other side of the spectrum where a lot of people have never even imagined half of what I just told you and think that I am the kinkiest, most wild person in the world. What I’m getting at here is that just because you have not mastered Shabari rope, or never had extremely kinky fuck fests, or never had deep, powerful, sacred sex sessions, does not mean you’re missing out. Maybe you do have your own personal kinky experiences and styles of love making that you wish to explore, and that is also what I would like to discursively elaborate here. If you want to experience being anal fucked by a foot that is completely normal. If you want to give a man a rim job (lick his asshole) that’s completely normal. You thoroughly enjoy sitting on someone’s lap holding them and slowly grinding yourself back and forth, that is completely normal. You want to use balloons for a range of different things that’s normal. I had a conversation with a girl who wanted to have sex in a bathtub while being covered in canned spaghetti. That’s normal. And what I mean by normal is that it is okay to want to try something a little different, a little out of the ordinary, what some may very well call strange. You might find their naughty pleasure strange and would never dream of trying it. And that’s part of our job as escorts, to help provide people with a safe space to explore those kinky & sacred experiences. Not all escorts will provide the experience you want though, some may not feel comfortable providing that service or have the tools to provide that experience in a safe and enjoyable way. The main point I am trying to make here is that just having sex, normal plain old sex, is what most people have, and it is really fun when you put the simple action steps into practice and become sexual & emotionally intelligent.   I have not explored as much as I would like within the world of kink & tantra. and truthfully, while there is a lot I want to explore, I am quite demure with wanting to explore those worlds of sex. I’ve said this previously, “Within the world of kink & sex in general, you do not need to try everything to know if you like it”. I am only twenty-six though. And so, if you are for arguments sake over thirty-five and had a dull or non-existent sex life except for the time you created your three spoilt little humans, you’re probably going to want to explore as much sex as sexually possible. The only time you felt genuinely sexy was the one minute that he made you a balloon for nine months; and if you’re a man reading this, the only time you felt like the man your woman actually wanted, was those one, two, or three times she sucked your cock without you asking while you were up late watching NCIS or something, she was horny and you thought fuck it why not. Me only being twenty-six I have plenty of years to explore, and so I am relatively demure within my personal sex life. Over my time of personally talking with experienced kinksters and people who have practiced sacred sex (however few that may be), there are a lot that say they will never go back, while an awful lot (usually the more sexually mature) express how much they enjoy getting back to vanilla sex. Because when you dive into different types of BDSM & kink, and sacred/ tantric sex you learn about all the elements that make a vanilla session good: Breath work, the importance of stretching, the importance of hydration, the importance of communication, how to lead & how to follow, learning to slow things down and take a break. When you develop the skills to have good vanilla sex, and are frequently having sex, you will learn that you don’t have to think too much, you just have fun with what you are feeling in the moment, there are no huge expectations like with a BDSM scene where you’re expecting to have your entire body sweat, bleed and shake. You’re not expecting to transcend to a place out of this world like with tantric practices. It’s just sex that feels good. You can enjoy the sexiness of your partner, you can enjoy giving & receiving pleasure, and you just get to enjoy plain old normal Blue-Ribbon sex. The reason I believe some people say that once you go kinky or sacred you will never go back is because you could have one huge sexual session for multiple hours and be sexually satisfied for a week, two weeks, or even a month, compared to say having thirty minutes of sex five times in one week. And just like the porn you may consume, when you increase the intensity, or discover something nuance, it can be difficult to go back to the previous content you consumed; If you started with simple lesbian porn but now consume BDSM orgies where two girls are ten guys whores, you may find it difficult to go back to the videos you started with. So if you progress from vanilla sex into say sacred, deep love making, passionate sex, you could quite easily struggle to find as much pleasure in normal vanilla sex. But I beg the question for all those kinksters & sacred sex people; do you never wake up in the morning next to your partner and just want twenty minutes of cock or pussy? Without it being set as a task like in some BDSM dynamics, would you (the reader) enjoy having your pussy eaten in the morning because your man just wants to lick your lips for a couple of minutes; would you enjoy waking your man up with a warm mouth wrapping itself around his succulent cock; would you as a man enjoy your woman making you a rock and then riding you for five minutes. Neither of you may even come. Should you have read my blog ‘Sacred Sex’ you would know sexual retention is incredible for both men & women. If you shared five minutes of sex and then left each other to get ready for your days, you would have the best built up sexual energy all day. If you were in a monogamous relationship, loyal, and having that type of morning, you would both be thinking about each other all day long while also having this controlled, positive sexual energy storing inside of you. You may even continue your playful regime as you get ready for the day; a couple thrusts in the shower, a blow job while your girl is on the toilet, eating some pussy while she brushes her teeth, you get the deal. Obviously some major circumstances may come into effect during the day that kill your sex drive, but based on my own experiences unless it’s catastrophic or something serious you two will most likely find that sex will continue. And obviously this is where if something serious does present itself you show each other that you care about each other, through communication and emotional intelligence for the situation; if you were going to spend the time having sex you have the time to have an ear or a hug. It can be daunting to explore, experiment, learn about, and experience sacred sex or kinky sex when you read things that say once you experience ‘this’ you won’t want to go back, but I just don’t believe that to be entirely true. Because vanilla sex, is the core ingredient to all sexual practices, and is the foundation of sexual education. When you learn about the world of kink & sacred sex, and learn the values that should be taught within these practices, the skills and techniques to provide fun forms of adult play, your sexual awareness and sexual intelligence increases. Without plain old vanilla sex you would not have kinky & sacred sex. Just how if no one learnt how to make a rhythm using strings or keys, we would not have DJ’s, rappers, and potentially singers.   