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Well nothing uh bad, I mean size queens would say it's great, other would say it's a lot (at first) The 99% man. If your unsure what that means well, I'm large, like top 1% of the population large. Twice the average length and girth that is wider then the average length. I'm not bragging, I'm not one of these size is the only thing that's important guys, I'm actually quite the opposite. I jokingly say, they call it too big, then they don't stop calling. But it's also the level of comfort and care that often hasn't been experienced before. But it's once again not about the size, it's about everything that comes before. I call it the invitation. 1) well this should be the first 5) butf oreplay, foreplay, foreplay. That begins with the mind, it's the conversation, it's the music, it's the soft lighting and the fragrance I have chosen based on what I know about you. It's the slow undressing, the slipping into a robe. It's the Relaxing massage where you get used to my touch, where you can release tension from the day or from the nerves of having someone new touching you. Then it's the foreplay. Where I check in, find you what you like, asking for permission to kiss and touch and adjusting speed and pressure. I am being directed by your breath, your lips and how they curve, your eyes, their dilation and how often you blink, your toes. I am figuring you out like an instrument a complex equation that I want to find the answer for. Waiting for the moment of you being fully open and ready. And it's not just shoving it in and getting to work. It's checking in, finding thep ositions that work for you, some likep ressure on their cervix othersf ind it painful. I have found some clients have completely different orgasms after menopause, if this is something you have experienced we can workshop it together. I'll bring texters, craft paper and we can put together a PowerPoint (this is a joke but totally take me up on this) It's again a mix of verbal and physical queues, listening to you, being present and in the moment. If we need to change it up we will. LL, X

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Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 12 (Monica), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-12-monica. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “You’re such a well-behaved girl Monica, you adore submitting to my whim don’t you!” Lexx rhetorically asks, receiving a submissive glare from Monica’s eyes coupled with the most gentle of affirming nods. Lexx (28) stands before his submissive twenty-three-year-old client wearing only his long silver & grey checked dress pants; Monica kneels on both knees wearing Lexx’s favourite pink lingerie set – a laced two-piece pink bra & knickers, with orange flowers embroided over the most private of the erogenous zones (nipples & vagina). With a firm two finger grip of grace Lexx supports his clients chin, keeping her nuzzle upright towards his dominant stare – a leader showing his follower who is in charge. “Once you do all that I ask of you today, you will be rewarded with cuddles, body tickles, ice-cream, and all that you need to feel like the pretty princess that you are. Do you understand?” “Yes” she gently replies. “Sorry I did not hear that?” Monica had forgotten how she was supposed to refer to Lexx. Monica has been hiring Lexx for a little over one year now, initially seeing him for her virginity to be taken away. She comes from a wealthy background and so money was no problem for the innocent girl when she desired re-hiring. With the large portion of males in her life just trying to score a few baskets she felt that seeing a professional would preserve her and prevent any damage from being done – gaining assistance from her older sister (35) to help find the right escort for her. From the moment Monica laid eyes on Lexx she felt warm, comfortable, and safe; though she could see the aura of a bad boy hiding inside of him, someone who was not meek, but a candid leader. Their first encounter was just a meal at a local lunch bar in Ascot, Brisbane; conferring about what Monica hopes to achieve from hiring Lexx and seeing if he is a good long term fit for her needs – Monicas’ older sister & boyfriend doing their due diligence unbeknownst to Lexx. Now one year later, Monica wishes to explore other realms of sex outside of vanilla, slow & sensual and the basic toys; she wants to submit to a top. Being the first time, the pair share a dominant & submissive bedroom space things are taken slowly.   “Sorry…. Yes sir” Monica correcting herself and silently pleading with Lexx’s soul through his eyes. Lexx Squats down to her eye level while maintaining his alluring stare, he wants his client’s soul, he wants to lift her spirit to places unknown to her – a soft ‘daddy’ style of domination. “Good girl Monica. Good Girl” Lexx seals the compliment with an ardent kiss that could melt a million hearts. Swiftly Lexx shoots back up to the standing position, and forces Monica’s face into his fabric covered crouch, using his right hand and hips to rub the growing piece and aphroditic face together. “You will do as you are instructed today! You will do everything I ask in order to please this cock! You will be my little slut today! Do you understand Monica?” Lexx’s tone strong, firm, but soothing at the same time. “Yes sir” Monicas’ tone not showing Lexx the enthusiasm he needs to hear. “Please answer me again Monica. Do. You. Understand. Monica?!” his tone more domineering the second time as his continues grinding his crouch against the client’s face. “Yes sir!” Monica emotes enthusiastically. “Good girl!” Lexx releases the candid pressure of his hand, setting Monica’s head free. Without hesitation she intuitively knows what to do next, rushing her hands to the button and zip, peeling Lexx’s lascivious banana out of its’ skin. While living out her hazy dream she stares at the thick seven inches by six inches of gold, stroking it softly & slowly, why rush something so delicious – both with a luscious state of mind for each other.   *Audio affects (Blowjob sounds. Male moans).   Lexx picks up his lean size ten client from the ground and lays her onto the spacious kitchen bench, fetching a pillow from the couch for her back to rest against the wall. Viciously pulling Monica’s cute lingerie from her hips and shovelling it into her mouth; proceeding to devour the luring, melting, pleasure calling flower. Cream leaks from the glorious hole and into Lexx’s warm, luscious mouth. Monica confers Lexx another delicious pussy by following his booking preparation instructions: A medical certificate, cinnamon, pineapple, plenty of water, and lots of fruit. She is a non-smoker which also aids with the taste of her wetness – A+ treatment for an A+ client. The come just flows down Lexx’s throat, “You have such delicious pussy young lady!” Lexx compliments with his full mouth of luscious, lascivious, juicy papaya. “God damn I love when women give me good tasting pussy. I’ll eat that shit all day!” are the type of thoughts running through this hungry boy’s mind. Lexx has his index, and middle finger slightly bent upwards while he scoops come out of the deepest parts of his client’s hole, a consistent good rhythm simultaneously merging with the sucking and licking motions of Lexx’s oral pleasure.   *Audio effects (Oral and fingering).   “Get down. NOW!” Lexx pulls himself away, clicking to the floor where he stood. He retrieves water from the bar fridge, opening and offering the first sips to his gorgeous client before he finishes the bottle. He encourages his client to join him in a quick two-minute stretch, before they continue copulating. Bending her over the bench and manoeuvring the pillow to a prime position for his clients’ face, he has the dominant ability of holding both her hands behind her back while he can fill her physical, spiritual, and emotional desires.   *Audio affects (Sex claps. Female/ male moans).   Thank you for reading, L.Soule.

Discretion and anonymity are a must for all escorts in Christchurch. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned professional, maintaining privacy is necessary for your safety and security. This article explores effective strategies to navigate the world of escorting while minimising your digital footprint and protecting your personal life. Keep reading! Cultivate Online Anonymity Your online presence is paramount. Here's how to establish online anonymity effectively: Pseudonyms: Use a professional pseudonym for your escort persona. Avoid using your real name or anything easily identifiable. Burner Phones: Consider using a separate phone number for escort business. This keeps your personal contacts separate and allows you to manage communication effectively. Encrypted Messaging Apps: Use encrypted messaging apps for client communication. These platforms offer additional security compared to standard texting services. Photo Selection: Be very selective with photos used on your profile. Avoid including anything that reveals your location, identifiable landmarks, or social circles. However, we still insist you use quality photos. Fake Location Services: Some platforms allow blurring or masking your location. Explore these options if available. Remember: Never share personal information like your home address or social media handles with clients. Secure Your Physical Space Your safety extends beyond the digital space. Here are some physical precautions to take: Meeting Locations: Meet clients in well-lit public places for first encounters. Once trust is established, discuss private locations with caution, choosing secure environments every time. Cash Transactions: Consider using cash for transactions to avoid traceable payment methods. Remember to discuss payment methods before committing to any encounter. Remember: Always trust your gut. If a situation feels unsafe, politely decline service and leave. Cultivate a Discreet Network with Other Escorts in Christchurch Building a network of trusted individuals can be invaluable. Here's who to include: Security Contact: Have a trusted friend or fellow Christchurch escorts informed about your appointments. Share details like location and duration and establish a code word to discreetly signal for help if needed. Medical Professional: Maintain a connection with a healthcare professional who understands the specific needs of an escort. Legal Counsel: Consulting with a lawyer familiar with the legalities of escorting in your area can provide valuable guidance and peace of mind. Practice Good Digital Discipline Developing healthy online habits goes a long way. Here are some tips that will be helpful: Separate Devices: Use a separate device for escort business to minimise the risk of data mix-up with your personal life. Regular Data Wiping: Regularly clearing browsing history, cache, and cookies on your work device will help you stay safe and anonymous. Avoid Public Wi-Fi: Escorts in Christchurch have many online enemies. Public Wi-Fi connections are vulnerable to hackers and other cyber-attacks. Use a secure Virtual Private Network (VPN) when conducting escort business online. Password Management: Set up strong, unique passwords for all your online accounts. If possible, avoid setting passwords that are your personal information and can be easy to decode. Consider a password manager for secure storage. Remember to be mindful of what you share online, even on seemingly private platforms. In Closing Maintaining privacy in the escort industry requires vigilance and a commitment to good practices. By implementing the strategies outlined above, you can minimise your digital footprint, enhance your physical safety, and lead a secure and successful escort career. What are your best tips for staying under the radar as an escort? Share your experiences in the comments below!  

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The world of escorting presents a unique set of ethical considerations. One of the most common dilemmas escorts in Auckland face is whether or not to accept clients who are married. For a profession that has for the longest time been considered taboo, there is a clear conflict between escorting and formal relationships, especially marriage. In this article, we shall discuss the boundary between escorting and society's moral compass in line with marriage.  Understanding the Client's Motivation: Why Do Married Clients Seek Escorts in Auckland Services? Married men and women who seek escorts in Auckland have a variety of motivations. Some may crave intimacy or a specific type of sexual experience missing in their marriage. Others might be battling loneliness or seeking an emotional connection outside their relationship. Understanding these motivations can help you assess the potential risks and set boundaries. It's crucial to note that escorting doesn’t necessarily involve sexual encounters; part of escorting involves pure company with no sexual relations whatsoever. Weighing the Risks of Meeting Married Clients. There are several risks involved in seeing married clients, which no school will teach you. These include: Possible Emotional Complexity: Most married clients seek to fill a gap in their marriage. For example, emotional dissatisfaction. Such clients might bring emotional baggage to the encounter, leading to potential manipulation or attachment issues. Potential for Violence: except for open relationships, most clients will seek escort services in secret, without the knowledge of their partners. A jealous spouse could pose a threat to your safety if they find this out. Legal Issues: Depending on your location, local laws regarding adultery or prostitution could come into play. It's therefore important to familiarise yourself with the law. It's crucial to put first your safety and emotional well-being. If a client displays red flags like excessive possessiveness or dishonesty, it's best to decline their request. Setting Clear Boundaries with Married Clients. Open communication comes first when dealing with married clients. Here are some steps to establish clear boundaries: Be Upfront About Your Services: Clearly define the scope of your services and avoid situations that could be misconstrued as emotional involvement. This is more common to clients who seek more than just a sexual encounter. Establish Ground Rules: Discuss expectations beforehand, including time limits and acceptable behaviour during the encounters. This will prevent any frustrations. Maintain Professional Detachment: While providing a pleasant experience, avoid emotional entanglement with the client. Respecting Your Values as An Escort in Auckland. The decision of whether to see a married client rests with you. Consider your personal values and comfort level regarding the matter. If seeing married clients goes against your moral compass, it's perfectly acceptable to decline such requests. There's a vast pool of potential clients who respect your boundaries. In Closing   The escort industry allows you to be your own boss and set your own terms. By understanding the risks and rewards of seeing married clients, you can make informed decisions that align with your values and ensure a safe and successful career. We recommend regular meditation and soul searching to evaluate your moral inclination and whether it aligns with the services you want to offer. What are your thoughts on seeing married clients? Share your experiences in the comments below!  

Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 11 (Dorothy & Jacob), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-11-dorothy-jacob. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “Good to meet you again Lexx. Dorothy is just finishing getting ready. Would you like a beer or anything while we wait?” Jacobs’ hospitality cordial. Lexx declines the offer, before the pair take a seat adjacent to each other on the couch – waiting for the sweet treat. The five star hotel room has been set perfectly; lamp lights illuminate the room with a bodacious energy, a blood orange & sandal wood candle augments the room with the desired chemistry, with light jazz house tunes meditating their minds’ sexually. As the pair sit on the three-seater grey, cushioned couch Lexx is alluded to the two STI medical certificates & envelop of cash. After certifying the certificates and counting the money Lexx sits back into the couch and acquaints with Jacob about how life has been, and an overview of what Jacob & Dorothy are expecting from the service tonight. Jacob & Dorothy have been happily married for ten years; they use a selection of male escorts to explore their adult fun due to the negative experiences they faced when they originally tried to join the kink community. They never felt that they fit the community ‘standards’, they hated the political bullshit that went on, and multiple figures tried to exclusively break the boundaries of the pair. They nearly gave up on having any kinky fun until they found Lexx, who introduced them to other providers that he vouched for, and since then have had a world of fun privately & professionally. Jacob is a bi-sexual thirty-three-year-old man, Dorothy is a straight thirty-five year old women. Both just your ‘normal’ happy, healthy, married couple with kids. “Are you ready?” a noise echoes from the bedroom door open ajar. “Are you ready?” Jacobs looks to Lexx with excitement, Lexx grins cheekily and smiles, eager to see how the meal will be presented tonight. “She bought a new set for us today, I’ve already seen it; you’re going to love it!” Jacobs’ excitement grows. Jacob does not identify as a cuck and in fact is quite the opposite, Dorothy defends this too. Just like Lexx, Jacob enjoys seeing a woman be devoured by two men. Dorothy seductively graces the hair conditioned carpet floor with her soft steps, finishing the cat walk in front of her two toys. A thin girl (size 8) with three-hundred and twenty cc breasts, a small tushy, pale white skin, and brunette hair, stands in the power position – hip extended to the left, hands placed on the small of her back. Her body covered with an all-white lace silhouette that has orange, pink, and green flowers patterned over the lascivious fabric. “Do you boys like what you see?” Dorothy begs to ask; “I think I like it more then the first time” Jacob flirts; “You look very sexy Dorothy” Lexx compliments. Dorothy lowers herself down onto the carpeted floor and runs her hands up the inner thighs of her men, teasing them into sexual desire. While unbuttoning her husband’s shirt Lexx begins unbuttoning his, however, he is met with an instructive “Wait!”, Dorothy wants to undress both of her men. Once the undressing is done Dorothy sits between the two men and begins stroking their lascivious logs. The two men take as they want, kissing at the woman’s neck, rubbing her clit, removing her hands from their cocks and practicing dominant play by putting her hands behind her back – Dorothy loves to surrender to multiple men. The first position that the pair exercise is a spit variant that has Jacob receiving the blowjob, while Lexx penetrates Dorothy from behind. The sex is casual and fun.   *Audio effects (Blowjob. Thrusts. Claps. Moans.)   Lexx leaves the interaction by sitting on the back rest of the couch and stroking his cock while the couple copulate – focusing on his breathing and staying present. The couple then manoeuvre themselves into the cowgirl position directly next to Lexx; the riding is nothing strenuous, just good casual fun sex. With Jacob paying for the added oral service Lexx dips his balls into Jacobs’ mouth while his wife Dorothy sucks on Lexx’s piece tenderly. Jacob licks and sucks on Lexx’s balls while Dorothy places her warm, saliva filled mouth around Lexx’s thick cock, simultaneously holding & massaging the gold. “This is so bad, but I love having my husband watch me suck another man’s dick” Dorothys’ mind paces. The trio continue this position for about five minutes before Lexx begins to cramp and needs a quick stretch.   *Audio effects. (Blowjob. Thrusts. Claps. Moans.)   Returning with water for the couple Lexx takes a moment to stretch and limber his body, while the pair enjoy their drinks. “You look so hot in that lingerie Dorothy!” Lexx flirts again as he takes his seat at the opposite end to which he sat before. “Thank you” are the manners he receives in return. The lady enjoys riding stallions, so onto Lexx’s cock she hops, again nothing crazy and intense, just fun, casual sex – with a kinky twist. Jacob lays down on the ground, head underneath his wife’s pussy and begins massaging Lexx’s balls. Juice oozes’ from his wife’s pussy onto his face, the inner lipped labia a beautiful site; even better when it’s dropping liquid onto it’s owners face with balls dangling from it – a site that would turn on any bi-sexual husband. Tonight’s four hour booking quite simple, with the trio doing the basic things casually all night long, adding fun kinky acts to keep the night spicy.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule.

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The landscape of sex work and escorting is constantly evolving, in line with technological advancements, social movements, and shifting cultural trends and attitudes. Understanding these emerging trends empowers escorts to adapt, thrive, and navigate the exciting possibilities that lie in the future. This article will explore five key trends that are likely to impact the future of sex work and escorting. Destigmatisation and Normalisation of Escorting There's a growing movement towards sex positivity and open conversations about sexuality. For a profession that has for the longest time regarded as morally questionable, this is the best news ever! This could lead to a decrease in the stigma surrounding sex workers and escorts, potentially making it a more normalised and accepted profession. Increased public acceptance could translate into improved working conditions, legal protections, and healthcare access for escorts all around Australia and in other parts of the world. Transition to A Tech-driven Industry. Technology continues to revolutionise every aspect of our lives, and sex work is no exception. With the massive invention of awesome gadgets that have made the world a global village, sex work has certainly benefitted. Here are some ways tech might influence the future of escorting. Online platforms: Secure and discreet online platforms may become the primary venue for connecting clients and escorts. These include directories and websites. Although these already exist, there is much room for improvement. Virtual reality (VR): Advancements in VR could lead to the rise of immersive sexual experiences, such as virtual sex, potentially creating a new profitable niche market for escorts. Cryptocurrency: Cryptocurrencies offer anonymity and could become a preferred payment method, although legal considerations would need to be addressed. Focus on Client Wellness The industry is likely to see a shift towards a more comprehensive approach, with a focus on client wellness and emotional connection. Escorts who cultivate strong communication skills and emotional intelligence will be well-positioned to cater to this evolving demand. Evolving Service Offerings The definition of "sex work" itself might broaden to encompass a wider range of services and clients. This could include companionship, emotional support, or even non-physical intimacy experiences. Escorts who expand their skills and cater to diverse client needs will likely find success. Legal and Regulatory Landscape The legal and regulatory landscape surrounding sex work is complex and varies greatly by location. In some states, escorting is decriminalised while it is legalised and under an abolitionist model in others. However, there's a growing movement for decriminalisation (such was the case recently in Queensland) which could lead to increased safety and worker protections for escorts. Conclusion The future of sex work is buzzing with possibilities. By staying informed about emerging trends and adapting their approach, escorts in Australia can position themselves to navigate this ever-changing industry and build a fulfilling and profitable career. What trends are you most excited about in the future of sex work? Share your thoughts in the comments below!  