As you explore the world of sex, become more sexually educated and more sexually intelligent; I believe you will enjoy vanilla sex. It is the foundation of all sexual realms. Without vanilla sex we would not have kinky sex, BDSM sex, or tantric sex. Sometimes within the sex world I think vanilla sex receives a bad, banal, or ‘too old’ reputation; if it isn’t a ten person orgy; if I’m not screaming for my life; if I’m not being at one with mind, body, emotions, and soul than it’s not even fun. Just imagine if every single couple in the world woke up with ten minutes of fun, vanilla sex every morning. Not looking at it like a chore, not saying “your turn to eat me out, I sucked your dick yesterday”, not concerned with the orgasm, but just finding ten minutes to enjoy your partner(s) every morning. In a perfect world that would probably be one of the biggest steps in lowering the divorce rate, improving marriages, and make people a whole lot happier. While I may be an escort and thoroughly enjoy being an escort, there are far more benefits that come from lower divorce rates; happy and fulfilled relationships & marriages; sexually satisfied people; than a paycheck that supports higher divorce rates, and unsexually satisfied people.  As an escort most of the sex that I have had and that I offer is vanilla sex. While I can bring toys like vibrators, dildos, and whips into the session; while I offer a POV film styled porn experience; I can and am willing to create a BDSM scene; most of the sex I have had is tame sex. Yes I’ve had a couple threesomes, but even they were relatively tame. Even one client that I failed just wanted good normal sex. Most couples that inquired just want vanilla sex but with a third.   Vanilla sex is underrated at times and that is unfortunate. When people say, “It’s just sex” that are referring to vanilla sex. At least I hope anyway. And it is just sex, because whether you like it or not the only reason you are reading these words is because a penis created sperm that went inside of an egg and morphed into your existence. Vanilla sex has been here since the dawn on man kind. It’s just good, fun, sex. Maybe I’m really just that old of a soul. I like the simple things. I do like extravagant things; fast cars; suits that make people say, “Damn, he’s fucking hot!”; the idea of being jacked; I like hard kinky fucked up sex; I love deep, soulful, passionate, love making. I also enjoy a simple good campfire; I like Suzuki swifts and a simple Sudan that’s comfortable; I love a good book and tea; I like doing sweet fuck all and eating a bag of chips while I watch a movie; and I like good vanilla, blue ribbon sex. What about you? Do you like just good plain old vanilla sex? Comment below.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule. Mobile: 0411 316 973 Email: lexxsoule@gmail.com www.lexxsoule.com

The power to make love which man alone possess distinguishes him from the rest of the animal species. However, When he misuses this unique creative gift he taps back into his animal past into the mechanical animal drive, and masturbates or mates without love. He is then unhappy. ~ Barry Long Tantric teacher   Orgasm sets in motion a cascade of programmed neurochemical events, which may continue for approximately two weeks. They change how we feel and perceive the world around us, especially our partners. ~ Marina Robinson   Temptation is fire. Triumph over temptation is light ~ Samael Aun Woer   Making love is like inflating a ballon. Having an orgasm is like popping the balloon. But if you finish without an orgasm, you are like a balloon that takes several days to gradually deflate. Leaving you much longer to enjoy that inflated feeling. ~ Testimony from the book ‘Cupid Poisoned arrow’   Today’s blog we will be discussing Tantric/ sacred sex. Educating you on some of the basics around sacred sex, some of the misconceptions, what sexual energy is, and what a sacred sex session may look like. At the conclusion of this blog will be a small list of videos and books that I have consolidated with previous knowledge and experience to write this blog. I highly recommend having some fun and creating your own little research project, before creating a beautiful tantric/ sacred sex session with an intimate partner. Just like with the subject of BDSM, tantric/ sacred sex is a powerful form of sexual intercourse. Do not be confused between TANTRA & tantric sex they are two separate things. As we will discuss in small detail TANTRA is an ancient Indian religion and spiritual way of life that stems from Buddhist & Hinduist beliefs; Tantric/ sacred sex is a very deep form of love making that if done correctly - or incorrectly; will pair the souls together. While Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex are two completely different things, the two are also closely tied together. Without being a guru or certified practitioner of Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex, I may not always phrase everything correctly. I am an entry level student of this practice and so the information is just of a general nature around the subject of Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex. This blog has been written and interpreted from a male heterosexual view.   