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Sometimes, you’re not just in the mood for any intimacy. There could be many reasons for this, including fatigue, medical reasons, and some mental reasons. However, just because you’re not in the mood for some doesn’t mean you can’t switch up gears and bring yourself right back on track. Sometimes, revving up your sexual engine is as simple as changing your environment. If you’re curious, here are some easy tricks that will help you up your sexual desire.  1. Start With Mental Stimulation.  While most of us think of sex as the deed itself, the truth is it starts with the mind. The power of the brain is so underrated when it comes to sexual encounters. Escorts in Perth suggest that you start with thinking of sexy thoughts or simply thinking of something that’s sexually arousing. This could be a specific fantasy that you have, something you did before with your partner or a steamy scene you saw in a past movie.   2. Use Some Scents.  The body is incredibly responsive to touch and smell. Aromatherapy will undoubtedly help you rev up your engine. Studies have shown that nice scents such as licorice and lavender tend to stimulate blood flow, which plays a vital role in arousal. If you’re highly receptive to smell, try getting some nice-smelling scents and placing them in your bedroom. This could be in fragrances or scented candles.  3. Soak In a Bubble Bath.  Whether you're up for a solo run or a session with a partner, a bubble bath will always come through. Bubble baths will shut off all the noise and allow you to sink in the moment. Remember, sexual stimulation starts in the mind, and one of the best ways to clear the day off is by jumping into a bubble bath.  To spice it up, bring along some wine, scented candles and soft music. You’ll thank us later!  4. Make Your Space a Relaxed Atmosphere.  Arousal is all about relaxation since it's more mental than physical. Make your bedroom or space a little more inviting. Start by cleaning up and bringing along some clean and nice-smelling sheets or bedding. Next, remove any clutter and light up some dim candles, preferably scented ones. Lastly, put on some music, and of course, turn off any possible distractions such as alarms and phones.  5. Practice Sexual Mindfulness  Mindfulness practices are all about allowing yourself to sink into the present moment, in the oblivion of your surroundings. Being in sync with your surroundings will help you feel and enjoy any sound, touch or smell.  In Closing  The key to being stimulated fast is all about understanding what works for you. If you have a partner, you’re lucky since it will be easier for you. If you’re going solo, the above tips should be helpful, although it all goes back to what you like.  What turns you on? Drop your comment in the blog comment section below. 

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Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 10 (Bianca), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-10-bianca. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “Oh my gosh, I’m so nervous but excited at the same time!” Bianca emotes like a bride on her wedding day. “You have nothing to worry about” Lexx confers confidently as he holds his thirty-four-year-old client close to him. “You’ll protect me if there are assholes right?” Bianca looks across to her escort with an eager expression of excitement, trusting Lexx will lead the way with this kinky experience. “I’ve wanted to do this for so long!” Bianca continues as the woman behind the service desk asks the pair to come forward. “Just two tickets please” Lexx requests politely, “two tickets for the cinema. That will be sixty dollars please……… Thank you” Lexx pays for the tickets, receives the compulsory instructions & rules of the viewing and then leads his client to the room of kinky fun! Bianca’s nerves are evident as she grips Lexx’s arm tighter then a chimp; the doors open and to both their fortunes the screening today is relatively quiet; one man is in the back corner stroking his attractively large cock; two other men are sitting a couple seats away adjacently; and in the front row are a man & women that are just kindling and what appears to be fondling with each other lightly. On the screen is a threesome of two females and one male, and the smell is relatively clean considering this is a place of daily masturbation.   *Audio sounds (Porn).   Lexx leads his client to the middle row where a doubles couch is situated – the perfect position in the room. Bianca can see the other couple and knows that the people in the back row can see her, after all she has informed Lexx of her desire to be watched by a stranger while being fucked. Should she become comfortable enough Bianca has asked Lexx to let other men masturbate & ejaculate on her big fake tits. Like a traditional movie date Lexx caresses Bianca by placing his arm around her shoulder, he strokes her arms & legs, helping ease the nerves of being in an adult cinema with porn on the big screen & five other people sexually pleasing themselves. A couple minutes into the viewing the female from the front row crouches on the couch, extending her ass cheeks past the short, easy access summer dress that she wears. “HOLY FUCK. I CAN’T BELIEVE WE’RE DOING THIS. I’M IN AN ADULT CINEMA WATCHING A GIRL SUCK A MANS COCK. PORN ON THE BIG SCREEN. AND SOON I AM GOING TO HAVE LEXX FUCK ME IN FRONT OF EVERYONE HERE” Biancas’ mind races. “Can I please just stroke your cock first, I’m still very nervous”. Lexx kisses Bianca just above the ear lobe and whispers his answer into her ear, “Of Course, our tickets last all day, we can stay as long or as short as you like, come & go as we please. You are safe”. Lexx nuzzles his clients’ neck which naturally encourages Bianca to sink into his arm more; she slides her hand up his shorts and begins bulging his log. Five minutes later Lexx & Bianca watch as the guy from the corner approaches the couple at the front, he bends down behind the back rest next to the mans head, they exchange words before he moves to the front of the couple for what looks to be a little size & health screening, the seated male nods and hands the new comer a condom; the condom is fitted and then put to work.   *Audio sounds (M/F moans. Group sex. echoes).   The new comer begins fucking the woman from behind while she continues sucking on her man’s cock; bodacious moans augment the room loudly as the trio ignite the sexual desire in the room. Bianca turns to look at the other two men to see them stroking theirs cocks; she turns her attention back to the trio where she stares, she ponders, and begins pleasuring herself lightly; beginning with her nipples, before uncontrollably gliding her hand down to her tingling pussy. She stares at Lexx’s throbbing cock unaware that Lexx has been watching her the whole time. With a very gentle (almost undetectable) push Lexx guides his clients head down to his crouch; and with no resistance she fills her mouth with Lexx’s dick – moaning as she swallows every inch of meat. Five minutes later she has become completely aroused and submerged in the experience, conferring Lexx to begin cunnilingus on the couch. *Audio sounds (M/F moans. Blowjob followed by Fingering & cunnilingus). “Holy fuck! I am being licked out by an escort in an adult cinema with people watching. I’m doing it. It feels so dirty. It feels so good” are the thoughts racing through Biancas’ mind as she has her pussy fingered and clit stimulated with a warm, wet tongue. She feels like a dirty whore, but she feels like a new woman; a kinky, sexy, goddess. “Shall we go to the next level?” Lexx asks; Bianca nervously nods in agreement. With her nerves in mind Lexx opts to keep her in missionary position to start with, that way she is slightly out of sight but still visually seen as a public sex whore. Two minutes into the penetration the men from the back of the room come up to Lexx and Bianca and ask if they can join the fun; Lexx respectfully sizes them, not for the penises but to say if you break the boundaries I break you! He then asks his client what she would like, she puts both hands into available spaces as a gesture for a hand job. Lexx leans down kisses his client with passion before leaning back upright and continuing his penetration and observations of the room.   *Audio sounds (M/F Moans echoing. Thrusts. Background porn).   Lexx & Bianca stay in the cinema for another hour, with another couple entering the kinky fuck room and joining both parties. At the conclusion the three women in the room get on their knees and press their tits up for the men to ejaculate on, a sticky, warm, milky mess. Lexx takes his client back to their hotel for a long hot shower and comforting cuddles.   Thank you for reading, L.Soule.

For many couples and escorts alike, achieving sexual satisfaction can be a balancing act. While some might desire a longer-lasting experience, traditional condoms can sometimes heighten sensitivity, leading to a quicker climax. Enter delay condoms, a specific type of condom designed to help extend pleasure for both partners. In this article, we will discuss delay condoms, explaining how they work, their benefits and considerations, which will empower you to make informed decisions about your sexual health and enjoyment. How Do Delay Condoms Work? Unlike traditional condoms, delay condoms contain a lubricant infused with a mild anaesthetic. These anaesthetics, most commonly benzocaine or lidocaine, work by temporarily numbing the penis's glans (head) where the most sensitive nerve endings are located. This slight numbing sensation helps delay ejaculation, allowing for a potentially longer-lasting intimate experience. Important to Note: The amount of delay can vary depending on individual factors like sensitivity level and dosage of the anaesthetic, which varies with condom brand. Benefits of Using Delay Condoms Delay condoms offer several potential benefits for couples seeking to enhance their sexual experience: Enhanced Pleasure: By delaying ejaculation, delay condoms can help both partners achieve orgasm or maintain a more consistent level of arousal throughout intercourse. Increased Confidence: Sydney Escorts are witnesses to how bad it is for individuals who experience premature ejaculation, specifically men. Delay condoms can offer a confidence boost and a sense of control during intimacy. Improved Communication: The potential for a longer encounter can encourage more open communication between partners regarding their preferences and desires during sexual encounters. Remember: Delay condoms are not a guaranteed solution for premature ejaculation. If you experience persistent concerns, consulting a healthcare professional is recommended. Considerations When Using Delay Condoms While delay condoms offer potential benefits, it's important to consider a few factors before using them: Sensitivity: Some individuals might experience a slight burning or tingling sensation due to the anaesthetic. If discomfort persists, discontinue use, and consult a healthcare professional. Reduced Sensation: While the goal is to numb the glans slightly, it's possible to experience a slight decrease in overall penile sensation. Allergic Reactions: As with any product containing anaesthetics, there's a slight risk of allergic reaction. Discontinue use if you experience any irritation or unusual symptoms. It's always recommended to test a small amount of the lubricant on a non-genital area before using a delay condom for the first time. Choosing the Right Delay Condom With a variety of delay condoms available, choosing the right one depends on your individual needs and preferences: Anaesthetic Strength: Consider the dosage of the anaesthetic. Lower dosages might be suitable for those with minimal sensitivity concerns, while higher dosages might cater to those seeking a more pronounced effect. Lubricant Type: Delay condoms come with various lubricants, like silicone or water-based. Choose one that is compatible with your and your partner's preferences. Size and Fit: As with traditional condoms, ensure a proper fit for optimal comfort, effectiveness, and safety. Safe and Enjoyable Use of Delay Condoms Delay condoms, when used correctly, can be a safe and effective way to enhance your sexual experience. Here are some key points for safe use: Always follow the manufacturer's instructions. Check the expiration date before use. Store condoms in a cool, dry place. Use a new condom every time for optimal protection against STIs and pregnancy. Conclusion Delay condoms offer a potential solution for couples seeking to prolong intimacy. By understanding how they work, their benefits and considerations, you can make informed choices to enhance your sexual satisfaction. Have you tried delay condoms? Share your experiences (positive or negative) in the comments below!    