If you think BDSM is the perfect escape for narcissists to release their tendencies to control, manipulate, and abuse someone. Wait until you realise the strength of real, deep, pure love that tantric love making, and sacred sex can bring. The depth and power that is found within tantric sex & sacred sex is extremely alluring! It is love, it is powerful! Obviously if you have any prior knowledge of real tantric/ sacred sex, or even the subject of Tantra as a whole, you would know that the previous paragraph is the furthest thing from what Tantra represents, and what Tantric sex is about. Tantra is love; pure, unfiltered, deep love. The word Tantra is thrown around like internet coaches selling you their ‘life changing’ course. “Tantra is free sexual liberation, express yourself to the world, have massive orgies, and have sex with me to also become a Tantra master”; just how the coach will say, “You just have to believe in yourself, sell your car, divorce the wife, and buy my course that I pay actors in the room to sign up for”. Tantra is a religious/ spiritual practice & belief system from ancient India that worshipped the power of the feminine, the physical beauty of the female, her spiritual intellect, her life-giving capabilities, and had goddesses who believers of this faith worshipped. It is a sub-religion of the Buddhist and Hindu belief systems. To know what REAL TANTRA is, you will be par-taking in religious studies. “So if it’s basically bible studies how did sex become intertwined so deeply?” Great question. I could be wrong here, but all religions place importance on sex, it’s just the beliefs around sex that complicate some people’s beliefs. Sex is vital to the creation of life. Every religion, including satanists know this. I’m going to take a guess that you are not a test tube baby, if you’re reading this from the year 2040 maybe another story. Even then, unless the sperm was artificially created, a test tube baby would have been created through an element of sex. Masturbation. Sex is more than just intercourse. Because of the poor sexual education here in Australia (Maybe it has changed) most people do not know or understand that sex is so much more then just cunnilingus, a blow job, and penetration. And until I became an escort I did not have this deeper understanding of what sex really is either. I had the basics, and knew the importance of sex, but had no deep appreciation for the WHOLE experience of sex. I now understand why masturbating daily for no reason other than to ‘release stress’ is a waste of energy. Using a vibrator every time you want to flick the bean yourself can make stimulation from another human less enjoyable. Understanding that a lot of sexual health problems can be fixed. Learning about the importance of sexual health from the perspective of the foods and supplements you consume. Learning that a man can grow his penis. Learning that we all have unique parts of our body that turn us on or off, for example one person loves having their ear lobe played, nibbled, and blown on; while another person will tell you to never touch their ear. How to have good communication around sex. The variety of reasons someone may use an escort service. The list goes on, and on, and on, and on. The conversation of sex is just like religion; what type of sex are we talking about, what topic of sex are we discussing, what are your values around sex, are you going to respect my view of sex, and so forth. That being said sex should be a lot more comfortable to talk than religion because we as humans can no believe in a religion if we do not have sex. Unless we create artificial sperm and use artificial sperm to create life we need sex to procreate. If nobody had sex and no babies were created anymore we would slowly die as a species, what happens when we are all dead, the belief of God(s) and higher beings no longer exists in our minds- those who still have their soul may be moved onto the next part of the simulation. And additionally, I do not believe we should be screaming about sex at the top of our lungs on the train or at the coffee shop, not because it is taboo, but because it does hold sacred significance to some people. For example, Christians are no against sex, they just believe you should be disciplined with sex, and as I have learnt withholding sex until marriage holds a lot of power for a couple, and I respect couples who stand by this belief and strengthen other parts of the relationship first. That being said, personally I will not be waiting for marriage to have sex – well I can’t I’m a SEX WORKER. A dirty, unintelligent, man whore. Some people also do not need or want to hear that you were hung from a ceiling by the dungeon master/ mistress and whipped every time you forgot what you were meant to remember. They do not want to hear you talk about the milk that just oozed out of your body as your pussy became his personal fuck hole. So while you should feel comfortable to have a room level conversation about the subject of sex, always be mindful of your surroundings, there is a time and place. Sex is more sacred for most women. Sex is what allows them to create life. From carrying the fetus, nurturing a child inside of them for nine months, the birth experience, then the breast feeding. Sex from this perspective creates a much more sacred experience for the female. So for a religion that worships the woman it would be only fitting that the sacred practice, the scared meditation of deep, deep love making has a high level of importance. Though as we have evolved and share love, and practice sacred sex without the necessity of reproducing I believe that sex can be and is sacred for both man & woman – providing that reproduction is not a part of the equation; otherwise spiritually sex holds much more significance for the woman.   My experiences I have only had two tantric sex sessions in my life. For me, a real tantric session is an entire day of love making, an entire day of slow dancing with each other physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. A spotless clean environment, a mind emptied of everything except the person I have the pleasure of making love with. She doesn’t need to think about anything and does not feel rushed. she feels cherished, she feels beautiful, she feels like a goddess, she feels loved. As the leader I am unconcerned with time and I go to the part of the soul that has a deep desire to care & nurture for someone – the inner masculine that thrives on love. This is part of the reason why I will not offer a complete tantric service to clients unless I am forty-years of age, decided on being a bachelor for the rest of my life, and have REAL yoga & tantric certificates. This is my own personal enjoyment, my own personal gift, and is not something I want to share with just anybody. This being said there is one person who offers sacred sexual services who piques my interest, and unless I have the partner I desire to explore this style of sex with, I am interested to see how a transactional tantric experience would feel for the emotions & soul. I may very well have slow, deep, passionate, sensual sex with someone, I appreciate the female body, the human body in of itself is a piece of art to be admired. But to provide a full tantric experience I have to know a great deal about you and who you are. Because even within my own personal experiences there are a couple minor negative memories connotated to it.     What is sexual energy? What is sexual energy?!?! Simply put sexual energy is our life energy, it’s our libido, our estrogen & our testosterone, our dopamine, our focus, our clarity. Sexual energy is the energy that professional fighters use when they engage in a competition. Sexual energy is the energy women use to glide through life instead of walk. Sexual energy is the energy a man harnesses to desire and satisfy his woman. Sexual energy is what a woman harnesses to seduce her man into a world of pleasure. When you have more sexual energy you are more focused, you are clearer with your thoughts, you are stronger, and you are more appealing. Just like everything else that holds energy, you can add more to it or you can deplete it. You can deplete this energy through consumption of bad foods, not exercising, not moving the body or stretching, masturbating excessively. You can create & store this energy by consuming good healthy food such as nuts, fruits, vegetables and non-processed meat; moving your body and stretching it – go for a walk in the sun, start yoga, palates, martial arts are excellent for sexual energy; and seaman retention. It’s common knowledge that steak, broccoli, carrots, brussel sprouts, and mashed potato is more beneficial for you than a large double quarter pounder meal with extra pickles, extra onion, and an orange juice. It’s common knowledge that moving your body is essential for healthy joints and bones. It’s common knowledge that receiving sunlight correctly is healthy. Martial arts like JuJitsu, boxing, and kick boxing work wonders for your mental & sexual health. All of this is basic, simple, common knowledge you learn when you begin studying subjects such as health, wellbeing & sexual health. All the healthier choices give you more energy. One of the biggest ways to deplete your energy is excessive masturbation & porn consumption. At the time of writing this I have given up porn for good. And yes I still do my solo penis exercises. I thought that I would need the extra stimulation to jelq my cock or do weighted kegal exercises but I was wrong. Thanks to a good diet, everyday supplements, and water; I can use my mind to do what I need to do. As an ex-porn addict (up to four times a day), I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that masturbating for a ‘stress release’ or to ‘just blow your load’ depletes your energy. Masturbating of any sort to completion will drain & deplete your energy. When you learn how to transmute the sexual energy that you are about to flush down the toilet or gift your vibrator, you will start to see incredible results in your mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual world. Sexual transmutation or seamen retention is a practice where you with strain yourself from ejaculating. Doing seamen retention alone can be done by avoiding masturbating altogether which is the easiest method, or when you do masturbate you do so without porn and do not orgasm, this is what sexual educators call edging. When you put the porn down and learn to pleasure yourself with your own thoughts you can begin to explore your body with a lot more detail, finding out what other sensations you enjoy. You might find pleasure in running your hands through your hair, or gracing the bottom of your feet, or asphyxiating yourself; you may find pleasure in tapping & smacking your balls as a man or breasts as a woman; things I can guarantee 99% of porn consumers would not do when they have a screen in front of them that contains high intensity porn. When you put the screen down your focus is on yourself not the people on the screen, this allows yourself the brain capacity and room to breathe deeply, explore yourself, and take control of your orgasm. Should you be practicing sexual transmutation with a partner your mostly like not going to masturbate at all unless mutually practiced together or extreme scenarios where you are travelling afar and are forced to have digital sex. Should you have a partner I advise against solo masturbation most of the time. So yes, as a couple practicing transmutation you can still have sex, neither of you come, and you both learn to control yourself. And while there are heaps of people who say blue balls will give you cancer, blue balls are bad for you; there are an equal amount of studies and papers that say delaying your ejaculation will not do any harm and can even be beneficial for you, providing you redirect the energy. When you have real sex with a partner it is easy to direct the energy away from your erogenous zone, just cuddle for ten minutes and gift the other person some affection. The energy from your erogenous zones now has a pathway to your heart, which is then pumped to the brain, which connects to the soul, which fuels positive emotions. Compared to artificial porn, there is no way on any playing field that the energy from your erogenous zone is going back through your heart. Now look I am not a health professional so the information above is just from my perspective, if you need porn in order to get things going, I have no understanding and I cannot comment; All I know is that from my experiences and my knowledge that you will not transmute sexual energy consuming porn. Should you be practicing transmutation and still masturbating without any added artificial stimulation, there are multiple ways that you can redirect the energy from your erogenous zone to other parts of your body. Because when you are masturbating with nothing but your mind you will be much more conscious and sensitive to other parts of the body. When you are consuming porn your attention will be on the sexy, perverted, naughty things of your screen.  Should you practice transmutation and seamen retention it is at your own accord, and I hold no liability at all! I shouldn’t have to type that last sentence but I must. I learnt and attest to this piece of knowledge that I acquired a few years ago from a pickup artist coach, now industry podcast host ‘Marcus Wolf’. If you have a partner or play mate, and you tell her that she is not allowed to have your come because you’re transmuting for a month, she will go ballistic for you. *GENERALISATION INCOMING. Women like seeing a man come. She wants to get off too, that is very important (sometimes); but women thoroughly enjoy seeing a man ejaculate for them. They are that hot or that good at what they are doing that they can make their man come. So when you say, “No babe I’m not coming for a month” you may have a little bit of war on your hands because she wants that hot load of spume out of your ball sack. It is incredible to see the effects that happen when you refrain from ejaculating. Let’s use the quote from above Making love is like inflating a ballon. Having an orgasm is live popping the balloon. But if you finish without an orgasm, you are like a balloon that takes several days to gradually deflate. Leaving you much longer to enjoy that inflated feeling. ~ Testimony from the book ‘Cupid Poisoned arrow’   Imagine the bag of balloons is your sexual energy. You blow up a balloon and play with it for a day, but than you become board with said balloon because you do not want a red ballon anymore, you want