This has been written from a heterosexual point of view, but if you’re not a prude and float another direction you’ll get the deal.   Okay you’ve made it. We’ve trecked through the depths of the kinksters and some of their more extreme pleasures. We’ve talked to the love birds about how you could enjoy real, deep, love making and a brief insight into the REAL origin of tantric sex and it’s significance. But what about plain old vanilla sex, the good creamy Blue Ribbon stuff that started this gangster shit. What defines vanilla sex? Is vanilla sex really a thing of the past, left for the over forty’s? Are toys classified as vanilla? How long should a vanilla sex session go for? What if I want chocolate Ice-cream but with the simple pleasures, is that still vanilla? Good vanilla sex can never be underrated. Good vanilla sex is fun. Good vanilla sex can incorporate practices & things you learn from BDSM & sacred sex, to create the best, creamiest, tub of ice-cream you ever taste. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH! Vanilla sex! HOW GOOD IS GOOD VANILLA SEX! Those twenty minute quickies in the car; that morning sex where side cuddles just somehow end up with a cock sliding into a waterfall; that goodnight kiss that just lingers a second longer than anticipated and has the man now ploughing his meat into her for thirty minutes before bed. Let’s be real, vanilla sex is probably the most practical form of sex to have, to become good at, and enjoy. Vanilla sex is great and I believe due to it’s fundamental basis within the world of sex, it needs to be continually enjoyed even as you journey and explore other avenues of sexual fun. Some of you may be reading the, ‘To become good at’ and think to yourself, “How can you not be good at vanilla sex, it’s the easiest form of sex”, there are learnable skills required to be good or even great at vanilla sex. When you educate yourself on the topic of sex and the subjects around sex you will learn that the skills & techniques to have good vanilla sex are very simple; breath work, how sexually active you are, diet, and mindset. Your relationship to sex will determine how much effort, time and practice needs to go into developing the skills required to have good vanilla sex if this is an area you believe needs improving.       Before we had ‘120 days of Sodom’, and ’50 Shades of Grey’; before the idea of sacred sex was popular, and tantric sex was practiced; we had just plain old vanilla sex - and it doesn’t take Einstein to figure that one out. Just about every animal has their own version of sex to reproduce, and we are in fact our own species of animal. Even as a man of faith, I do believe science a little more when it comes to our evolutionary history and the facts that we have evolved as the superior animal species. So, what was sex in the beginning? I can imagine that in the beginning our male species would pull their willies out and put it inside of the thing we now call a vagina, transcending his genes onto the next stage of life. Side thought; how did the first species of any animals including homosapians know that putting a willy inside of the vagina would create a baby; could you imagine being the very first thing ever to realise that putting a pee pee inside of a hole generates another thing, mind blowing. You would honestly feel like a magician. Imagine being the very first woman to go into labor or give birth, poor woman, probably died. Back to the educational conversation. There was no tying someone from the ceiling and filling every hole; there was no, “Let’s sit and tell each other how beautiful our bodies are while we make slow love in each other’s laps for twenty minutes”; there may have been some level of primal intimacy just like chimpanzees and other animals have, but I would argue that it all began with just plain old vanilla sex on a rock. Obviously over time the way in which we have sex, the way we view sex, the reasons we have sex, and the meaning of sex has changed. Sex used to be for reproduction only; now is a form of leisurely pleasure, deep spiritual bonding, and primal releases. When sex was for reproduction purposes only you did not need to know how to control your breath; you did not necessarily need to know about hydration; you did not need to know what positions gave the woman the most pleasure, or which positions allow the man more control of his ejaculation; you did not need to know other little tricks that make positions like missionary the most incredible position in the world – I could do missionary & the pretzel all day and not get bored. As former industry professional Stirling Cooper has pointed out, the only purpose of sex at the beginning of time was for reproduction. The male needed to put your penis inside of her vagina and ejaculate as fast as possible. Now with sex being the phenomena that it is, even vanilla sex has a certain level of skill to it. So let’s talk about how we can turn Home brand vanilla sex, into a Blue Ribbon tub. Australian ice cream joke. Prioritising your health goes a long way with any sexual encounter, a long way! So just doing the basics of health will make a vanilla encounter that much creamer. Things like staying hydrated, stretching throughout the day, consuming fruits like; watermelon, mango, blueberries, strawberries, and banana’s; these fruits give you energy and help you taste better as well. Watermelon has been linked to helping men have harder erections, mango has been linked to making you hornier, blue berries are a great antioxidant, and banana’s have long been known as the energy bar of the natural world. Pretty basic stuff right. Do some form of exercise; you do not need to have six pack abs or look like a super model - that would be obnoxious and ignorant; but getting out and moving the body does great things for the chemicals within your brain. I’m not a science geek like some of the people I follow but it has commonly been known that exercising generally makes people have more libido and a higher sex drive. Go for a twenty-minute walk a few times a week, or do some yoga, maybe take up that dance class you have always wanted to do; something that gets the body moving and heart pumping. All of these simple things go a long way in enjoying normal sex. If you have explored or intend to explore the realms of BDSM & Tantric/ sacred sex you will learn very quickly that stretching, breathing, and staying consciously aware of yourself are vital practices for a positive experience. I have mentioned all of this throughout the last couple months in my sexual education blogs. Before you are hog tied from the ceiling it is usually safe practice to stretch your muscles first, you’re going to need it. Stretching before engaging in sexual intercourse is apart of the stress removal process of tantric/ sacred sex. Apparently we need to breathe to continuously supply our body with oxygen, so learning to control our breathing is probably very important for good sex too. Go outside and enjoy the sun for a little while. All these basic things that promote great health are going to aid you in having great vanilla sex. Vanilla sex is just sex, just as good health is good health.   Put away the porn. We have already spoken about this during the blog ‘Sacred Sex’, and while porn has it’s place and some people have control of their vice, there are an awful lot that do not. If you’re watching extremely graphic porn videos like gangbangs or reverse gangbangs, extreme BDSM, fantasies that are unrealistic you are going to struggle being aroused when you have a real person in front of you wanting the most simple thing – or for some men becoming hyper aroused when you have a real human experience and finish too quickly. And if you are anything like what I was like when I consumed porn, you enjoy seeing someone attractive on your screen. If you are constantly masturbating to these hyper attractive woman, and hyper attractive men you may struggle with a range of different sexual complications when in the company of a real person who looks nothing like your last three-hundred-and-sixty solo orgasms. If you as a woman have been using a high intensity vibrator regularly on your clit and inside your vagina for a number of years, there is a high likelihood that you will struggle to become aroused from the physical touch of a real person. If you have been masturbating to ten out of ten ‘super models’ with giant, perfectly symmetrical tits, a perfect ass, tight waist, and tanned skin for the last God knows how long; and you then have an experience with a girl who may be a little thicker, one breast is slightly bigger than the other, and she has a couple scars, you may struggle to become erect. Maybe you’re a quick releaser and just need to masturbate for thirty seconds to have that post nut clarity after work, there is a high liklihood your practice will be preached and your thirty seconds will repeat itself in the bedroom. Quite recently I mentioned that I consume porn for training purposes; I have exercises that I do to increase various strengths, muscles, and sizes around my erogenous zone, and because I do not have a partner that I am regularly sexual with in my personal life porn is the easiest option when in need. Though as I edit this blog I am now two weeks without consuming any porn for such purposes, I simply use the power of my imagination. Due to my diet and daily supplements, I can maintain a healthy erection – if not, a stronger erection when training. I went clean from porn for about two & half, three years and during this process did not masturbate at all. I was dating someone for most of the time, and when I was not dating anyone I was not highly active. I can tell you firsthand about the problems associated with the over consumption of porn, the effect porn has on our brains and mindsets, and the effect it has on your relationships. If you have a partner(s), I now personally believe there is no reason anyone within the relationship should be consuming porn, while also having the broader view as to how & why the snake is eating it’s own tale. Put the porn down, learn how to excite, entice, seduce, romance, ravage, make love over a number of days, and fuck until you can’t fuck no more. Okay, the dad advice is out of the way now.   Even during vanilla sex you can practice a range of different things to enhance the experience. As a woman you could moan deeply, as your man grunts. Nibble on your partner’s earlobe while you are body to body. Whisper dirty things in your partner’s ear (personal favourite). Learn how to pull & grab hair correctly. Learn how to hold someone’s throat correctly. Adjust the pace. Add a pillow. As the man you’re probably accustomed to doing most of the thrusting, let your woman move her hips and do some work from time to time. Learn to enjoy the sight of a sexy human giving you, or receiving your pleasure while staying in one continual position for five, ten, fifteen minutes. There are like ten variations of missionary off the top of my head, and there is an entire body to learn about and explore. We live in a time of such short attention spans that we become bored easily and crave ‘the new’ too intensely, everything was yesterday and tomorrow can’t come soon enough. At the same time everything has already happened. Look at fashion for example, nothing really goes out of style, it’s just the season that our phones and social media tell us it is. And while I understand there have always been ‘trends’, we live in a time where you can make the fashion of two seasons ago, your thing of today. This is the beauty and the art of vanilla sex; learning to do the timeless well and just keep things simple. Why change positions if it feels good for the both of you. Who is to say that you can’t stay in one position for twenty minutes if it feels great and no one is cramping. Obviously doing the exact same four positions in the exact same sequence, with the exact same intensity, every. Single. Time. You copulate. Will be boring. Learn a little sexual & emotional intelligence. For a lot of people, virgins, and those who may not have a large experience of sex; vanilla sex still requires you to put in work, vanilla sex still requires you to learn, but vanilla sex is just sex, and sex that doesn’t need extravagant thinking or copious amounts of time. When you get past the need to come all the time you can have five to ten-minute quickies at your convenience which build up the sexual tension and eventually, and theoretically give you the orgasm you desire. You’re practicing sexual transmutation and delayed ejaculation, do you remember the XXL balloon analogy I used in the ‘Sacred Sex’ blog. If you struggle to have even a two-minute quickie then there are exercises and things that you can do to improve. As the man the first thing you will need to assess is how quickly you ejaculate when you watch porn. If you are fixing your ‘needs’ with a one-minute quick fix and then struggling to last thirty-seconds in the bedroom that will most likely be a serious factor. At the conclusion of this blog I will link some of the professionals that I have learnt from to aid in the skills to be a better in the bedroom. Read their work, contact them, and enrich your sex life. I understand and empathise with the fact that there are still complications for some people that prevent them from being able to enjoy plain old sex, and unless there is a medical interference, it shouldn’t be like that. To experience a good twenty minutes of simple vanilla sex should not be a commodity. Start slow, control your breathing, wear a condom, use some lube if need be   Most of my sexual experiences in life so far have been quite vanilla. Yes I’ve had sex in an adult cinema; jerked my cock for a sexting session for an entire day while on a trade site – obviously in privacy; I’ve had sex at a workplace with the bosses daughter; had a couple one night encounters; carried out a handful of BDSM scenes; practiced creating a multi hour tantric experience; received a blowjob in a festival cubical; I’ve masturbated into my hand and then rubbed them together; I’ve licked up my own seaman off tits and swallowed it – multiple times; I have drank female come straight from the pussy like you drink water straight out of a tap; and I’ve had sex with a woman while she was on her period. Compared to some people who made all of this happen the first week they lost their virginity - that’s an exaggeration obviously; I am quite tame. Then you have the other side of the spectrum where a lot of people have never even imagined half of what I just told you and think that I am the kinkiest, most wild person in the world. What I’m getting at here is that just because you have not mastered Shabari rope, or never had extremely kinky fuck fests, or never had deep, powerful, sacred sex sessions, does not mean you’re missing out. Maybe you do have your own personal kinky experiences and styles of love making that you wish to explore, and that is also what I would like to discursively elaborate here. If you want to experience being anal fucked by a foot that is completely normal. If you want to give a man a rim job (lick his asshole) that’s completely normal. You thoroughly enjoy sitting on someone’s lap holding them and slowly grinding yourself back and forth, that is completely normal. You want to use balloons for a range of different things that’s normal. I had a conversation with a girl who wanted to have sex in a bathtub while being covered in canned spaghetti. That’s normal. And what I mean by normal is that it is okay to want to try something a little different, a little out of the ordinary, what some may very well call strange. You might find their naughty pleasure strange and would never dream of trying it. And that’s part of our job as escorts, to help provide people with a safe space to explore those kinky & sacred experiences. Not all escorts will provide the experience you want though, some may not feel comfortable providing that service or have the tools to provide that experience in a safe and enjoyable way. The main point I am trying to make here is that just having sex, normal plain old sex, is what most people have, and it is really fun when you put the simple action steps into practice and become sexual & emotionally intelligent.   I have not explored as much as I would like within the world of kink & tantra. and truthfully, while there is a lot I want to explore, I am quite demure with wanting to explore those worlds of sex. I’ve said this previously, “Within the world of kink & sex in general, you do not need to try everything to know if you like it”. I am only twenty-six though. And so, if you are for arguments sake over thirty-five and had a dull or non-existent sex life except for the time you created your three spoilt little humans, you’re probably going to want to explore as much sex as sexually possible. The only time you felt genuinely sexy was the one minute that he made you a balloon for nine months; and if you’re a man reading this, the only time you felt like the man your woman actually wanted, was those one, two, or three times she sucked your cock without you asking while you were up late watching NCIS or something, she was horny and you thought fuck it why not. Me only being twenty-six I have plenty of years to explore, and so I am relatively demure within my personal sex life. Over my time of personally talking with experienced kinksters and people who have practiced sacred sex (however few that may be), there are a lot that say they will never go back, while an awful lot (usually the more sexually mature) express how much they enjoy getting back to vanilla sex. Because when you dive into different types of BDSM & kink, and sacred/ tantric sex you learn about all the elements that make a vanilla session good: Breath work, the importance of stretching, the importance of hydration, the importance of communication, how to lead & how to follow, learning to slow things down and take a break. When you develop the skills to have good vanilla sex, and are frequently having sex, you will learn that you don’t have to think too much, you just have fun with what you are feeling in the moment, there are no huge expectations like with a BDSM scene where you’re expecting to have your entire body sweat, bleed and shake. You’re not expecting to transcend to a place out of this world like with tantric practices. It’s just sex that feels good. You can enjoy the sexiness of your partner, you can enjoy giving & receiving pleasure, and you just get to enjoy plain old normal Blue-Ribbon sex. The reason I believe some people say that once you go kinky or sacred you will never go back is because you could have one huge sexual session for multiple hours and be sexually satisfied for a week, two weeks, or even a month, compared to say having thirty minutes of sex five times in one week. And just like the porn you may consume, when you increase the intensity, or discover something nuance, it can be difficult to go back to the previous content you consumed; If you started with simple lesbian porn but now consume BDSM orgies where two girls are ten guys whores, you may find it difficult to go back to the videos you started with. So if you progress from vanilla sex into say sacred, deep love making, passionate sex, you could quite easily struggle to find as much pleasure in normal vanilla sex. But I beg the question for all those kinksters & sacred sex people; do you never wake up in the morning next to your partner and just want twenty minutes of cock or pussy? Without it being set as a task like in some BDSM dynamics, would you (the reader) enjoy having your pussy eaten in the morning because your man just wants to lick your lips for a couple of minutes; would you enjoy waking your man up with a warm mouth wrapping itself around his succulent cock; would you as a man enjoy your woman making you a rock and then riding you for five minutes. Neither of you may even come. Should you have read my blog ‘Sacred Sex’ you would know sexual retention is incredible for both men & women. If you shared five minutes of sex and then left each other to get ready for your days, you would have the best built up sexual energy all day. If you were in a monogamous relationship, loyal, and having that type of morning, you would both be thinking about each other all day long while also having this controlled, positive sexual energy storing inside of you. You may even continue your playful regime as you get ready for the day; a couple thrusts in the shower, a blow job while your girl is on the toilet, eating some pussy while she brushes her teeth, you get the deal. Obviously some major circumstances may come into effect during the day that kill your sex drive, but based on my own experiences unless it’s catastrophic or something serious you two will most likely find that sex will continue. And obviously this is where if something serious does present itself you show each other that you care about each other, through communication and emotional intelligence for the situation; if you were going to spend the time having sex you have the time to have an ear or a hug. It can be daunting to explore, experiment, learn about, and experience sacred sex or kinky sex when you read things that say once you experience ‘this’ you won’t want to go back, but I just don’t believe that to be entirely true. Because vanilla sex, is the core ingredient to all sexual practices, and is the foundation of sexual education. When you learn about the world of kink & sacred sex, and learn the values that should be taught within these practices, the skills and techniques to provide fun forms of adult play, your sexual awareness and sexual intelligence increases. Without plain old vanilla sex you would not have kinky & sacred sex. Just how if no one learnt how to make a rhythm using strings or keys, we would not have DJ’s, rappers, and potentially singers.   As you explore the world of sex, become more sexually educated and more sexually intelligent; I believe you will enjoy vanilla sex. It is the foundation of all sexual realms. Without vanilla sex we would not have kinky sex, BDSM sex, or tantric sex. Sometimes within the sex world I think vanilla sex receives a bad, banal, or ‘too old’ reputation; if it isn’t a ten person orgy; if I’m not screaming for my life; if I’m not being at one with mind, body, emotions, and soul than it’s not even fun. Just imagine if every single couple in the world woke up with ten minutes of fun, vanilla sex every morning. Not looking at it like a chore, not saying “your turn to eat me out, I sucked your dick yesterday”, not concerned with the orgasm, but just finding ten minutes to enjoy your partner(s) every morning. In a perfect world that would probably be one of the biggest steps in lowering the divorce rate, improving marriages, and make people a whole lot happier. While I may be an escort and thoroughly enjoy being an escort, there are far more benefits that come from lower divorce rates; happy and fulfilled relationships & marriages; sexually satisfied people; than a paycheck that supports higher divorce rates, and unsexually satisfied people.  As an escort most of the sex that I have had and that I offer is vanilla sex. While I can bring toys like vibrators, dildos, and whips into the session; while I offer a POV film styled porn experience; I can and am willing to create a BDSM scene; most of the sex I have had is tame sex. Yes I’ve had a couple threesomes, but even they were relatively tame. Even one client that I failed just wanted good normal sex. Most couples that inquired just want vanilla sex but with a third.   Vanilla sex is underrated at times and that is unfortunate. When people say, “It’s just sex” that are referring to vanilla sex. At least I hope anyway. And it is just sex, because whether you like it or not the only reason you are reading these words is because a penis created sperm that went inside of an egg and morphed into your existence. Vanilla sex has been here since the dawn on man kind. It’s just good, fun, sex. Maybe I’m really just that old of a soul. I like the simple things. I do like extravagant things; fast cars; suits that make people say, “Damn, he’s fucking hot!”; the idea of being jacked; I like hard kinky fucked up sex; I love deep, soulful, passionate, love making. I also enjoy a simple good campfire; I like Suzuki swifts and a simple Sudan that’s comfortable; I love a good book and tea; I like doing sweet fuck all and eating a bag of chips while I watch a movie; and I like good vanilla, blue ribbon sex. What about you? Do you like just good plain old vanilla sex? Comment below.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule. Mobile: 0411 316 973 Email: lexxsoule@gmail.com www.lexxsoule.com

The power to make love which man alone possess distinguishes him from the rest of the animal species. However, When he misuses this unique creative gift he taps back into his animal past into the mechanical animal drive, and masturbates or mates without love. He is then unhappy. ~ Barry Long Tantric teacher   Orgasm sets in motion a cascade of programmed neurochemical events, which may continue for approximately two weeks. They change how we feel and perceive the world around us, especially our partners. ~ Marina Robinson   Temptation is fire. Triumph over temptation is light ~ Samael Aun Woer   Making love is like inflating a ballon. Having an orgasm is like popping the balloon. But if you finish without an orgasm, you are like a balloon that takes several days to gradually deflate. Leaving you much longer to enjoy that inflated feeling. ~ Testimony from the book ‘Cupid Poisoned arrow’   Today’s blog we will be discussing Tantric/ sacred sex. Educating you on some of the basics around sacred sex, some of the misconceptions, what sexual energy is, and what a sacred sex session may look like. At the conclusion of this blog will be a small list of videos and books that I have consolidated with previous knowledge and experience to write this blog. I highly recommend having some fun and creating your own little research project, before creating a beautiful tantric/ sacred sex session with an intimate partner. Just like with the subject of BDSM, tantric/ sacred sex is a powerful form of sexual intercourse. Do not be confused between TANTRA & tantric sex they are two separate things. As we will discuss in small detail TANTRA is an ancient Indian religion and spiritual way of life that stems from Buddhist & Hinduist beliefs; Tantric/ sacred sex is a very deep form of love making that if done correctly - or incorrectly; will pair the souls together. While Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex are two completely different things, the two are also closely tied together. Without being a guru or certified practitioner of Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex, I may not always phrase everything correctly. I am an entry level student of this practice and so the information is just of a general nature around the subject of Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex. This blog has been written and interpreted from a male heterosexual view.   If you think BDSM is the perfect escape for narcissists to release their tendencies to control, manipulate, and abuse someone. Wait until you realise the strength of real, deep, pure love that tantric love making, and sacred sex can bring. The depth and power that is found within tantric sex & sacred sex is extremely alluring! It is love, it is powerful! Obviously if you have any prior knowledge of real tantric/ sacred sex, or even the subject of Tantra as a whole, you would know that the previous paragraph is the furthest thing from what Tantra represents, and what Tantric sex is about. Tantra is love; pure, unfiltered, deep love. The word Tantra is thrown around like internet coaches selling you their ‘life changing’ course. “Tantra is free sexual liberation, express yourself to the world, have massive orgies, and have sex with me to also become a Tantra master”; just how the coach will say, “You just have to believe in yourself, sell your car, divorce the wife, and buy my course that I pay actors in the room to sign up for”. Tantra is a religious/ spiritual practice & belief system from ancient India that worshipped the power of the feminine, the physical beauty of the female, her spiritual intellect, her life-giving capabilities, and had goddesses who believers of this faith worshipped. It is a sub-religion of the Buddhist and Hindu belief systems. To know what REAL TANTRA is, you will be par-taking in religious studies. “So if it’s basically bible studies how did sex become intertwined so deeply?” Great question. I could be wrong here, but all religions place importance on sex, it’s just the beliefs around sex that complicate some people’s beliefs. Sex is vital to the creation of life. Every religion, including satanists know this. I’m going to take a guess that you are not a test tube baby, if you’re reading this from the year 2040 maybe another story. Even then, unless the sperm was artificially created, a test tube baby would have been created through an element of sex. Masturbation. Sex is more than just intercourse. Because of the poor sexual education here in Australia (Maybe it has changed) most people do not know or understand that sex is so much more then just cunnilingus, a blow job, and penetration. And until I became an escort I did not have this deeper understanding of what sex really is either. I had the basics, and knew the importance of sex, but had no deep appreciation for the WHOLE experience of sex. I now understand why masturbating daily for no reason other than to ‘release stress’ is a waste of energy. Using a vibrator every time you want to flick the bean yourself can make stimulation from another human less enjoyable. Understanding that a lot of sexual health problems can be fixed. Learning about the importance of sexual health from the perspective of the foods and supplements you consume. Learning that a man can grow his penis. Learning that we all have unique parts of our body that turn us on or off, for example one person loves having their ear lobe played, nibbled, and blown on; while another person will tell you to never touch their ear. How to have good communication around sex. The variety of reasons someone may use an escort service. The list goes on, and on, and on, and on. The conversation of sex is just like religion; what type of sex are we talking about, what topic of sex are we discussing, what are your values around sex, are you going to respect my view of sex, and so forth. That being said sex should be a lot more comfortable to talk than religion because we as humans can no believe in a religion if we do not have sex. Unless we create artificial sperm and use artificial sperm to create life we need sex to procreate. If nobody had sex and no babies were created anymore we would slowly die as a species, what happens when we are all dead, the belief of God(s) and higher beings no longer exists in our minds- those who still have their soul may be moved onto the next part of the simulation. And additionally, I do not believe we should be screaming about sex at the top of our lungs on the train or at the coffee shop, not because it is taboo, but because it does hold sacred significance to some people. For example, Christians are no against sex, they just believe you should be disciplined with sex, and as I have learnt withholding sex until marriage holds a lot of power for a couple, and I respect couples who stand by this belief and strengthen other parts of the relationship first. That being said, personally I will not be waiting for marriage to have sex – well I can’t I’m a SEX WORKER. A dirty, unintelligent, man whore. Some people also do not need or want to hear that you were hung from a ceiling by the dungeon master/ mistress and whipped every time you forgot what you were meant to remember. They do not want to hear you talk about the milk that just oozed out of your body as your pussy became his personal fuck hole. So while you should feel comfortable to have a room level conversation about the subject of sex, always be mindful of your surroundings, there is a time and place. Sex is more sacred for most women. Sex is what allows them to create life. From carrying the fetus, nurturing a child inside of them for nine months, the birth experience, then the breast feeding. Sex from this perspective creates a much more sacred experience for the female. So for a religion that worships the woman it would be only fitting that the sacred practice, the scared meditation of deep, deep love making has a high level of importance. Though as we have evolved and share love, and practice sacred sex without the necessity of reproducing I believe that sex can be and is sacred for both man & woman – providing that reproduction is not a part of the equation; otherwise spiritually sex holds much more significance for the woman.   My experiences I have only had two tantric sex sessions in my life. For me, a real tantric session is an entire day of love making, an entire day of slow dancing with each other physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. A spotless clean environment, a mind emptied of everything except the person I have the pleasure of making love with. She doesn’t need to think about anything and does not feel rushed. she feels cherished, she feels beautiful, she feels like a goddess, she feels loved. As the leader I am unconcerned with time and I go to the part of the soul that has a deep desire to care & nurture for someone – the inner masculine that thrives on love. This is part of the reason why I will not offer a complete tantric service to clients unless I am forty-years of age, decided on being a bachelor for the rest of my life, and have REAL yoga & tantric certificates. This is my own personal enjoyment, my own personal gift, and is not something I want to share with just anybody. This being said there is one person who offers sacred sexual services who piques my interest, and unless I have the partner I desire to explore this style of sex with, I am interested to see how a transactional tantric experience would feel for the emotions & soul. I may very well have slow, deep, passionate, sensual sex with someone, I appreciate the female body, the human body in of itself is a piece of art to be admired. But to provide a full tantric experience I have to know a great deal about you and who you are. Because even within my own personal experiences there are a couple minor negative memories connotated to it.     What is sexual energy? What is sexual energy?!?! Simply put sexual energy is our life energy, it’s our libido, our estrogen & our testosterone, our dopamine, our focus, our clarity. Sexual energy is the energy that professional fighters use when they engage in a competition. Sexual energy is the energy women use to glide through life instead of walk. Sexual energy is the energy a man harnesses to desire and satisfy his woman. Sexual energy is what a woman harnesses to seduce her man into a world of pleasure. When you have more sexual energy you are more focused, you are clearer with your thoughts, you are stronger, and you are more appealing. Just like everything else that holds energy, you can add more to it or you can deplete it. You can deplete this energy through consumption of bad foods, not exercising, not moving the body or stretching, masturbating excessively. You can create & store this energy by consuming good healthy food such as nuts, fruits, vegetables and non-processed meat; moving your body and stretching it – go for a walk in the sun, start yoga, palates, martial arts are excellent for sexual energy; and seaman retention. It’s common knowledge that steak, broccoli, carrots, brussel sprouts, and mashed potato is more beneficial for you than a large double quarter pounder meal with extra pickles, extra onion, and an orange juice. It’s common knowledge that moving your body is essential for healthy joints and bones. It’s common knowledge that receiving sunlight correctly is healthy. Martial arts like JuJitsu, boxing, and kick boxing work wonders for your mental & sexual health. All of this is basic, simple, common knowledge you learn when you begin studying subjects such as health, wellbeing & sexual health. All the healthier choices give you more energy. One of the biggest ways to deplete your energy is excessive masturbation & porn consumption. At the time of writing this I have given up porn for good. And yes I still do my solo penis exercises. I thought that I would need the extra stimulation to jelq my cock or do weighted kegal exercises but I was wrong. Thanks to a good diet, everyday supplements, and water; I can use my mind to do what I need to do. As an ex-porn addict (up to four times a day), I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that masturbating for a ‘stress release’ or to ‘just blow your load’ depletes your energy. Masturbating of any sort to completion will drain & deplete your energy. When you learn how to transmute the sexual energy that you are about to flush down the toilet or gift your vibrator, you will start to see incredible results in your mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual world. Sexual transmutation or seamen retention is a practice where you with strain yourself from ejaculating. Doing seamen retention alone can be done by avoiding masturbating altogether which is the easiest method, or when you do masturbate you do so without porn and do not orgasm, this is what sexual educators call edging. When you put the porn down and learn to pleasure yourself with your own thoughts you can begin to explore your body with a lot more detail, finding out what other sensations you enjoy. You might find pleasure in running your hands through your hair, or gracing the bottom of your feet, or asphyxiating yourself; you may find pleasure in tapping & smacking your balls as a man or breasts as a woman; things I can guarantee 99% of porn consumers would not do when they have a screen in front of them that contains high intensity porn. When you put the screen down your focus is on yourself not the people on the screen, this allows yourself the brain capacity and room to breathe deeply, explore yourself, and take control of your orgasm. Should you be practicing sexual transmutation with a partner your mostly like not going to masturbate at all unless mutually practiced together or extreme scenarios where you are travelling afar and are forced to have digital sex. Should you have a partner I advise against solo masturbation most of the time. So yes, as a couple practicing transmutation you can still have sex, neither of you come, and you both learn to control yourself. And while there are heaps of people who say blue balls will give you cancer, blue balls are bad for you; there are an equal amount of studies and papers that say delaying your ejaculation will not do any harm and can even be beneficial for you, providing you redirect the energy. When you have real sex with a partner it is easy to direct the energy away from your erogenous zone, just cuddle for ten minutes and gift the other person some affection. The energy from your erogenous zones now has a pathway to your heart, which is then pumped to the brain, which connects to the soul, which fuels positive emotions. Compared to artificial porn, there is no way on any playing field that the energy from your erogenous zone is going back through your heart. Now look I am not a health professional so the information above is just from my perspective, if you need porn in order to get things going, I have no understanding and I cannot comment; All I know is that from my experiences and my knowledge that you will not transmute sexual energy consuming porn. Should you be practicing transmutation and still masturbating without any added artificial stimulation, there are multiple ways that you can redirect the energy from your erogenous zone to other parts of your body. Because when you are masturbating with nothing but your mind you will be much more conscious and sensitive to other parts of the body. When you are consuming porn your attention will be on the sexy, perverted, naughty things of your screen.  Should you practice transmutation and seamen retention it is at your own accord, and I hold no liability at all! I shouldn’t have to type that last sentence but I must. I learnt and attest to this piece of knowledge that I acquired a few years ago from a pickup artist coach, now industry podcast host ‘Marcus Wolf’. If you have a partner or play mate, and you tell her that she is not allowed to have your come because you’re transmuting for a month, she will go ballistic for you. *GENERALISATION INCOMING. Women like seeing a man come. She wants to get off too, that is very important (sometimes); but women thoroughly enjoy seeing a man ejaculate for them. They are that hot or that good at what they are doing that they can make their man come. So when you say, “No babe I’m not coming for a month” you may have a little bit of war on your hands because she wants that hot load of spume out of your ball sack. It is incredible to see the effects that happen when you refrain from ejaculating. Let’s use the quote from above Making love is like inflating a ballon. Having an orgasm is live popping the balloon. But if you finish without an orgasm, you are like a balloon that takes several days to gradually deflate. Leaving you much longer to enjoy that inflated feeling. ~ Testimony from the book ‘Cupid Poisoned arrow’   Imagine the bag of balloons is your sexual energy. You blow up a balloon and play with it for a day, but than you become board with said balloon because you do not want a red ballon anymore, you want a yellow one; so you pop the red balloon and inflate the yellow one. You then keep repeating this process, and soon enough you have an empty packet and will need to go buy another packet to continue the fun. If you keep ejaculating your energy down the toilet, you’re going to be like a packet of ballons. The empty packet is a symbol for you being completely tired, grumpy, and lazy. How you ask; because if you have been playing with said balloons, chances are you are addicted to those ballons, therefore when it is empty you will mostly cry, whing, and really want more balloons. Whereas if you inflate one ballon, you play with it, and then say enough is enough for today, coming back to the ballon in a few days, you will still have a ballon that you can use. Unless the dog ate it. And because you have patiently emptied your packet (the symbol for energy) you will most likely be more patient with ‘NEEDING’ another packet, and not be so concerned when it is empty. You will most likely be happy because you have just finished playing with ballons for the last six months not six days. Using the balloon analogy above you should be able to clearly see how holding onto your sexual energy through delayed ejaculation and sexual transmutation keeps the energy positively stored within your body, allowing you to be more focused, have more clarity, feel stronger, look sexier, smell sexier and even feel sexier. When you start to become more in tune with your body and its senses, you can increase the intensity of the delayed ejaculation by getting yourself as close to orgasm as possible, before ceasing everything and trying to prevent yourself from going overboard. It’s heaps of fun! You will learn that you can release seamen and still have the mental state of mind to maintain an erection and maintain the energy to continue on with the sexual session or your day. The feeling for a guy is incredible! If you can get yourself to the point of no return but withhold yourself from going over the edge, you’ll feel like a million bucks. Just be careful not to get excited too quickly, let everything cool down, breathe, take a two-to-five-minute break to have some water, stretch, and breathe if you need; once you are one-hundred percent calm and focused again, rekindle if you so wish. Let me paint you a picture and tell yourself if this sounds like a pleasurable break. You’ve been making slow, passionate, penetrative love for twenty minutes and one or both of your need a break to prevent orgasming. You have a five minute break of enjoying water, stretching and catching your breath. Would you enjoy just looking into your partners eyes, or admiring their entire naked body, spiritually telling each other that they are the sexiest piece of art you have ever seen? How would that feel to give? how would that feel to receive? Would you even care if you just admired each other for your beautiful bodies, intricate souls, and wonderful minds for another five minutes? This ten-minute break could lead to the next two hours of deep, soulful penetrative sex that melts every part of your beings.   Bringing your attention back to the point of no return edge; with the amount of energy you have just withheld and stored, you may feel like going to the gym for a few hours, or running a marathon, or writing a book. Maybe a little bit of an exaggeration but you will feel pumped if you go to the edge and then refrain from orgasming. This particular practice does require conscious training though. *GENERALISATION INCOMING. Women hate being denied orgasms. My arbitrary belief is that because females are usually more receptable to multiple orgasms compared to males; they hate being taken to an orgasm and denied a come a little more than man. *GENERALISATION FINISHED. If you are a man reading this, deny your woman from coming for an entire hour of sex, tell her she must communicate with you when she is close to coming and then you pull away from her; relax, breath, let the sexual chemistry of the room settle, and then SLOWLY build things back up again. If you denied her three orgasms and then let her have the fourth at the one-hour mark, she would explode! Think one of those XXL ballons at full capacity popping. If you are a women reading this, educate your man on the subject by telling him you read an article about delayed ejaculation for women and that you want to try it, that way he can still lead the experience and feel like the masculine. If you are a couple reading this, do I need to say anything……. If you want to experience an edging experience with me, LEXX SOULE; I am happy to come with you through the experience (pun intended). Just SMS 0411 316 973. Squirting can be included. I empathise with the fact that there are a range of different medical conditions, and/ or life experiences that make orgasms a game of chess or a game of snap. Meaning, for whatever your specific reason, practicing edging may be more difficult than the way I have worded this practice. There are plenty of sexual health professionals out there that could possibly help you start your journey of sexual transmutation if you fall into this category; two all-round sex educators I always recommend are Caitline Victorious & Esther Perel. Sexual energy is more than just the fire of the bedroom. Sexual energy is more than having a sex appeal. Sexual energy is our life energy, it is what allows us to go through the day, it is what allows us to have a clear mind. Sexual energy is deeply rooted in all that we do & what we consume. Learning what sexual energy really is, how to control and improve your sexual energy is important to having a healthy life mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually.   What might a tantric/ sacred sex practice look like? I will not be sharing my two personal accounts, but what I will share are some concepts around what may make a tantric/ sacred sex session fulfilling and fun for you and those you wish to share the experience with. One of the biggest things during the entire love making session is the appreciation and worship of the body. The body is a work of art and so you must ensure that you show your appreciation. Compliment your man’s strong arms, his round shoulders, thick neck, scruffy hair, maybe his booty, his eyebrows, his lips, his scars. Complement your woman’s collar bones, her eyelashes, her eyes, her smile, her breasts, her cellulite, her tummy, the softness of her skin, the roundness of her soft feet. Conferring love to the other person for the vessel of art that they were gifted. We all have imperfections on our body, these insecurities play at our mental view of ourselves, hearing another person find and detail everything that they love about our body is extremely alluring and soulful. While there may be one person leading the session, there is a much more fluent flow to the sex the allows the leader to also be the follower, like a Yin Yang. During tantric/ sacred sex there isn’t any pressure to change positions, you are not thinking about a finish line, the leader does not need to be the dictator, it is just a slow meditative style of sexual intercourse. Tantric sex is a great form of meditation. Obviously with the style of intercourse that sacred/ tantric sex is, there is a huge emphasis on breath work; deep controlled breaths that you try to sync together. Breaths that come from the deepest parts of your diaphragm. Timing your inhale perfectly with your partner and exhaling as one. Just how two women who are regularly together can sync their menstrual cycle, just how two peoples’ steps will sync when walking together; you and your partner will join in a meditative sync that will connect two lovers in ways you never imagined. This is where the leader may have to demonstrate his leadership, counting, “In 1….2….3…. hold….out 1….2….3….” and repeating the process in a calm quite tone until both are breathing together, simultaneously the man glides his penis in & out of her magnificent vagina. When you are with someone that you love deeply, making this type of love, feeling their body pressed against yours, their erogenous zones exciting yours, and your breaths are not a second out of beat; you will feel one of the most incredible emotions and experience a moment of spiritual transcendence like no other. That is love! Before you engage in sacred sexual acts you may just share space together. Sitting face to face holding hands; maybe you touch each other’s heart while breathing; maybe one sits in the lap of the other face to face and you just embrace each other, supporting each other’s posture, using your energy to protect their energy; maybe you just lay down, cuddle and gently stroke your partners face. You might take a shower together prior to the sharing of space, taking your time to clean each other and as commonly said, “Wash all the negative energy from your lives”. Post intercourse it is best to wait at least ten, fifteen minutes before showering again, you have energy radiating around you, showering straight away washes all the energy away too quickly. Just lay, cuddle and caress each other, talking about the session, more worshiping of each other, compliments, and admiring each other. Some people will go as far as monitoring what they eat and how much they eat during a tantric period, and practice a range of different fasts. Some people may only eat three portions of meat during tantric weeks compared to seven. They will not consume any artificial sugar or fatty fast food, consuming fruits and nuts instead. The aftercare for tantric sex is just as vital as it is within BDSM because it reassures your partner that you meant the words of love that were said. If you have just been complimenting your husband for how much you love his feet, his shaved head, his thick dad bod, his dark brown eyes, and chest hair; reassure him of those things during the cuddle. Rather than just saying, “That was great sex, I love tantric sex” you might say something like, “You have no idea how attractive your chest hair looks with your body when you stand in the kitchen without a shirt on”, “When you look deep into my eyes during sex, you make it extremely hard for me to control my orgasm”, “Please never grow Jesus hair, I love your short, shaved, prison styled hair. You look so bad and sexy!”. Do you see the difference in how that would feel to say and receive. If you’re a guy admiring your woman, rather than saying, “You’re so sexy baby, and so good at sex” say something like “You have some incredibly sexy legs baby, every time you’re walking away from me they steal my attention from everything”, “You have the most beautiful eyes in the entire world. I could stare into them all day if I didn’t have to pay bills and survive!”, “When you lay on top of me and just grind your perfect pussy along my cock, you give me the biggest rush of goosebumps”. Again, do you see the difference in how that would feel to say and receive. Maybe neither of you need to say anything, you both just admire each other’s bodies and sexual offerings. You’re going deeper than just the physical realm of sexual attraction, you are saying that I love this about you, you are sexy because of this, you make me feel things I have not felt before. Do you see how Tantric/ sacred sex is an equally powerful type of sex to which BDSM is, and how if practiced wrong serious psychological, emotional, and spiritual damage can occur. This sex is the furthest thing from meek. Just because the practice puts an emphasis on love does not make it soft, and when you even look at the surface level of Tantra the religion, there are stories of goddesses beheading other goddesses. Tantric sex is a meditative style of sex. Tantra is love. And love is powerful! For those who have been following my educational blogs over the last couple months, could you imagine having an experience where you travel from one sexual realm to the other. Extreme BDSM to Tantra; or would you travel from the sacred world to the kinky world. Either way, that is a lot of work, a lot of preparation, and a lot of thinking. But would be one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences a couple could share from my perspective, a once-a-year treat.   Conclusion The word Tantra is so much more than what most common people know. Tantra is a way of life, it is a belief system, it is a form of spiritual transcendence. Tantra is not an excuse to liberate yourself and have five orgies a week, be promiscuous, and feel connected to everything that has an erogenous zone. Tantra is an ancient Indian religion. This blog has not even discussed things like red, white, black, pink & grey Tantra. Tantra is huge, Tantra is a religious study and a lifestyle. Tantra has NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX; but everything to do with sex. Tantric/ sacred sex is a form of offering, giving, and receiving love. Tantric sex is a slow dance of intimacy that could last days or weeks, focusing on preservation, discipline, oneness, fluidity, and a deep appreciation for ones self and others. Tantric/ sacred sex is a meditational style of sex that allows two spirits to bond, and bodies to be truly appreciated. Tantric sex has no distinguished finish line, and promotes consciousness with the mind, body, soul, and emotions. Tantric sex is not about having eight hours of sensual sex seven days a week because you are addicted to sex, rather learning to control the waves of sex and let the acts of sex happen naturally and fluently. Tantric sex is a dance, a slow intimate dance of the soul, and a worship of these art vessels we call the human body. I encourage you to learn about this magnificent lifestyle and style of sex, because when you consolidate Tantric/ sacred sexual practices with BDSM practices I believe that you can truly start to develop a deeper appreciation for what sex is, what sex represents, and how to enjoy sex on a much deeper level. And in the next blog that I post ‘Let’s Just Copulate’ you will learn that you can bring some of the knowledge from these two polar opposite realms of sex and use them in the simple day to day vanilla sex. The education of Tantra, Tantric/ sacred sex and BDSM sex create a perfect Yin Yang for sexual education.   Hopefully you have learnt something today, maybe you have now become interested in the practice and will continue further studies. If you are a couple reading this, please try this style of sex with an open mind & heart, make it special, make it romantic, it can be a lot of fun. Should you have any questions for me about this blog please just email lexxsoule@gmail.com and I will do my best to point you in the right direction if I can. Like I said though I do not offer tantric services to clients at this stage of my career and it will be many years before I do. That being said if you do want a more SENSUAL service where we take things very slow I am happy to accommodate.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule. Mobile: 0411 316 973 Email: lexxsoule@gmail.com Further education YouTube 1.    Demystifying Tantra: The Secrets of Sacred Sexuality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWGfM2xZVfo   2.   What is TANTRA? Introduction for Beginners with Mahara https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szMCKtAULA4   3.   How to Practice Sexual Alchemy / White Tantra / Karmamudra / Karezza Explained (Awaken Kundalini) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XUzggtYQ9ic 4.   Demystifying Tantra: The Secrets of Sacred Sexuality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWGfM2xZVfo 5. Misconceptions about tantra yoga, Sadhguru about Technique of extreme discipline https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOJRNNEtvuU&t=309s   6.   The Secrets of SACRED SEXUALITY & How To Practice It! [7 Tantra Tips] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MV9IW7shmz8   7.   Vidya Dehejia on the Yoginis: goddesses of Tantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvRso-8oMnU   8.   Act as If You Are Not Possessive About Sexuality || alan watts black screen || alan watts no music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vUf9jtZKu0 Books 1.     Dear Lover by David Deida The female equivalent of ‘The Way of The Superior Man’. This great book talks about a woman’s purpose from a traditional but spiritual perspective, and when the origins of tantric/ sacred sex stem from Tantra, an ANCIENT religion that worships the feminine and female, you may want to take some notes from a good traditional source. David has a lot of great value within the world of sex, and so the word ‘traditional’ should not disgust or scare you. David Talks predominately from a heterosexual viewpoint. 2.    Women Don’t Owe You Pretty By Florence A feminist book. WHAT!?!?! Yeah!! Here is the thing, real feminism is great, what feminists have fought to achieve for females is PHENOMENAL. No longer does a woman have to be a stay at home object on the shelf, she can choose to go out into the world and build her empire if she so chooses, she can choose to have kids or not have kids. Within Australia women will not be paid less due to being female. This all being said men & women are not the same. We do not operate the same. We think differently. We have different hormones and organs. The problem is not feminism the problem is extremists. This conversation is too deep and big for this blog, if you want to talk about it put me on a podcast. I dislike red pills views, and I dislike feminists that say Jordan Peterson is a psychopath. If you want to make ten million dollars you’ll probably listen to a millionaire. To become a high value man of modern society who truly loves the feminine, sometimes you have to shut the fuck up and listen to her. Good book.   3.    Come as you are by Emily Nagoski PhD Currently I am three quarters of the way through this book. It is a book of accepting yourself as a woman and appreciating your own beauty, navigating stress around sex, mood, and trust. This is a great book for women to start learning how to accept themselves; their ‘imperfections’, their turn ons and turn offs, how to trust themselves and their own judgment and much more that I can’t remember off the top of my head. For men; again if you aspire to be a high value man within modern society sometimes you have to listen to the feminine, even if it is to learn her indirect messages, emotional rollercoasters or her need to talk for the sake of talking. She needs to be heard, appreciated, and feel like she matters. Men are from mars, women from Venus, basic stuff. Women are still people, and while they are generally more emotional thinkers than men (excluding 74.52% of today’s men) they still have a brain in between their ears. Learn the feminine, learn the masculine. Good book. 4.    Atlas Of the Heart By Brene Brown A book about healing from trauma. The journey of the spirit is about learning how to let go of that which no longer serves you or brings about negativity to your life. Tantric/ sacred sex can have healing capabilities if done correctly & consciously, studying a little bit about trauma will do you no harm when embarking on a spiritual journey like Tantra; or experiencing the sacred spiritual form of tantric sex 5.    Tantric Orgasm for Women By Diana Richardson Currently listening now and enjoying the information within. 6.    The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. From a heterosexual point of view women do not want sissy’s. Men do not want to date a boy. This does not mean men have to be violent, aggressive, and trying to fight every guy that looks towards his girl. “The best way to win a war is one without violence” Sun Tzu ‘The Art of War’. This does not mean girls can not play footy, learn how to rebuild a car, or be a tradie. This just means from a spiritual perspective the feminine wants the masculine and the masculine wants the feminine. And there are feminine & masculine qualities in all of us. Most of us lean one way or the other. This is even pointed out early in this book “This could have been called The Way of The Superior Masculine”. This book is a phenomenal book for all. I believe the book has the exact same intellect level of Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus. Practice the basics. 7.    Hard Times Create Strong Men By Stefan Aarnio THIS BOOK CHANGED MY LIFE! THE BEST BOOK I HAVE EVER LISTENED TOO!   Harden up snowflake. Work it out. Grow a pair and deal with your shit. No one cares about you. Tantric/ sacred sex stems from Tantra. Tantra is an ANCIENT religion, therefor the traditional beliefs of MASCULINE & FEMININE are crucial to exploring this area of sex. NOT MAN & WOMEN. MASCULINE & FEMININE. Stefan talks about how the masculine and feminine is in all of us. As we have discussed the FEMININE GENERALLY SPEAKING IN A SEXUAL TERM wants the MASCULINE. I have even had countless people who are interested in the same sex, agree with what I have just said. This book may be hard for some people to swallow, it is direct, it cuts to the point, he talks facts, he is respectful. Like I previously said in the ‘Come As You Are’ review. Learn the feminine. Learn the masculine.     Make deep, full, hearted love.     Sexual educators My top all-rounder picks are Caitlin Victorious. Esther Perel. David Deida.