a yellow one; so you pop the red balloon and inflate the yellow one. You then keep repeating this process, and soon enough you have an empty packet and will need to go buy another packet to continue the fun. If you keep ejaculating your energy down the toilet, you’re going to be like a packet of ballons. The empty packet is a symbol for you being completely tired, grumpy, and lazy. How you ask; because if you have been playing with said balloons, chances are you are addicted to those ballons, therefore when it is empty you will mostly cry, whing, and really want more balloons. Whereas if you inflate one ballon, you play with it, and then say enough is enough for today, coming back to the ballon in a few days, you will still have a ballon that you can use. Unless the dog ate it. And because you have patiently emptied your packet (the symbol for energy) you will most likely be more patient with ‘NEEDING’ another packet, and not be so concerned when it is empty. You will most likely be happy because you have just finished playing with ballons for the last six months not six days. Using the balloon analogy above you should be able to clearly see how holding onto your sexual energy through delayed ejaculation and sexual transmutation keeps the energy positively stored within your body, allowing you to be more focused, have more clarity, feel stronger, look sexier, smell sexier and even feel sexier. When you start to become more in tune with your body and its senses, you can increase the intensity of the delayed ejaculation by getting yourself as close to orgasm as possible, before ceasing everything and trying to prevent yourself from going overboard. It’s heaps of fun! You will learn that you can release seamen and still have the mental state of mind to maintain an erection and maintain the energy to continue on with the sexual session or your day. The feeling for a guy is incredible! If you can get yourself to the point of no return but withhold yourself from going over the edge, you’ll feel like a million bucks. Just be careful not to get excited too quickly, let everything cool down, breathe, take a two-to-five-minute break to have some water, stretch, and breathe if you need; once you are one-hundred percent calm and focused again, rekindle if you so wish. Let me paint you a picture and tell yourself if this sounds like a pleasurable break. You’ve been making slow, passionate, penetrative love for twenty minutes and one or both of your need a break to prevent orgasming. You have a five minute break of enjoying water, stretching and catching your breath. Would you enjoy just looking into your partners eyes, or admiring their entire naked body, spiritually telling each other that they are the sexiest piece of art you have ever seen? How would that feel to give? how would that feel to receive? Would you even care if you just admired each other for your beautiful bodies, intricate souls, and wonderful minds for another five minutes? This ten-minute break could lead to the next two hours of deep, soulful penetrative sex that melts every part of your beings.   Bringing your attention back to the point of no return edge; with the amount of energy you have just withheld and stored, you may feel like going to the gym for a few hours, or running a marathon, or writing a book. Maybe a little bit of an exaggeration but you will feel pumped if you go to the edge and then refrain from orgasming. This particular practice does require conscious training though. *GENERALISATION INCOMING. Women hate being denied orgasms. My arbitrary belief is that because females are usually more receptable to multiple orgasms compared to males; they hate being taken to an orgasm and denied a come a little more than man. *GENERALISATION FINISHED. If you are a man reading this, deny your woman from coming for an entire hour of sex, tell her she must communicate with you when she is close to coming and then you pull away from her; relax, breath, let the sexual chemistry of the room settle, and then SLOWLY build things back up again. If you denied her three orgasms and then let her have the fourth at the one-hour mark, she would explode! Think one of those XXL ballons at full capacity popping. If you are a women reading this, educate your man on the subject by telling him you read an article about delayed ejaculation for women and that you want to try it, that way he can still lead the experience and feel like the masculine. If you are a couple reading this, do I need to say anything……. If you want to experience an edging experience with me, LEXX SOULE; I am happy to come with you through the experience (pun intended). Just SMS 0411 316 973. Squirting can be included. I empathise with the fact that there are a range of different medical conditions, and/ or life experiences that make orgasms a game of chess or a game of snap. Meaning, for whatever your specific reason, practicing edging may be more difficult than the way I have worded this practice. There are plenty of sexual health professionals out there that could possibly help you start your journey of sexual transmutation if you fall into this category; two all-round sex educators I always recommend are Caitline Victorious & Esther Perel. Sexual energy is more than just the fire of the bedroom. Sexual energy is more than having a sex appeal. Sexual energy is our life energy, it is what allows us to go through the day, it is what allows us to have a clear mind. Sexual energy is deeply rooted in all that we do & what we consume. Learning what sexual energy really is, how to control and improve your sexual energy is important to having a healthy life mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually.   What might a tantric/ sacred sex practice look like? I will not be sharing my two personal accounts, but what I will share are some concepts around what may make a tantric/ sacred sex session fulfilling and fun for you and those you wish to share the experience with. One of the biggest things during the entire love making session is the appreciation and worship of the body. The body is a work of art and so you must ensure that you show your appreciation. Compliment your man’s strong arms, his round shoulders, thick neck, scruffy hair, maybe his booty, his eyebrows, his lips, his scars. Complement your woman’s collar bones, her eyelashes, her eyes, her smile, her breasts, her cellulite, her tummy, the softness of her skin, the roundness of her soft feet. Conferring love to the other person for the vessel of art that they were gifted. We all have imperfections on our body, these insecurities play at our mental view of ourselves, hearing another person find and detail everything that they love about our body is extremely alluring and soulful. While there may be one person leading the session, there is a much more fluent flow to the