I'd love to go to a lookout with you in the middle of the day, I'd be looking out admiring the view while you stand behind me with your arms around me, you start kissing my neck and you move your hands to to grab my tits, you moan in my ear and tell me im in trouble. You move you hand underneath my shirt and rough move my bra out of the way and start playing with my nipples, you have your other hand tightly wrapped around my hip pulling me into your growing cock, you quickly move your arm around my neck and put me in a head lock and whisper in my ear I'm going to fucking destroy you. I say baby there are people walking past, you tighten your grip and say I don't care, you will do as your told, now take those panties off. I do as you say and slide my panties down my legs and hang them over the railing still with my tits half hanging out of my top. You say Now drop to your knees like a good girl so I can fuck that pretty little face of yours, spread your legs so I can see that pussy while I'm ramming the fuck out of your throat. I do as I'm told and drop to my knees, I unzip your pants to reveal your raging hard cock. You lean down and roughly grab my face you squeeze my cheeks and tell me to open my mouth, just as another couple were walking past and you spit in my mouth, I'm completely humiliated as you have me squatted down with my kness wide apart so not just you but the people walking past could see my dripping wet pussy to. I went to try and close my legs a little to keep what dignity I had left and you said don't you dare, spread them and with that you grab my hair and pull my face towards your cock. You say stick your tongue out and start slapping your cock on my tongue, you tell me to reach down and play with my pussy..... I do as I'm told and by this stage I'm so wet that my pussy juice is literally dripping. I was licking up and down your shaft, twirling my tongue around the your tip and spitting on it. I put just the head in my mouth and look into your eyes, you say fuck I've missed that sweet little mouth of yours, and just as you finished saying it you swiftly slide you cock all the way Down My throat watching every inch disappear in my mouth. When you had me all the way to the base balls deep, you just hold me there for a while to remind me whose in control. You start sliding your dick in and out of my mouth. You slide It nearly all the way out and back to the base with every stroke. You start fucking my face harder and faster I start caressing your balls with my hand, you look to make sure my legs are still spread, you see how wet I am and say oh you like being a little whore on show don't you? Showing everyone your wet pussy, stand up, I say no I want to finish you off, I want you to blow in my mouth, you say "you say that like you think I care what you want, I don't, you are here as my cum rag and I tell you what I want and you comply or you'll get punished, now stand the fuck up, turn around lean over that railing and fucking hurry up about it" I stood up, and b4 I could turn around you pull my top and bra completely off, and pulled my tiny skirt up so that you and every one walking past could see my naked body. You spin me around and push my back down so you have full access to my pussy and asshole. You get your fingers and scoop up the pussy juice that is just hang from my pussy and reach around and put your fingers in my mouth, you hook your finger on the side of my mouth and with your other hand you grad your cock and guide it towards my fully exposed holes. I feel the head of your cock at the entrance of my pussy, you slowly push inside of me watching my pussy swollow your cock deep and deeper. You get all the way to the base and hold me down on it, you grab my hips and withdraw your cock just a little and then you thrust it he'd back in, you start pumping your cock in and out of me harder and faster, the rail squeeking every time you drove it in, I started moaning and shaking as you make me cum all over your cock, making everyone who walked past look. All of a sudden you stop and withdraw you cock completely. I say did you cum baby, you say not even close stay there and don't move. I feel your fingers rub my pussy and you slide my pussy juice up to my arsehole, I say what are you doing and you tell me to shhh. I then feel the tip of your finger at my asshole and you put a little pressure on it and push your finger in, I jump and say no not here, you tell me to shut the fuck up. Once you feel satisfied that you have lubed it up enough to slide your cock in, I feel the head of your cock slightly pressing against my tight little asehole, I beg you not to put it in my arse, I tell you I'm scared, you said you should be, it not going to be be tight like this when I'm finished with it. I had tears streaming down my face as you put more and more pressure to push it in. You said fucking relax so I can get it in try and relax andslowly you start pushing the tip in, you can tell its hurting me and you like it, you say that's a good girl open up and let me fuck that sweet little asshole. You get the tip nearly all the way In and hold for a second at the widest part of your head and admire your work. You then processed it push the head all the way in and then down your shaft. You give it a second to get used to having something so big and hard in it, then you start fucking my asshole as hard as you can, pulling my hips towards you with every thrust so that it jolts my whole body everytime you get to the base. You roughly grab my tit and squeeze my nipple between your thumb and finger, I start moaning as you make me squirt all over the ground I hear you starting to moan at the same time as you blow your big load in my arse. As you take your cock out you tell me to stay there and reach back and hold my cheeks apart, you take a photo of my gaping asshole and your cum running out of it, you say with a smirk on your face 2 amazing views in the one photo. I stand up and drop to my knees and clean your dick off with my mouth..

The escort industry is a competitive field, and unless you stand out, you are certainly not in business. Standing out from the crowd requires a strategic approach. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting, building a strong online presence is crucial for attracting new clients and maintaining old ones. In this article, we'll explore some key strategies to increase your reach and visibility as an escort in Australia. Craft a Compelling Online Profile Your online persona is your first impression on potential clients. Here are some tips to create a profile that is both attractive and informative: High-Quality Photos: Invest in professional photographs that showcase your beauty and style. Choose tasteful and high-quality images that create an impression of sophistication. Detailed Bio: Write a captivating bio highlighting your unique personality and your services. Be clear about your experience level and the type of clientele you cater to. While doing this, don’t expose too much information, especially what’s personal to you. Positive Reviews: Encourage satisfied clients to leave positive reviews on your profile. Testimonials from happy clients build trust and credibility. However, be careful with this as some clients don’t like being coerced into leaving reviews. While you request them to review you, let your work speak for you as well. Reminder: Maintain a balance between revealing what’s necessary and maintaining some mystery. Leverage the Power of Content Marketing Content marketing lets you showcase your expertise and establish yourself as a seasoned escort. Here are some content ideas to consider: Blog Posts: Create your blog and share informative and engaging blog posts on topics related to dating, relationships, intimacy, and self-care. Offer tips and advice that cater to your target audience's desires. Social Media Engagement: Create a separate social media profile specifically for your professional persona. Share captivating photos and short, engaging posts that spark conversation. Be mindful of platform guidelines and avoid overly explicit content. Blogging and content marketing is a long-term strategy, so be consistent with your posting and focus on building an organic loyal following. Target the Right Keywords Understanding Search Engine Optimization (SEO) is crucial for ranking higher in search results. While specific keywords related to escort services might be difficult to rank for due to industry regulations, you can target broader terms that indirectly relate to your services. Focus on Location: Incorporate your city or region into your profile and content. People searching for companionship in your area are more likely to find you. Related Keywords: Consider terms like "luxury dating," "high-end companionship," or "discreet encounters" while ensuring they comply with advertising regulations. Conduct keyword research to identify relevant terms with lower competition to improve your search ranking. If you are not familiar with SEO, consider hiring a professional for this is a worth long-term investment. Network with Other Escorts (Discreetly) Building relationships with other escorts in the industry can be mutually beneficial. Here are some safe and discreet ways to network: Online Forums and Communities: Join private online forums and social communities intended for escorts, where you can exchange ideas and learn from each other. Recommendations: Provide exceptional service to your clients and encourage them to recommend you to their friends or colleagues (while maintaining discretion). Put Your Safety and Security First During your encounters, always prioritise your safety and well-being. Here are some essential precautions to take: Meet in Public Places: Arrange to meet in well-lit public locations for initial encounters. Hotels, restaurants, parks, and open bars are good places to start. Trust Your Instincts: If you feel uncomfortable with a client, politely decline their offer and professionally exit the scene. Maintain Confidentiality: Never share personal information about yourself or your clients with anyone. With social media, avoid displaying your personal information such as addresses or personal phone numbers. Conclusion Building a strong online presence takes time and effort, but by implementing these strategies, you can increase your reach and attract the clientele you desire. Remember to be consistent and professional while maintaining a reasonable level of anonymity. What are your top tips for building a successful escorting presence? Share your thoughts in the comments below!  

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Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life, and that includes people with disabilities. Escorts are provide a safe, comfortable, and pleasurable experience for a wider range of clientele, including those that are disabled. This guide will equip you with the knowledge and sensitivity to cater to clients with disabilities. Keep in mind that being disabled doesn’t necessarily mean not being able. Some of these clients will make your encounters unforgettable. Understanding Different Disabilities Disabilities are varied and every individual needs special attention. Here's a brief overview of some common considerations: Mobility Issues: Clients with mobility limitations might require assistance with positioning or transferring. Familiarise yourself with accessible locations and be prepared to adjust your approach for physical comfort. Sensory Processing: Individuals with sensory sensitivities might require a more subdued environment or adjustments to lighting, sound, or touch. Escorts are encouraged to observe open communication and patience to understand such clients’ preferences. Cognitive Differences: Clients with cognitive disabilities might benefit from clear and concise communication, a slower pace, and extra reassurance throughout the encounter. Remember, this is not an exhaustive list. It's crucial to approach each client individually and tailor your service according to his or her needs. Creating an Inclusive Space Setting the stage for a positive experience starts with creating an inclusive environment that makes the client comfortable. Here are a few points on that. Accessibility: Ensure your meeting location is accessible, with ramps, wider doorways, and grab bars, if necessary, especially for clients with mobility issues. Communication: Be open and patient with communication. Utilise verbal cues, written instructions, or alternative communication methods if needed and accordingly. Comfort and Safety: Provide ample space for movement and ensure all equipment is accessible and user-friendly. By creating a comfortable and accessible environment, you put your clients at ease and allow them to focus on enjoying the experience. Open Communication and Consent Open communication is necessary when working with any client, but even more so when catering to those with disabilities. Here are some key points: Discuss Preferences: Before the encounter, discuss the client's physical limitations, preferred level of intimacy, and any specific needs they might have. Consent Throughout: Obtain explicit verbal or nonverbal consent throughout the encounter. Pay close attention to the client's comfort cues and be prepared to adjust accordingly. Respect Boundaries: Always respect the client's boundaries and never pressure them into anything they're uncomfortable with. Expanding Your Skillset as a Escort catering to persons with disabilities. Consider taking steps to enhance your ability to serve clients with disabilities. Remember the possibilities are endless and different every has different a different personality and need. Here are some important steps you can take. Sensitivity Training: Research and take online courses or workshops on disability awareness and sexual health for people with disabilities. Adaptive Techniques: Learn about adaptive positions and techniques that can be used to accommodate physical limitations. Assistive Devices: Learn about common assistive devices used by people with disabilities and how to incorporate them into the encounter for optimal comfort and safety. Skilled Escorts are likely to provide a more comprehensive and inclusive service which is healthy for the growth of your business. Conclusion By following these tips and embracing equality and inclusivity, you can expand your clientele and provide a valuable service to a community that often faces challenges in finding safe and fulfilling sexual experiences. Remember, every client is an individual, so open communication and a willingness to adapt are key. What are your experiences working with clients with disabilities? Share your insights in the comments below!  

Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 9 (Rose), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-9-rose. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “OH……MY…….GOD!” Rose’s jaw drops as her emotions run aghast at what she has just walked into. Lexx stands behind her, the cheesiest smile completing his face “Do you like it?” he curiously asks. With her jaw still wide open, she turns, her emote feelings resisting the tears of joy that are puddling behind her eyes, “This is the most beautiful thing that anyone has ever done for me!”. Lexx walks his client into his arms to finish the romantic setting with a warm, strong hug, and kiss on the cheek, his planning earns him an A+ response. Lexx & Rose have had a professional relationship for ten years, a rare case for Lexx, this month marking their tenth anniversary. Rose reached out to Lexx two years after she walked in on her ex having sex with her best friend in Roses bed; this led to a spiral of negative thoughts and affected her mental health greatly. After deep work with her therapist, she was recommended reaching out to an escort; choosing Lexx based off his genuine, charismatic appeal, with an appearance completely opposite to the man who broke her heart. Since their first booking they have seen each other every few months, and in the last 2 years with her promotion and pay rise she has spent a lot more time with Lexx, hiring him once a month for eight – sixteen hours. Unbeknownst to Lexx though, this could be one of their last experiences together as Rose has recently found a very handsome man that treats her the way Lexx has, she just wants to hold her innocents with this new guy a little longer. Tonight, Lexx treated Rose to an incredibly cute picnic at Mermaid beach that had candles in a heart shape surround the extra-large soft picnic rug. For dinner Lexx prepared a home-made recipe of honey chicken, vegetarian noodle stir fry, Thai yellow curry, spring rolls, and a couple steam buns. This took him quite some time & preparation as he is not your natural born cook. While enjoying the delicious homemade restaurant food, a man & women show from no-where and start playing the guitar together while singing & humming – something Lexx will never admit too – the  serendipity. What sealed the romantic knot at the hotel and made Rose emote was the large bouquet of flowers on the kitchen table with a card in front; red & white rose pedals, with contrasting small candles littered over the entire room; the lights were dimmed; two caramel scented candles (her favourite) filled the air with sweetness; a small ultra-soft novelty fat stuffed puppy was sitting on the couch; and 3 photos from their time together were framed on the coffee table. Lexx went above and beyond for his amazing & beautiful client tonight, a perfect human in his eyes; never argued with his boundaries, was always prompt, made him laugh more then he did her, sometimes even made Lexx feel like he was the one being taken on a date.   Without a word, without a whisper, Rose pulls herself away from Lexx’s warm hold and kisses him; she puts both hands on his face and gives him the sweetest kiss a pair could enjoy. She breaths, looks down; has her chin pushed back up by Lexx, before hearing the words every woman would die to hear, “you are one of the most gorgeous women in the world, you deserve this!”. Their lips meet again. Rose grabs Lexx by the hand and walks her fine gentleman to the bedroom where she again is met with more romantic surprises: Plenty of rose pedals, more small candles, a small bouquet of flowers, and another card. The card reads “Thank you for the last 10 years! You have made me feel like sometimes I am the client, you are truly a remarkable woman and with the most respect hope that our time will come to a close one day soon, because you are truly remarkable Rose. Happy 10 years of whatever we call this xoxo. Much care, L. Soule”. Now the flood gates open, Rose turns back and squeezes Lexx with everything she has, the thirty-eight-year-old escort now fighting his own tears.   Rose starts to unbutton Lexx’s blue & white checked shirt, before removing his light brown Hermes belt. “You know, even if we have to say goodbye, I don’t want to ever lose you from my life. Will you keep in contact with me if this relationship must end?” she sobbingly emotes, unable to look at her escort in the eyes. “Look at me” his voice calm & soothing. She obeys, “Should you find the man of your dreams I will break one of my rules for you. You can have my personal number & add me on Facebook”, this response garners another kiss from his client. “But you have to promise me something” Lexx interrupts, “mmmm” is the sulky response he hears back, “You must invite my partners & I to the wedding. We love weddings” Lexx replies with his cheeky, uplifting smile. “I already thought that was occurring” Rose replies staring deep into Lexx’s soul. Lexx makes the first move, passionately making out with Rose like they have 10,000 times before; the energy goes from sensual & romantic to electrifying and passionate, “Wait! The flowers & the card.”, Rose moves the flowers & card out of the room to the kitchen table and returns to her man of the night, resuming the strip of his clothes, and indulging with adult fun.   Thank you for reading, L.Soule

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Anal fingering is a sensual practice that can enhance pleasure and intimacy for individuals and couples. While it's often associated with taboo, it doesn’t have much difference with vaginal fingering, and when done correctly and consensually, it is surely a rewarding experience in terms of arousal and anal orgasms. In this guide, we'll explore anal fingering, discussing techniques, safety measures, and how to maximise pleasure for all involved. Let’s get into it! Understanding the Anatomy Before getting into anal fingering, it's essential to understand the anatomy of the anus and surrounding areas. The anus is packed with sensitive nerve endings, making it highly responsive to touch and stimulation. Men have a P-spot, which can also be accessed through anal fingering, with average long fingers. It is in the rectum and feels like a small nut. The P-spot is the equivalent of a female G-spot and can be a sensual experience if well stimulated. However, it's crucial to proceed with caution, as the anal canal is delicate and can tear easily. We recommend starting slow, preferably with one finger, and proceeding to add more fingers or rhythm as the Hamilton escorts get used to it. Preparation and Hygiene We recommend proper preparation and hygiene when engaging in anal fingering. Ensure that the fingernails are trimmed and smooth to avoid any accidental cuts or scratches. Additionally, washing the hands and the anal area thoroughly with mild soap and warm water can help prevent the spread of bacteria and reduce the risk of infection. Consider using latex gloves for added protection and ease of clean-up. Some people are however allergic to latex, so open communication will do the trick. Lubrication Is Key Unlike the vagina, the anus does not naturally produce much natural lubrication, so using a generous amount of water-based lubricant is essential for a comfortable and pleasurable experience. Apply lubricant to both the fingertips and the anal opening, allowing for smooth and friction-free penetration. Reapply as needed to maintain comfort and pleasure. Lubricants are easily available in adult stores and convenience stores. Communication and Consent Open communication and mutual consent are necessary when incorporating anal fingering into sexual activities. Discuss desires, boundaries, and any concerns with your escort date beforehand to ensure a positive experience for both parties. Check in regularly, listen to feedback during the act and be responsive to verbal and nonverbal cues to ensure comfort and consent throughout. Experimentation and Exploration Every individual’s preference and response to anal fingering may vary, so don't be afraid to experiment and explore different techniques and sensations. Try varying the pressure, speed, and depth of penetration to discover what feels best for you and your partner. Remember that pleasure is subjective, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to anal stimulation. Closing Words Anal fingering can be a pleasurable and intimate experience but only when approached with care, communication, and consent. The mentioned tips should be of help. Should you need further help, check out internet resources or just get a Hamilton escort! We want to hear from you! Share your thoughts, experiences, and tips on anal fingering in the comments below.  

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Romance, dating, genuine relationships and escorting; Can they co-exist? The interaction between genuine love and escorting has always sparked a discussion that seemingly has never been resolved. While seemingly antithetical at first glance, this topic deserves an exploration. Let's discuss the complexities of love, intimacy, and the relationship with the escorting profession. Understanding Escorting Escorting primarily involves providing companionship and intimacy on a transactional basis. This may be in exchange for money, gifts, vouchers or any other monetary item. While emotional connection may form during encounters, it's not the service's core purpose. This distinction is crucial when considering the possibility of romantic feelings arising from escort-client encounters. The Illusion of Romantic Love Emotions within the context of escorting can be varied, and are not universal. Clients may project their desires and expectations onto the escort, mistaking professional courtesy for romantic interest. Similarly, some escorts might confuse appreciation from clients with genuine love, leading to not mutual emotional entanglements that have potential risks such as disappointments. Maintaining Professional Boundaries Establishing and maintaining clear professional boundaries is recommended for both escorts in Sydney and clients. This includes refraining from emotional attachment, personal disclosures, and exceeding the agreed-upon service package. Upholding these boundaries protects both parties from emotional manipulation and potential heartbreaks. Alternative Views on Intimacy It's important to acknowledge that the definition of intimacy extends beyond romantic love. Escorting can offer a form of non-judgmental emotional support, companionship, and physical intimacy for some clients who may struggle to fulfil these needs in their personal lives or with their partners. So, the thought that escorting is all about sex needs to be buried. Navigating the Ethical Landscape The question of whether romantic love can exist within escorting remains a complex and subjective one. While some individuals might find genuine connections in this context, navigating such a relationship requires utmost transparency, open communication, and the ability to separate professional obligations from personal feelings. Lastly, Ultimately, the possibility of romance blossoming within escorting is an individual experience. Recognising the notable differences between professional service and genuine love is important for both clients and escorts in Sydney. Maintaining clear boundaries, respecting individual agency, and recognising ethical considerations are crucial in navigating this complex intersection between romance and escorting. What are your thoughts on the potential for romance and intimacy within the escorting profession? Share your perspectives and respectful comments below!  

Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 8 (Erica), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-8-erica. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “What an incredible view!” Lexx tells his tour guide/ client as they lay in the back of Erica’s van admiring the view of the city on this beautiful, clear, slightly chilled, Autum Wednesday night. “It really is…. I lost my virginity up here” Erica nonchalantly confers, “Are you wanting to re-create the memory??” Lexx replies, “Hahahaha god no. He lasted twenty seconds I think, might have been ten. Just one of many memories I have from up here”. “So is this where you intend to dispose of my body after you eat me?” Lexx’s dark humour does not register with Erica; “What do you mean?” Erica replies marginally aghast at the dark repartee. “You’ve stolen my heart, attacked my neck multiple times, have beaten my cock, and taken skin from my back; man eaters need a safe place to store their victims” Lexx’s repartee breaks the tension as forty-seven year old Erica registers the joke and cracks a small grin. “No Lexx you’re not my victim. You’re my cover up, I use you to get away with all my mortal feasts. I’ve been using escorts for one-thousand years. You’re too important to eat”, the pair mutually chuckle at each other’s wicked sense of humour. Lexx having prepared a small picnic bag for the evening with a sweet tasting white; capsicum & onion dip; cheese; and crackers; confers the pair a comfortable, relaxing evening of stories, laughs, and sex.   The unhurried mood of the night is thoroughly enjoyed by both, the first kiss coming after a strong ten second stare into each other’s eyes, being followed by a long session of tender, slow pashing, lip biting, light tongue touching and erotic body touches – graces of the arms, finger gliding up the available side of the body, scratching of the hair & scalp. A beautiful, sensual moment that sets the tone for the night. With a blanket to project Erica from the chilled breeze, Lexx is able to remove her skintight jeans and begin pleasuring her erogenous area with his mouth & fingers. To warm the area for a more intense pleasure, Lexx kisses & nibbles Erica’s inner things; blows a warm, continuous stream of air onto the fabric covered flower; and squeezes at the sensitive areas of her body sexually. The little wet spot on the fabric signifies her readiness for Lexx to finger & orally pleasure. Lexx places his arms under Erica’s legs and grips her at the hips, and using his wide placed relaxed tongue, laps upwards from the bottom of the labia majora to the top of the clitoral hood; a relaxing yet fulfilling stimulation. Exploring his clients physical pleasures’ by using his hands to feel the sides & torso of her body intimately. “You’re amazing Lexx! What ever you’re doing, just keep doing that!” Erica encouraging Lexx not to stop the side-to-side motion he too is enjoying with his tongue. Simultaneously Lexx has three fingers deep inside the streaming canal rowing back and forth; the lascivious pleasure has a perfect rhythm that is not overly intense, and is far from meek.   *Audio sounds (Female moans. Wet fingering noises).   Erica’s mind, pussy and soul are highly aroused, and luscious for a deeper, more penetrative aphroditic pleasure. Erica grabs Lexx’s face with both hands, “Look at me Lexx!” Lexx stops what he is doing with a disjointed expression. Erica’s instructions are said with a puffed breath “I need your cock to fill my pussy right now please”, Lexx smiles at the reassurance of his actions. While he receives the condom Erica moves into a position that will confer both a view of the beautiful night sky, and pretty city lights – side on.   *Audio sounds (M/F moans. Slow penetrative thrusts).   The sensual temperament continues into the penetrative missionary sex. With the entire night on their side, the duo have no need to hurry. While filling her gorgeous, warm apple pie with his thick, rock-hard dick Lexx pleasures his clients’ desire for physical touch: Kissing, sucking & nibbling at her neck; massaging her well-aged natural melons; caressing her gorgeous face; squeezing at her hips; gracing her fantastic legs; making out with her soft, manicured feet. Lexx also has is lascivious desire for physical touch met, with Erica feeling all the muscles that Lexx has to offer: strong rounded shoulders; curved soldier-like arms; sculpture like torso; a thick, wide back; and an incredibly desirable booty. The oldest & most simple sexual position has now become a magical memory that will never be left behind.   *Audio sounds (M/F moans. Thrusts).   For three hours the pair enjoy each other’s company sensually, meditatively, and completely; full of Ludus Love. Both souls tango in the dance of intimacy, while their physical vessels augment with mirth and sexual desire for the other one’s body. The most beautiful type of sex that takes both to another galaxy; a place of tranquillity; a place of fulfilment; a place of pureness. Good, strong, thick dick meeting soft, pink, velvet pussy. The masculine meeting the feminine. Two souls becoming divine energies of pureness.     Thank for reading, L. Soule.

Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 7 (Taylor), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-7-taylor. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). The sensual aroma of vanilla fills the lounge room while small candle lights compliment the relaxing essence of this erotic evening; Lexx’s massage table set up in the middle of it all. The massage oil is perfectly warm, helping Taylor relax deeper into the evening as Lexx glides his strong hands over his client’s entire backside, head to toe. Recently Lexx completed his masseur qualification and now offers clients remedial & relaxation massages; of course, Taylor has paid for his full service which includes a happy ending of good cock. Taylor is a thirty-eight-year-old woman who has been seeing Lexx for just over two years, she is a tall women with a thicker build (six foot tall and a size sixteen). *Audio sounds (Mediative music in the background).   Lexx begins the game of teasing at the conclusion of the backside work, massaging her slightly saggy booty, spreading her legs wider to confer his hands access to her precious, erogenous zone – he does not penetrate her though. Lexx massages, tickles, cups, and rubs Taylors pussy into a warm, aroused state. The woman’s flower starts to blossom and ripen with blood flow. Before requesting his client to roll over Lexx places his head close to the vibrant flower and lightly breaths warm air onto the erogenous zone – all the way from Taylors vagina to her anus. The sensual feeling causes Taylor to start sexually fidgeting; pushing her hips up, curling her toes, rolling her ankles, gripping the hand rests. “Just focus on your breathing. In……… Out……… In……… Out………. In……… Out………. In………. Out……….. In……… Out………” Lexx meditatively guides.   Taylor has the oil wiped from her body and is instructed to roll over, the front of body massage always begins more sexual for these types of bookings. Lexx drizzles the warm massage oil on his bodacious client head to toe; then begins massaging the breasts calmly, bringing his client to a highly aroused state of mind – he then continues to massage the oil over the artistic sculpture – head to toe. Lexx takes his client out of this world with the way his hands move & explore, releasing all the built-up tension that Taylor holds; refilling his client with love, calmness, fulfilment, and satisfaction. “Aaaaaaahhhhhhhhh” Taylor moans as Lexx guides his hand over her erogenous zone again, this time he puts his middle finger a fingernail deep, a tease that will have his clients mind luscious. Despite the alluring desire to sit upright & take her man, she continues to be a good girl and stays focused on her breathing, the sensation and fulfilment of cock will come soon enough. Lexx gently pulls his client down the massage table, careful not to ruin the aphroditic  aura of the sensual pleasures, spreading his clients legs he begins blowing warm, soft air onto his clients leaking, oil covered hole. “Aaaaaahhhhhhhhh. Thank you”, Taylor calmly moans as Lexx augments her flower with two fingers, simultaneously placing his mouth over the entire clit & labia, bringing it to a soft close on the clit. Lexx fingers his clients flower while sucking and making out with the clitoris, stopping occasionally to continue blowing a soft, warm breeze of air onto the sensitive zone; the troubles of Taylors day to day life dissipate with every penetration. Lexx finds the most pleasurable point for cunnilingus and focuses all his energy onto the voluptuous area, causing pussy juice to flow out of the fuck hole freely, creating a puddle on the towel that lays underneath. *Audio sounds (Wet, dripping pussy. Fingering. Female moaning).   “I’m going to come. I’m going to come. I’m going to come. Lexx. Lexx. AAAAAHHHHHHHH” her body fidgets and squirms as Taylor’s body releases a fulfilling clitoris orgasm; one hour of massaging, combined with ten minutes of foreplay and oral, and Taylors’ stresses have been dismantled. Lexx gives his client the time she needs to recuperate before continuing with the physical pleasure, during this period he rolls out a cushioned exercise mat and prepares the rendezvous of sensual pleasure. “When you’re ready Miss. Rochel” Lexx extends his hand to aid his client up & off the table and guide her to the mat for more sexual pleasure. Once she is laying down flat on her back Lexx requests she stretch her hands and feet as far as they will extend – aiding with blood flow and a deeper relaxation. Taylor is now in a spiritual place where tranquillity is the only state of mind. Lexx wraps his nice, thick cock with a thin layer of latex and rubs it up & down his client’s vagina gracefully before stretching her tender life giving hole with his piece of meat. “Aaaaaaaahhhhhhh” Lexx finds the perfect rhythm that his client needs, his cock goes deep, his cock stretches her wide, his cock makes her mind, body and soul scream with mirth. *Audio sounds (Slow thrusts. M/F Moans) Lexx lowers his body down onto his oily client, conferring her the ability to hold him tight – hold him tight she does! The feeling of a strong, athletic, aphrodisiac thirty-year-old man holding her close, appreciating her, giving her pleasure, makes her feel desirable in her own skin. *Audio sounds (Slower thrusts. M/F Moans. Squish sounds). “You have this for another two hours Taylor, two hours of pleasure, two hours of fulfilment, two hours of Taylor time…. You deserve this, you need this, you desire this….. I want to take you to a place that you never knew existed. Does that sound good to you gorgeous girl!” Lexx whispers seductive words deep into the canals of Taylors ear. “Please sir. Please take me with you to this magical place!” Taylor whispers back. Lexx sensually fucks his clients’ mind, body and soul for another two hours. Gifting this beautiful woman a fresh soul for the month. *Audio sounds (Slower thrusts. M/F Moans. Squish sounds).   Thank you for reading, L. Soule.