sex the allows the leader to also be the follower, like a Yin Yang. During tantric/ sacred sex there isn’t any pressure to change positions, you are not thinking about a finish line, the leader does not need to be the dictator, it is just a slow meditative style of sexual intercourse. Tantric sex is a great form of meditation. Obviously with the style of intercourse that sacred/ tantric sex is, there is a huge emphasis on breath work; deep controlled breaths that you try to sync together. Breaths that come from the deepest parts of your diaphragm. Timing your inhale perfectly with your partner and exhaling as one. Just how two women who are regularly together can sync their menstrual cycle, just how two peoples’ steps will sync when walking together; you and your partner will join in a meditative sync that will connect two lovers in ways you never imagined. This is where the leader may have to demonstrate his leadership, counting, “In 1….2….3…. hold….out 1….2….3….” and repeating the process in a calm quite tone until both are breathing together, simultaneously the man glides his penis in & out of her magnificent vagina. When you are with someone that you love deeply, making this type of love, feeling their body pressed against yours, their erogenous zones exciting yours, and your breaths are not a second out of beat; you will feel one of the most incredible emotions and experience a moment of spiritual transcendence like no other. That is love! Before you engage in sacred sexual acts you may just share space together. Sitting face to face holding hands; maybe you touch each other’s heart while breathing; maybe one sits in the lap of the other face to face and you just embrace each other, supporting each other’s posture, using your energy to protect their energy; maybe you just lay down, cuddle and gently stroke your partners face. You might take a shower together prior to the sharing of space, taking your time to clean each other and as commonly said, “Wash all the negative energy from your lives”. Post intercourse it is best to wait at least ten, fifteen minutes before showering again, you have energy radiating around you, showering straight away washes all the energy away too quickly. Just lay, cuddle and caress each other, talking about the session, more worshiping of each other, compliments, and admiring each other. Some people will go as far as monitoring what they eat and how much they eat during a tantric period, and practice a range of different fasts. Some people may only eat three portions of meat during tantric weeks compared to seven. They will not consume any artificial sugar or fatty fast food, consuming fruits and nuts instead. The aftercare for tantric sex is just as vital as it is within BDSM because it reassures your partner that you meant the words of love that were said. If you have just been complimenting your husband for how much you love his feet, his shaved head, his thick dad bod, his dark brown eyes, and chest hair; reassure him of those things during the cuddle. Rather than just saying, “That was great sex, I love tantric sex” you might say something like, “You have no idea how attractive your chest hair looks with your body when you stand in the kitchen without a shirt on”, “When you look deep into my eyes during sex, you make it extremely hard for me to control my orgasm”, “Please never grow Jesus hair, I love your short, shaved, prison styled hair. You look so bad and sexy!”. Do you see the difference in how that would feel to say and receive. If you’re a guy admiring your woman, rather than saying, “You’re so sexy baby, and so good at sex” say something like “You have some incredibly sexy legs baby, every time you’re walking away from me they steal my attention from everything”, “You have the most beautiful eyes in the entire world. I could stare into them all day if I didn’t have to pay bills and survive!”, “When you lay on top of me and just grind your perfect pussy along my cock, you give me the biggest rush of goosebumps”. Again, do you see the difference in how that would feel to say and receive. Maybe neither of you need to say anything, you both just admire each other’s bodies and sexual offerings. You’re going deeper than just the physical realm of sexual attraction, you are saying that I love this about you, you are sexy because of this, you make me feel things I have not felt before. Do you see how Tantric/ sacred sex is an equally powerful type of sex to which BDSM is, and how if practiced wrong serious psychological, emotional, and spiritual damage can occur. This sex is the furthest thing from meek. Just because the practice puts an emphasis on love does not make it soft, and when you even look at the surface level of Tantra the religion, there are stories of goddesses beheading other goddesses. Tantric sex is a meditative style of sex. Tantra is love. And love is powerful! For those who have been following my educational blogs over the last couple months, could you imagine having an experience where you travel from one sexual realm to the other. Extreme BDSM to Tantra; or would you travel from the sacred world to the kinky world. Either way, that is a lot of work, a lot of preparation, and a lot of thinking. But would be one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences a couple could share from my perspective, a once-a-year treat.   Conclusion The word Tantra is so much more than what most common people know. Tantra is a way of life, it is a belief system, it is a form of spiritual transcendence. Tantra is not an excuse to liberate yourself and have five orgies a week, be promiscuous, and feel connected to everything that has an erogenous zone. Tantra is an ancient Indian religion. This blog has not even discussed things like red, white, black, pink & grey Tantra. Tantra is huge, Tantra is a religious study and a lifestyle. Tantra has NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX; but everything to do with sex. Tantric/ sacred sex is a form of offering, giving, and receiving love. Tantric sex is a slow dance of intimacy that could last days or weeks, focusing on preservation, discipline, oneness, fluidity, and a deep appreciation for ones self and others. Tantric/ sacred sex is a meditational style of sex that allows two spirits to bond, and bodies to be truly appreciated. Tantric sex has no distinguished finish line, and promotes consciousness with the mind, body, soul, and emotions. Tantric sex is not about having eight hours of sensual sex seven days a week because you are addicted to sex, rather learning to control the waves of sex and let the acts of sex happen naturally and fluently. Tantric sex is a dance, a slow intimate dance of the soul, and a worship of these art vessels we call the human body. I encourage you to learn about this magnificent lifestyle and style of sex, because when you consolidate Tantric/ sacred sexual practices with BDSM practices I believe that you can truly start to develop a deeper appreciation for what sex is, what sex represents, and how to enjoy sex on a much deeper level. And in the next blog that I post ‘Let’s Just Copulate’ you will learn that you can bring some of the knowledge from these two polar opposite realms of sex and use them in the simple day to day vanilla sex. The education of Tantra, Tantric/ sacred sex and BDSM sex create a perfect Yin Yang for sexual education.   