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I hold onto her tighter. Her thrusts getting faster. Our breath's heavier. The moan louder. There is nothing better than a good fucking. It feels like its breaking me, like im about to explode. In out. In out. In out. Fast. Fast. Fast. Faster . Room filled with ahhh. She changed our position. She pinned me down. DONT STOP PLEASE. I screamed with pleasure. I don't know how long it has been. But anyone who says they dont like having sex must not be having it good. Because this is honestly one of the best things in life. I just want to keep going l, it makes me forget. FUCK ME MORE. HARDER!!! I want her to break me. As she fucked me harder, i dig my nails into her back. Gasping for air. I feel like i was drowning into this sea of lust. But instead of water it was a sea of orgasm after orgasm. Double penetration. Im being double penetrated by a double didlo. Beware people. Beware for the double penetration it feels good but once its over. It can leave you wanting more

As an escort, protecting your privacy and maintaining anonymity are crucial for your safety and well-being as you navigate this world. Responding to bookings can expose personal information, making it essential to implement strong safeguards. This article explores some simple strategies escorts in Melbourne can implement to ensure their identity remains secure throughout the booking process. Make use of Secure Communication Platforms Avoid using personal phone numbers or email addresses. Instead, opt for encrypted messaging apps or platforms designed for escorts and clients. These platforms offer features like disappearing messages and anonymous usernames, minimising the risk of exposing your personal information. Many escort directories and websites have such features. Also, be cautious with public platforms: Avoid using social media platforms or public messaging services to communicate with clients. These platforms lack the necessary privacy features and can leave your information vulnerable. Unless you are an independent escort who doesn’t mind having their image out there, refrain from social networks. Maintaining Anonymity in Online Profiles Craft a professional pseudonym and online persona. Avoid using your real name, location, or any easily identifiable information in your online profiles on such escort websites and social media profiles. If possible, get a location such as a hotel where you can be sharing with clients, which should be away from your physical address. Post professional photos. Choose photos that are high-quality and showcase your professionalism without revealing your identity. Consider blurring or masking facial features for added security. Avoid sharing personal details about your personal life, hobbies, or daily routines in your profiles. This information can be used to identify you outside of the online environment. Choose Safe Meeting Locations: Meet in public, well-lit locations and avoid meeting in private residences or secluded areas, especially with new clients. Opt for public spaces with good visibility and foot traffic, such as cafes, restaurants, or hotels. Inform a trusted friend or colleague. Let someone you trust know about your meeting details, including the location and expected duration. This allows them to check in with you and offer assistance if needed. This person could be a friend you trust or a fellow escorts in Melbourne. Use Third-Party Booking Services. These include directories or agencies. Generally, working with directories and agencies is safer than being an independent escort since they guarantee your safety and anonymity. Consider reputable advertising platforms such as Naughtyads.com,au, specifically designed for finding escort services. These platforms often implement security measures like phone number verification and photo verification processes, adding an extra layer of protection. Practicing General Online Safety Maintain strong online privacy settings: Regularly review and adjust the privacy settings on all your online accounts to limit information accessible to the public. Beware of phishing scams: Be alert to potential scams where individuals attempt to obtain your personal information. Avoid clicking on suspicious links or downloading attachments from unknown sources. In Closing. By implementing these strategies, you can significantly reduce the risk of exposing your identity during the booking process, protecting your peace and safety as a person outside the escorting world. What additional tips do you recommend for protecting your identity as an escorts in Melbourne? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!  

All those dicks around you. You’re a dirty cock slut & you know it. The more the merrier. Maybe you’re a white woman with a fantasy for five big black cocks circling around you, filling your entire body: Pussy, asshole, mouth, and one in each hand while one guy waits his turn masturbating to your sluttyness. Maybe you’re a kinky slut who wants all the colours of the rainbow: a black one, a white one, a brown one, a yellow one, a purple one, the one that looks like an alien tentacle. You dirty, dirty, dirty cock slut. Are you wet thinking about it? “OH MY FUCKING GOD! HOW MANY MORE TITS AND ASS CHEEKS CAN I FIT ON MY BODY” you think to yourself as six girls swarm you with their perfectly sized female bodies. You choose; what bodies do you find perfect? Tight bodies, voluptuous bodies, black bodies, athletic bodies, lean bodies. You’re visual fantasy right now, you choose! I do not have real life experience of a gangbang or reverse gangbang. After reading stories on Quora & Reddit, my own personal understanding of human sexual nature, and vicarious knowledge that I have attained from industry professionals within sex, psychology, and relationships; I would like to discuss how & why these kink dynamics can be appealing to both men & woman, and talk about the hot debate of promiscuity from the modern day population and if you could have a closed/ monogamous relationship and still enjoy these kinks.   Before we start, this must be emphasised and will continue to be emphasised throughout the blog. There is a huge difference between a CONSENSUAL gangbang, and a nonconsensual rape bang. You can have a gangbang where the submissive relinquishes control completely within the confines of the boundaries that are respected by the tops. Or you can commit one of the worst imaginable crimes and have one of the worst experiences where someone is raped by people who have no consent. Please if you or anyone you know has experienced such horrific trauma do not interrupt what is said within this blog as a promotion for violence, or such horrific acts. This is a kink that when executed correctly can be fun for all involved. Just like mentioned already in previous ‘Questionable Kinks’ blogs this kink is not for everyone. Just like some people like dogs, some like cats, some like reptiles. Some people are vegan, some people are carnivores, some people just eat food. Just as some people are Christians, some people are Muslim, and some people are Buddhist. You may read this and know within yourself that you will never want to explore this kink. I am a firm believer when it comes to the world of kink that you do not always need to try something to know if you like it or not. Should you be someone who does have this fantasy or fantasies around this kink then always be safe, sane, and consensual. Having those open & honest conversations with those involved, setting boundaries, and using safe words are paramount to a HEALHTY, FUN, SAFE experience.   What is the difference between a gangbang & a reverse gangbang? Very simply put a gangbang is three or more men sexually pleasuring one woman. A reverse gangbang is three or more women sexually pleasuring one man. Usually within this kink there is also a higher level of the power exchange we talk about, where the three or more obviously have the power over the one. Though in a consensual environment this is where the submissive or bottom role has the power. The person who has the bottom role may give permission for the tops to throw them around, call them selective names, and to not stop unless the word red is used. But may disallow anal, hair pulling or may even disallow certain words from being used e.g. cunt, piece of shit, filthy grimy whore etc. The tops then have a responsibility to follow such rules. Depending on the exact situation and the dynamic these boundaries and rules may be discussed the weeks and days leading up to the event with someone leading the gang, or might just be a good conversation for five to ten minutes before the commencement of the act. Just because a guy wants to submit to a gang of women does not mean that he does not have limits & boundaries. Just because the woman wants to submit to a gang of men does not mean she has a rape fantasy.     The gangbang and why would someone participate? For some woman it may be as simple as she loves cock, the more the merrier, her kink and fantasy is to just have as much cock around her to suck, jerk and fuck. No consensual rape fantasy, just her pretty body and a gang of cocks. She may appear innocent, she may be married, she may be single, she may have a great deal of control and be quite demure with putting her thoughts into reality, but she loves cock. And so the thought of pleasuring a gang of cocks at once get’s her pussy wetter than an active water slide. She may never act on these impulses, she may never have the opportunity too, but in the back of her mind she has that perverted thought. This is quite a simple thought to digest because if men have thoughts about having as many titties in their face at one time, why would some women not have the thoughts of having as much dick on their face at one time. She may very well have the rape fantasy of a group of men having their way with her. What would it be like to have no control? What would she be able to do if she said no and those men did not listen? Would she fight back and resist until she had a moment of freedom to run away or would she give in and just let the gang have their way and try to enjoy it? That sounds fucked up, and is the thought processes of some woman. This consensual nonconsensual ‘rape’ FANTASY may be confusing to some, so let’s delve into it from a historically biological point of view. I intend to explain how a woman’s deep desire to succumb to the gang is also directly linked to the reason men want to be the gang. She will do whatever she needs to survive and keep her offspring alive, maybe if she submits they will protect her; He wants to destroy, conquer and take ownership of her body.   Throughout time women have typically been the physically weaker of the two – men & women. A full grown, athletic man is biologically stronger than a full-grown athletic woman. If you put the best male basketballers in the world against the best female basketballers in the world, on a court and played standard basketball the men would most likely win – could you imagine the full force of someone like Lebron James going for a dunk, the women wouldn’t stand a chance. If you put the best male swimmer in the world against the best female swimmer in the world, the male will mostly likely win – according to chat GPT the current female world record for the 100 metre freestyle is 51.71 seconds, set in 2016 by Sarah Sjostrom from Sweden; the current male world record for the 100 metre freestyle is 46.91 seconds, set in 2009 by Cesar Cielo; that is seven years apart and still there is a five second difference which is huge within a pool. If you put Francis Ngannou’s a heavyweight UFC champion against the heaviest weight category female UFC champion Amanda Nunes, the chances of Francis winning are quite high. If there were no rules and it was a fight to the death Amanda Nunes might actually stand a better chance if she knew how to fight to Francis weaknesses. She is more agile, she could probably still put someone the size of Francis on the ground if her life depended on it, and she would be cunning. Science says that the male body has developed in a more physically capable way, where the females became more intellectually and socially capable. For a long time the male brain has been wired to conquer, fight, and destroy; while the female’s brain has been wired to analyse, empathise, and keep order when necessary. If you as a man cannot overpower, outthink, or be more capable than your woman in any way than how can she expect you to provide and protect her. This overpowering could be as simple, and fun as picking her up and throwing her around the bed; she laughs, she giggles, it’s fun, she loves it, she feels your strength. Outthink, you have a date night once a month, have you made reservations? Do you know where you want to eat? Do you know what food she likes to eat without asking anymore? How are you going to get there? This demonstrates your competency to plan and think ahead, if you can’t plan something as simple as good date night how can you be expected to work with her to raise a good, strong family household. “We don’t want kids”, okay how will the woman be able to trust that the man could plan a vacation to Japan together, or plan anything of value together if he can’t even get something as simple as a date night together. She wants to feel a mans strength, she wants to see his competency. What about the man testing the woman’s capabilities? I can’t answer that for you sorry, if you do the right internal work you will be able to define what you believe to be a good, strong, capable, loyal woman. This all being said I would like to take a moment to demonstrate how cunning, calculated and strong some women can be, educating some one way thinkers that woman are not just this soft, little, innocent being that will just do as they’re told or follow a bad leader. In ancient times there were some women who were captured and forced to be the new kings slave, these women would play along as long as they needed, earn the trust of their ‘new lord’ and then execute him at the perfect moment, avenging the man or tribe she once belonged too. Women may be physically less capable than man on a lot of occasions, but she can manipulate and seduce man in ways unimagined. After one year of sleeping in a bed together the lustful man finally trusts that this woman has now fallen in love with his reign & power, he goes to sleep easily after some sex that feels real. The captured woman slits the kings throat and watches him suffocate on his own blood. It’s violent, it’s strategic, it’s barbaric but a good woman is not to be fucked with. A good woman is not a snowflake, a good woman will not tolerate your bullshit, and if you just so happen to marry a good woman but do not meet your actions with your words she may very well go else where to have those needs met while she keeps you tied to her through law. Good women are strong, capable, and intelligent. Should you be a young man reading this and think to yourself, “Fuck me, way to put the pressure on me” that’s okay, pressure is good. Additionally a good woman will see when a man is genuinely trying, improving and learning. You may not be a black belt in karate, you may not be able to start a fortune 500 company, but you could punch someone in the face if you needed too, and you have some capacity to think for yourself and about others.   I type all of this to demonstrate my level of knowledge of female & male human nature. We will evolve, there is such thing as a healthy equality, women are competitive, men can think for themselves, women can bring in more money than the man and still be happy, some men may not date a woman unless she has her own job or career. Good men have the capacity to dominate, destroy, and conquer; Good woman are not meek, stupid, or incapable of thinking for themselves. Men & women are not the same though.   Where this rape gangbang fantasy stems from is the thought of “what would I do if….” fight, flight, freeze. Your objective in a real-life dangerous situation may just be to survive, is it easier to give the gang what they want and try to find some fucked up pleasure in the situation? Are you willing to risk your own life, die with honour and fight your way out of the situation? Can you calculate a way out of the situation that means you may not have to go through with the entire act? Within the consensual non-consensual gangbang FANTASY, you as the woman are most likely succumbing to the first question. This gang want to take you and devour you, and so to make the process less painful for yourself it may seem most logical to just go with the flow. Maybe you are extremely kinky and within a consensual nonconsensual realm you want to put up a fight, and want to see, feel and experience just how strong these men are. Maybe you’re just a perverted slut deep down and want to know what it feels like to have men want your body so much they are willing to commit one of the most horrific crimes someone can do, but you want it without all the trauma and real violence that comes with real rape; and with some ice cream and cuddles, while watching Netflix for the come down. GENERALLY, women have enjoyed submitting and following man. GENERALLY, women have seeked protection from men when in danger. Maybe if she gives the gang what they want, they will give her what she wants, protection and security. If a group of violent men had a well-behaved sex slave they would most likely protect her with their life. Forget a violent group of men; if any good man had a well behaved kinky ‘sex slave’ who would suck his cock on command, follows orders and is not the most obnoxious, bratty, annoying pain in his ass, he will most likely protect her with his life. Think ‘50 shades of Grey’; Mr. Grey has an obedient, submissive, who is willing to try just about anything because she is a single virgin and this sexy, handsome, billionaire, who lives in the penthouse of New York, who can fly helicopters wants to possess her, he wants only her, he is willing to stalk and follow her every move. It’s fucked up and yet so many wives and women found themselves touching, exploring and imagining they were the ones who were Anastasia. I only use ’50 Shades of Grey’ because it is a great example of woman wanting the man who has the capacity to be barbaric, the capacity to take charge, the capacity to go after what he wants, and the capacity to protect.   For the men who are interested in this kink, they are simply playing at their biological nature to destroy, conquer, and possess. Obviously there are a lot of modern day men who might be quite demure, though they themselves are aware of this violent, destructive nature that they possess and know the amount of fun that can be had within a CONSENUAL realm. If he cares for this come slut appropriately, she may be his personal ‘sex slave’ forever. She knows he has the capacity to be ruthless, to be barbaric, and to take what he wants; she knows if someone threatened her life he would protect her. This sounds crazy but it’s true, if you as a man show your barbaric nature consensually within the bedroom by throwing her around, pulling her hair, and maneuvering her into different positions without saying, “Should we try doggy now” like a whiny little bitch than she will have a sense that you can protect her. That all being said, this same man, a respectful man, a gentleman, also knows that doing this to an unwilling participant is completely wrong and is one of the worst things a man could do to a woman. LEXX THIS CRAZY, YOU ARE CRAZY! YOU ARE PROMOTING VIOLENCE, RAPE, AND MISOGYNY. I was working a regular job with this guy once, and he had some stories to share. He told me about some of the things that some groups of people make other people do to become initiated to this said group. Apparently a woman once presented herself to this group and told the men that she could take every single one of them right there. If a woman approaches most males and says, “Fuck me like a whore, I want to be your dirty slut, fill my every hole” the males brain will go wild with anticipation. Even a fairly meek man may think, “Are you crazy, I will fuck the shit out of you like I did Abella Danger last night with my hand” (she is a Porn star for those unaware of the reference), meanwhile he may verbally say, “I’m okay thank you”. So when a woman walks up to a group of men who have the capacity for violence and says, “Fuck me like a whore, I want to be your dirty slut, fill my every hole” she will generally receive exactly what you asked for. That being said, just as women would rather ‘be stuck in the woods alone with a bear over a man’, there are plenty of men who would also rather be stuck in the woods with a bear than a female. I give this example to illustrate that a lot of women want to feel protected; they want a man or group of men to say that we will protect you. Again, this may sound fucked up but a man who has the capacity to be ruthless in the bedroom with his woman demonstrates his capacity for violence and affection for her simultaneously. He or they could tare her apart right now, they could trample her, he could do horrible things to her, but he or they control themselves and provide the overpowering and/ or ‘masochistic’ pleasure she desires. When you look at history, look at the fact we have sadists & masochists, look at the fact we have leaders who order people to death & followers who will serve those leaders until their last breath; it is easy to see why & how some women & men may fantasise this kink.   This is quite dark for a lot of people, and some people just will not understand. Because all that you can think about is a woman being violated, and sexually harmed. Which is fair enough, the idea is quite dark and unless you have the emotional intelligence and sexual intelligence to understand the darker sides of psychology then I recommend staying clear of this kink completely…. Because otherwise you may put yourself and/ or others in serious danger. If no one is controlling the gang, or boundaries are not discussed things can turn south quickly.   The reverse gangbang and why would someone participate? The ultimate role reversal! the ultimate power exchange! Like we previously discussed the man has traditionally held the ‘power’ position within society; he has been viewed as the one with more physical capabilities; he has typically been viewed as the one that enforces order through violence, through tyranny, and his capacity to conquer. So to have that role reversed and submit to a gang of women would be extremely alluring to both man & woman. He does not have to think, he does not have to fight, he just let’s himself go into the control of the divine feminine. She has the opportunity to order, enforce, and conquer her man At the end of this blog I will link a twenty-minute video that talks about a professional dominatrixes who ‘abducts’ high paying consenting clients. Powerful, strong, independent men enjoy the element of not being in control from time to time. He is usually the big bad guy, he is the one that tells people what to do, he is the one that leads his family. Now he has the opportunity to let go of all that control, he doesn’t have to make decisions, he doesn’t have to think, he doesn’t have to lead; just follow and do as he is told. And for the men who enjoy following others, this is just doing what they already enjoy doing, being a good follower and doing as the girls tell them to do. Now just because you are a guy, doesn’t mean you don’t have boundaries. You still have every right to discuss what is and what is not acceptable, you may not let anything up your ass, you may not enjoy having your mouth gagged or hands tethered, maybe you won’t wear leather. Maybe you’re a total submissive masochist who wants the group of girls to just fuck you like the little bitch you never show the world, “Gag my mouth, tie my hands, spank my ass cheeks, and shove an eight inch dildo deep into my asshole while I try scream you’re my mummy, you’re my mummy, you’re my mummy”. You dirty, dirty boy. There are also very few single, heterosexual men I know who would turn down a reverse gangbang. A gang of boobs, a gang of ass cheeks, a gang of pussy, a gang of moans, like come on; if you’re a bisexual or heterosexual man would agree with me when I say that it would be extremely difficult to turn down all that ass, and all those sexy bodies if a gang of girls came up to you and said, “We want you now, be a good boy and do as you’re told!” Maybe not though, maybe you freeze and say no. I have a couple memories where I froze and said no to a sexual encounter. And it is because of these encounters that I know what I would be saying in this situation if I were single.   What about the girls, why would girls want to gang up on one boy? Um do I really need to answer this? In the spirit of good fun do you as a woman believe you would have pleasure ganging up on one man sexually? If you were single and with a group of good girlfriends would you enjoy making a bitch out of a consensual man? The ultimate power exchange for a woman! It is this reversal of power that I believe would appeal to women interested in this kink.   Could you have a closed relationship or monogamous relationship and enjoy this kink? VERY RARELY! I say very rarely because one in a hundred million couples or throuples might know how to navigate this style of kink fun. Most closed or monogamous relationships would not be able to handle this type of sexual fun and here is why I believe so. In the words of Sadia Khan, “Most modern day men are dumb”. If you’re nuance to group sessions and kink with a partner, and your girlfriend says okay let’s do a gangbang, I would argue that a large portion of guys would most likely invite the boys over and start banging. You’re mates now might believe they have the freedom to slap your girlfriends ass whenever they please, maybe they might try slide into her dm’s without your knowing, maybe a few of your mates are over for drinks, you leave the room for a shower or something and now those mates are tagging each other in & out of a gangbang without you. Have you set boundaries to both your girl(s) and gang members. Because if boundaries are not discussed your woman will most likely think that she is openly allowed to be slapped on the booty by your gang ‘mate’; and she may think there are no issues having a threesome while you’re in the shower. Even if boundaries have been discussed can you really trust your ‘boys’ to never make a move again, can you really trust your girl(s) to be one-hundred percent faithful, would your girl(s) tell you if one of the guys did try to make a surreptitious move. The exact same thing applies for women who want to let their man be ganged by her and her friends. Would your man tell those girls to, “Piss off” if they tried to make a surreptitious move, would your man then tell you about said move? You have a reverse gangbang and all your girlfriends are staying the night because you trust them, it’s midnight and so you give them a place to stay. Some how one of your ‘girlfriends’ sneaks to your man surreptitiously and wants more dick because she is still hungry, would your man be faithful? would he tell you? Exact same scenario for the guy, if one of the ‘bros’ was sleeping over would he try put his dick in your girls mouth, would she succumb and cheat or would she scream and punch the dick so hard that he may never be able to use it again. what would you as the relationship entity do? There are people who have a kink for cheating and having an affair, I’ve been contacted multiple times as an escort to participate in this fantasy. Unfortunately so many of us would not remain faithful and would succumb to lust and cheat. My best advice for experimenting with this kink as closed relationship is to become experienced with kink as a whole first, build an extremely high level of trust first where you know without any shadow of a doubt that you can trust each other. This might mean a few years of back & forth conversations to really establish what you both feel comfortable with, where you will do it, how you will do. Establish the trust that your dominant partner will lead the gang and keep it within the confines of said boundaries, establish the trust that your submissive will be loyal to your every command.   This is an extreme kink for a reason and as a man do you honestly believe you could still look at your partner(s) a week after taking a gang of cocks and say, “I love you” trusting in all your heart that she will be faithful? Do you as a woman have the self-control to respect what your man has just given you and scream if anyone dare cross your intimate boundaries, and promise to never go outside the relationship for the experience or singular dick? Could you as the woman trust your man with your girlfriends over to not pull his pants down and accept the blow job that Tiffany is begging for in the kitchen? Could you as the man trust yourself not to seek out a tryst with Rebecca the plump blonde that your wife let be apart of the girl gang? The way she sucked your cock was nothing like you have had before, the way her pussy melted when she was on top was incredible. Could you as a woman trust yourself to tell the smoking hot model Derrick with ripped abs and a thick eight-inch cock to go shove it when he hit’s your DM’s trying his luck, Derrick was at the gangbang. Could you as the man trust your woman to never, ever, ever chase or accept another dick as long as long as you are together, after knowing she enjoyed six juicy dicks being rammed down her holes? I think for most closed or monogamous relationships this kink may just have to be something you miss. How good are you? How loyal are you really? How well do you communicate? Because it would be like getting married while in a marriage, and most people can’t even handle the responsibilities of a normal marriage. If you are that one in a hundred million couple fantastic, I do believe that there are some couples that are not just for show and know how to get kinky.   Would I participate in a gangbang or reverse gangbang? I think that being a part of a consensual gangbang would be fun. About a year ago I was offered to be a part of a filmed gangbang by some respected industry workers, but I declined because I was not interested in the filming part. I don’t know about a reverse gangbang. Because to really enthrall myself in the experience I would have to be with a gang that I trust a great deal, it’s one thing to just have a gang of ass & titties around you, but to ultimately submit to every woman’s commands & wishes; damn. Would I participate in a gangbang or reverse gangbang while in a relationship? I do not wish to answer that question. There are always three sides to a coin.   Thank you for taking the time to read this blog, I hope that you have learnt something or at the very now know that there are normal everyday people who enjoy this kink in a safe, sane, and consensual way. Stay safe in your exploration of sex; educate yourself on the kinks or sex you wish to explore; learn about yourself, even just reading a blog such as this may turn you on or turn you off something; be consensual; try not to judge; and be respectful. Professional dominatrix abduction festish LA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPn2Q6Eyw1M&t=939s Warm regards, L. Soule.