Hopefully you have learnt something today, maybe you have now become interested in the practice and will continue further studies. If you are a couple reading this, please try this style of sex with an open mind & heart, make it special, make it romantic, it can be a lot of fun. Should you have any questions for me about this blog please just email lexxsoule@gmail.com and I will do my best to point you in the right direction if I can. Like I said though I do not offer tantric services to clients at this stage of my career and it will be many years before I do. That being said if you do want a more SENSUAL service where we take things very slow I am happy to accommodate.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule. Mobile: 0411 316 973 Email: lexxsoule@gmail.com Further education YouTube 1.    Demystifying Tantra: The Secrets of Sacred Sexuality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWGfM2xZVfo   2.   What is TANTRA? Introduction for Beginners with Mahara https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szMCKtAULA4   3.   How to Practice Sexual Alchemy / White Tantra / Karmamudra / Karezza Explained (Awaken Kundalini) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XUzggtYQ9ic 4.   Demystifying Tantra: The Secrets of Sacred Sexuality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWGfM2xZVfo 5. Misconceptions about tantra yoga, Sadhguru about Technique of extreme discipline https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOJRNNEtvuU&t=309s   6.   The Secrets of SACRED SEXUALITY & How To Practice It! [7 Tantra Tips] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MV9IW7shmz8   7.   Vidya Dehejia on the Yoginis: goddesses of Tantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvRso-8oMnU   8.   Act as If You Are Not Possessive About Sexuality || alan watts black screen || alan watts no music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vUf9jtZKu0 Books 1.     Dear Lover by David Deida The female equivalent of ‘The Way of The Superior Man’. This great book talks about a woman’s purpose from a traditional but spiritual perspective, and when the origins of tantric/ sacred sex stem from Tantra, an ANCIENT religion that worships the feminine and female, you may want to take some notes from a good traditional source. David has a lot of great value within the world of sex, and so the word ‘traditional’ should not disgust or scare you. David Talks predominately from a heterosexual viewpoint. 2.    Women Don’t Owe You Pretty By Florence A feminist book. WHAT!?!?! Yeah!! Here is the thing, real feminism is great, what feminists have fought to achieve for females is PHENOMENAL. No longer does a woman have to be a stay at home object on the shelf, she can choose to go out into the world and build her empire if she so chooses, she can choose to have kids or not have kids. Within Australia women will not be paid less due to being female. This all being said men & women are not the same. We do not operate the same. We think differently. We have different hormones and organs. The problem is not feminism the problem is extremists. This conversation is too deep and big for this blog, if you want to talk about it put me on a podcast. I dislike red pills views, and I dislike feminists that say Jordan Peterson is a psychopath. If you want to make ten million dollars you’ll probably listen to a millionaire. To become a high value man of modern society who truly loves the feminine, sometimes you have to shut the fuck up and listen to her. Good book.   3.    Come as you are by Emily Nagoski PhD Currently I am three quarters of the way through this book. It is a book of accepting yourself as a woman and appreciating your own beauty, navigating stress around sex, mood, and trust. This is a great book for women to start learning how to accept themselves; their ‘imperfections’, their turn ons and turn offs, how to trust themselves and their own judgment and much more that I can’t remember off the top of my head. For men; again if you aspire to be a high value man within modern society sometimes you have to listen to the feminine, even if it is to learn her indirect messages, emotional rollercoasters or her need to talk for the sake of talking. She needs to be heard, appreciated, and feel like she matters. Men are from mars, women from Venus, basic stuff. Women are still people, and while they are generally more emotional thinkers than men (excluding 74.52% of today’s men) they still have a brain in between their ears. Learn the feminine, learn the masculine. Good book. 4.    Atlas Of the Heart By Brene Brown A book about healing from trauma. The journey of the spirit is about learning how to let go of that which no longer serves you or brings about negativity to your life. Tantric/ sacred sex can have healing capabilities if done correctly & consciously, studying a little bit about trauma will do you no harm when embarking on a spiritual journey like Tantra; or experiencing the sacred spiritual form of tantric sex 5.    Tantric Orgasm for Women By Diana Richardson Currently listening now and enjoying the information within. 6.    The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. From a heterosexual point of view women do not want sissy’s. Men do not want to date a boy. This does not mean men have to be violent, aggressive, and trying to fight every guy that looks towards his girl. “The best way to win a war is one without violence” Sun Tzu ‘The Art of War’. This does not mean girls can not play footy, learn how to rebuild a car, or be a tradie. This just means from a spiritual perspective the feminine wants the masculine and the masculine wants the feminine. And there are feminine & masculine qualities in all of us. Most of us lean one way or the other. This is even pointed out early in this book “This could have been called The Way of The Superior Masculine”. This book is a phenomenal book for all. I believe the book has the exact same intellect level of Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus. Practice the basics. 7.    Hard Times Create Strong Men By Stefan Aarnio THIS BOOK CHANGED MY LIFE! THE BEST BOOK I HAVE EVER LISTENED TOO!   Harden up snowflake. Work it out. Grow a pair and deal with your shit. No one cares about you. Tantric/ sacred sex stems from Tantra. Tantra is an ANCIENT religion, therefor the traditional beliefs of MASCULINE & FEMININE are crucial to exploring this area of sex. NOT MAN & WOMEN. MASCULINE & FEMININE. Stefan talks about how the masculine and feminine is in all of us. As we have discussed the FEMININE GENERALLY SPEAKING IN A SEXUAL TERM wants the MASCULINE. I have even had countless people who are interested in the same sex, agree with what I have just said. This book may be hard for some people to swallow, it is direct, it cuts to the point, he talks facts, he is respectful. Like I previously said in the ‘Come As You Are’ review. Learn the feminine. Learn the masculine.     Make deep, full, hearted love.     Sexual educators My top all-rounder picks are Caitlin Victorious. Esther Perel. David Deida.

I'd love to go to a lookout with you in the middle of the day, I'd be looking out admiring the view while you stand behind me with your arms around me, you start kissing my neck and you move your hands to to grab my tits, you moan in my ear and tell me im in trouble. You move you hand underneath my shirt and rough move my bra out of the way and start playing with my nipples, you have your other hand tightly wrapped around my hip pulling me into your growing cock, you quickly move your arm around my neck and put me in a head lock and whisper in my ear I'm going to fucking destroy you. I say baby there are people walking past, you tighten your grip and say I don't care, you will do as your told, now take those panties off. I do as you say and slide my panties down my legs and hang them over the railing still with my tits half hanging out of my top. You say Now drop to your knees like a good girl so I can fuck that pretty little face of yours, spread your legs so I can see that pussy while I'm ramming the fuck out of your throat. I do as I'm told and drop to my knees, I unzip your pants to reveal your raging hard cock. You lean down and roughly grab my face you squeeze my cheeks and tell me to open my mouth, just as another couple were walking past and you spit in my mouth, I'm completely humiliated as you have me squatted down with my kness wide apart so not just you but the people walking past could see my dripping wet pussy to. I went to try and close my legs a little to keep what dignity I had left and you said don't you dare, spread them and with that you grab my hair and pull my face towards your cock. You say stick your tongue out and start slapping your cock on my tongue, you tell me to reach down and play with my pussy..... I do as I'm told and by this stage I'm so wet that my pussy juice is literally dripping. I was licking up and down your shaft, twirling my tongue around the your tip and spitting on it. I put just the head in my mouth and look into your eyes, you say fuck I've missed that sweet little mouth of yours, and just as you finished saying it you swiftly slide you cock all the way Down My throat watching every inch disappear in my mouth. When you had me all the way to the base balls deep, you just hold me there for a while to remind me whose in control. You start sliding your dick in and out of my mouth. You slide It nearly all the way out and back to the base with every stroke. You start fucking my face harder and faster I start caressing your balls with my hand, you look to make sure my legs are still spread, you see how wet I am and say oh you like being a little whore on show don't you? Showing everyone your wet pussy, stand up, I say no I want to finish you off, I want you to blow in my mouth, you say "you say that like you think I care what you want, I don't, you are here as my cum rag and I tell you what I want and you comply or you'll get punished, now stand the fuck up, turn around lean over that railing and fucking hurry up about it" I stood up, and b4 I could turn around you pull my top and bra completely off, and pulled my tiny skirt up so that you and every one walking past could see my naked body. You spin me around and push my back down so you have full access to my pussy and asshole. You get your fingers and scoop up the pussy juice that is just hang from my pussy and reach around and put your fingers in my mouth, you hook your finger on the side of my mouth and with your other hand you grad your cock and guide it towards my fully exposed holes. I feel the head of your cock at the entrance of my pussy, you slowly push inside of me watching my pussy swollow your cock deep and deeper. You get all the way to the base and hold me down on it, you grab my hips and withdraw your cock just a little and then you thrust it he'd back in, you start pumping your cock in and out of me harder and faster, the rail squeeking every time you drove it in, I started moaning and shaking as you make me cum all over your cock, making everyone who walked past look. All of a sudden you stop and withdraw you cock completely. I say did you cum baby, you say not even close stay there and don't move. I feel your fingers rub my pussy and you slide my pussy juice up to my arsehole, I say what are you doing and you tell me to shhh. I then feel the tip of your finger at my asshole and you put a little pressure on it and push your finger in, I jump and say no not here, you tell me to shut the fuck up. Once you feel satisfied that you have lubed it up enough to slide your cock in, I feel the head of your cock slightly pressing against my tight little asehole, I beg you not to put it in my arse, I tell you I'm scared, you said you should be, it not going to be be tight like this when I'm finished with it. I had tears streaming down my face as you put more and more pressure to push it in. You said fucking relax so I can get it in try and relax andslowly you start pushing the tip in, you can tell its hurting me and you like it, you say that's a good girl open up and let me fuck that sweet little asshole. You get the tip nearly all the way In and hold for a second at the widest part of your head and admire your work. You then processed it push the head all the way in and then down your shaft. You give it a second to get used to having something so big and hard in it, then you start fucking my asshole as hard as you can, pulling my hips towards you with every thrust so that it jolts my whole body everytime you get to the base. You roughly grab my tit and squeeze my nipple between your thumb and finger, I start moaning as you make me squirt all over the ground I hear you starting to moan at the same time as you blow your big load in my arse. As you take your cock out you tell me to stay there and reach back and hold my cheeks apart, you take a photo of my gaping asshole and your cum running out of it, you say with a smirk on your face 2 amazing views in the one photo. I stand up and drop to my knees and clean your dick off with my mouth..

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