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in 2016 I was introduced to the Swingers scene as a single woman and for the first few months enjoyed it. This lifestyle and also meeting up with guys I met online was fun for a little while. Ultimately though I started feeling disillusioned with it all. It was all so impersonal and without connection. The men tended towards entitled and I was left feeling empty more often than not. In 2017 a female friend, who I had met in the scene told me she was doing sex work. She said she enjoyed doing it as work and I decided to give it a go. I already had a full time career but figured the energy I put in to online dating could be put into sex work. I got an ABN and set myself up as a sole trader and put up my first ad. From the get go I loved it! The men were so much more respectful and considerate. The sex was, for the most part, great and most unexpectedly the connections made with clients, satisfying. I don’t know if because of the transactional nature of the relationship, that ot felt like it was a levelled playing field. Neither party owed or was owed anything at the end of the interaction. It was carefree and enjoyable and this feeling remained afterwards. I was contacted a few times by text afterwards by clients who expressed a similar feeling. In 2019 work really slowed down and then COVID happened. I moved to the Sunshine Coast at the end of 2020. I have always had in my head the thought of going back into sex work but I was older, had put on some weight and had expanded my day job business so it didn’t seem feasible. I recently dipped my toe back into the swing scene and online ‘dating’ and it took me two whole weeks to decide that sex work was the better option for me. Fast forward to now. I had my first client in five years and it/he was amazing! I know it will be a mixed bag and that I will have to deal with pic hunters and time-wasters still but I also know that the vast majority of my clients will be respectful, fun and definitely worth my time and energy. I’m back and ready DTF Sunny Coast! 💋

A mothers nurturing touch, a fathers disciplined love. Something that we all crave in one way or another at some point in our life. We crave being accepted, appreciated and acknowledged by these two figures the most because they are the two beings that created us and meant that we have an existence within this universe. DDLG & MDLB stands for Daddy Dominant Little Girl & Mummy Dominant Little Boy; and is a dominant submissive kink relationship dynamic where the daddy or mummy dominant acts as a nurturing figure to lead the relationship & dynamic. Within this blog I intend to educate you on how this dynamic can be great for people who may have experienced some minor – moderate levels of trauma in relation to their relationships with their parental figure(s); how playing the role as a little can help you connect with your inner child – which I believe plays a pivotal role in being a mature adult; what the dynamic could look like; remove stigma’s behind the dynamic; how you could have a kinky, fun DDLG or MDLB relationship as an adult; talk about the lines that are being blurred and are borderline promoting some very dark behaviour.   I am a heterosexual man and the contents within this blog will be used in the context of a heterosexual Daddy Dominant Little Girl, and Mummy Dominant Little Boy. I do not know if the information within this blog still applies to the homosexual demographic, please leave a comment below if you believe what I have to say still applies to such demographic.   This blog has also been written from a generalised societal view. If you have experienced EXTREME levels of trauma such as rape, molestation, being beaten as a child, growing up in harsh environments where heavy and/ or hard drug use took place, or experienced extreme levels of abandonment, than the information within this blog may not apply to you. Regardless of the severity of any trauma you experienced or have, from minor - extreme please do not use the information within this blog as a mechanism to fix, heal, or overcome any trauma without doing your own research, evaluation, and speaking to a professional. I have shared my story of abandonment after experiencing what most would call a fairly good, standard Australian childhood. I have had multiple psychological sessions with a well-trained psychologist/ sexologist; incorporating my own research and experiences with these sessions has given me the knowledge about this subject and how it can be a fun, beneficial, great kink dynamic, and when executed correctly can make you both better adults.   The child Innocent, pure, free spirited. Just like dogs I do not believe there are such things as bad children, just bad parenting. Obviously there are psychopaths – people who are born killers, but those people are few and far between. The child really is the symbol of innocence, purity, and the free spirit. They will tell it straight as they see it without any bullshit, they are the worlds greatest negotiators, they have no concept of the greater picture, and they just live in the present moment. On the other side of the coin, they are pains in the arse, they require caring for a number of years – if you left a two year old outside alone in your backyard there is a chance that they could get seriously hurt or die; they are also an added responsibility to think about and plan for – they do make life harder to enjoy adult things as an adult. Until the nineteenth century the childhood was barely considered an important phase of life, though I would argue that it wasn’t until the twentieth century that the term we know as a childhood really cemented it’s place as a societal phase in life. For a long time though philosophers had raised the debate that we need to nurture the development of children, and place importance on this phase of their lives. Some people may believe that children should be out working as young as possible as there are plenty of ‘strong’ societies within history that put children to work as young as possible, or welcome to life you may as well start now. And while I do believe that the education of responsibility, maturity, mannerisms, right from wrong, and slowly learning what it means to be a mature adult are vital through adolescence; I also strongly believe that being able to experience a childhood is equally or even more important to the growth, development, and the improvement of the individual and society. The reason I started this blog off with a brief description of the child is because obviously this conception of childhood, this period of life, this ‘character’ if you will is obviously a big part of the dynamic. And unfortunately some people seem to forget the difference between an adult & a child. And so when you enter into this dynamic it is not about being a child with an adult, but connecting with that inner child and being a nurturing, caring yet disciplined and strong dominant. For example; do you feel like a princess when you go to a beauty treatment? Do you like tiny things and tiny collectables? Do you like plush toys? do you collect football cards? Collect comic books or figurines? Do you still thoroughly enjoy video games? Did you used to be a really good BMX rider or surfer and now are unable to find the time? Do you have fond memories of playing basketball down at a local basketball court? For the dominant; do you enjoy improving people and helping them become better? Do you have a big teddy bear inside of your regularly ridged personality? Do you genuinely enjoy caring for someone or something else? Answering yes to any range of these questions or those associated are the hallmarks of a good HEALTHY DDLG & MDLB relationship because you are connecting with your nurturing capabilities as the dominant and bringing back positive memories, experiences and emotions that you may have lost through the everyday tribulations of life.       The child is vital to the survival of society! Quite literally no children, means no adults, means no society, means the end of time. And if you hate society that much that you’re trying to end it all, you have a range of other countries, species, and civilisations that will happily let you end your society so that they can build theirs. Either the whole world blows up, one society will take care of their next generation to prosper and survive, or a unity can be formed. Imagine a world where everyone actually cared about the next generation. As we mature, grow and age through life, we can lose touch with ourselves through adult responsibilities: Being at the office by 9am; spending half the day in traffic; listening to other people’s success while you feel like you’re drowning; taking your kids to school, classes, and training – if you have kids; you have been single for five years now and think your cats will eat your dead corps before you find the love of your life. Finding and reminding yourself of those little things inside that make you giddy, evoke nostalgia of great memories, and make you feel young again, are essential to a less depressive and mentally straining life. The truth is we all need to grow up, we all need to mature, that doesn’t mean that we can’t bring some of those old memories with us. These things could be: glitter; football cards – guilty; tiny collectables; plush toys; visiting significant places like a go kart track you and your mates use to always race at.   Lastly; not everyone likes kids per say. Just like some people don’t like cats, don’t like dogs, don’t like brussel sprouts. Simon Cowell said in his book ‘I Don’t Mean To Be Rude, But…..’ something along the lines that he thinks kids are cool, in other people’s houses, he can handle a friends kid for twenty – thirty minutes but then they go back. I say this respectfully as someone who does aspire to have kids of my own one day, they have a period of being useless, naïve, clumsy, and require a lot of attention, care and work; and there are people who do not want to spend the time, money, and effort putting up with this period.     The parent As someone who was fortunate enough to experience a parent’s genuine love from both mum & dad, I must say that it is one of the most wholesome forms of love to receive. Should you have experienced that genuine care and love too you would know exactly what I am talking about, and would you agree that you do not always value it until you are an adult? The sacrifices, the pick you ups when you’re down, the punishments of when you were a little shit – obviously you don’t think to yourself, “The time I was grounded for a month was fantastic”; but you are thankful that some order was established because now as an adult you have an understanding that there are consequences for bad behaviours. In Australia it is quite common to talk to people around my age (26) and older who copped a belt, a slap across the face, and a smack over the head. I heard from one acquaintance in my time that his brother started smoking cigarettes and so his parents sat him down at the dinner table, gave him a fresh packet of smokes and said you’re not leaving until you finish that packet of smokes. Is that bad parenting? That’s not really mine or your place to say; he never smoked cigarettes again. That’s how I quit smoking, smoking a packet of 25 Peter Jackson menthol hybrids while driving for two days. Being a parent can be extremely difficult & stressful in today’s society because you have one person saying you can’t do this; another saying you must do that; another saying how dare you do that; another person is telling you that you’re doing great, meanwhile your kid is the one running the household not you. Through this process and the day to day tribulations mentioned above it can be quite easy to lose touch with yourself and enjoy some time being an adult, which is pivotal to your own wellness as a parent. If you have no kids what is preventing you from being an adult & enjoying life as an adult? Not a lot. Personally I do not believe there is a right and wrong way to parent as such; providing that the structure of who is in charge, who sets the order and rules, and who is the adult and who is the child is understood. Not through malicious and malevolent intent, but through rewards, punishments, and habits. They finish their homework for the week on time they receive $20 into a savings account they are gifted for their eighteenth birthday. They wash the dishes all week you buy them their favourite drink at the end of the week. They exercise three times a week for the entire month and you take them to the beach. They swear and they go to time out – if you’re the one that’s inducing that language you have to find a way not to be hypocritical, kids are smart sponges. Maybe they are found to be a bully at school, ground them, make them do extra chores and take away their phone while they’re at home. They sneak out to a party without your permission make them cook dinner for the month and ground them from going to social outings with friends for that same month. Once punishments have passed forgive and move on. If they are repeat offenders that is above my pay grade. The reason for both of these discussions of ‘The Child’ & ‘The Parent’ being discussed before diving into the kink side of things is to demonstrate my level of competency, emotional intelligence and where my head is at with respect to this conversation. If I was to just type the mummy & daddy dominant role just plays at our natural hypergamy for someone to care for us then this blog would be pointless and a waste of time for everyone and not actually educate people on how to have a HEALTHY DDLG & MDLB relationship as adults. What I believe is important to a happier, less depressing, more fulfilling life is accepting the fact that we must grow up, we must mature, we must take on responsibility, we must be adults and be able to respectfully enjoy adult things; while also maintaining some of our earliest memories that positively impacted our lives. I do believe that both nuance and experienced kinksters will learn and/ or agree with what I say in this blog.   Daddy & his princess (little girl) I’ve chosen to paragraph the dynamics with their reciprocal opposite (Daddy Dominants & Little Girls, Mummy Dominants & Little boys) rather than the top dominants together & the bottom submissives together because I believe that the roles of DDLG & MDLB are slightly different. While both mummy & daddy are the tops, I do believe that the lessons and rewards that most daddy’s confer their princesses are different to the ones that mummy’s confer their princes’. The traditional role of a Dad. To be the disciplinary, the strong, the protector, the problem solver, the rectifier. The traditional role of a good dad is the man of a daughters dreams, just as the mother is traditionally the perfect archetype the son is always chasing. So put into kink language and this dynamic, a daddy is the one that enforces order, educates, structures, protects, helps solve problems; while also giving his little a more nurturing type of affection, attention, and care compared to other dominant relationship dynamics. This affection, attention, and care is without the sex. This may look something like washing your littles hair for her; this may be taking two minutes out of your day to look at the new shoes or clothes that your little has brought home; maybe it is sitting down with your little to help solve a problem they face in their life; maybe it is paying for her coffee date with her girlfriends. “Okay I’m reading this and my man already does some of those and we do not identify as daddy dominant & little girl?” Awesome, that is wonderful to hear, that could just indicate that you have yourself a man who takes genuine interest in what you enjoy, and realising or not you have a healthy relationship with your inner selves. I want to take the focus of the dynamic away from the sex for the time being and focus on other areas of the relationship. For now I want to focus more on the non-sexual activities, the rewards & punishments around the DDLG dynamic. What reminds you of being a little girl? Going for a leisurely drive to a café for ice-cream? Cuddling up to daddy for a Disney movie? Making a castle out of chairs, sheets, and pillows? Forcing your dad to put on the princess Tutu and play tea cup party? Going for a picnic? What were some of your favourite toys? Did you like collecting things? Do you have a favourite place to visit? Maybe a certain beach, or going for a bush walk, or a drive to a café for ice cream. Did your dad take you shopping and help you style appropriately? When you enter into a Daddy Dominant Little Girl relationship this is the type of thing you must openly & honestly discuss. This is how the woman playing the role as the little communicates her childhood memories that lighten up her life or that she wishes she did more of, conferring the daddy dominant knowledge of things to do for fun, rewards, and punishments. Now let’s say that one of the littles favourite memories was when her dad would dress up as a fairy princesses and go for a picnic at the park, you as an adult dominant may say that you are not going to dress up in a fairy princess outfit for her, that is your hard no limit, nor does she as an adult want that. Though you could still go down to a local park and have the picnic with one of those feminine wide brim hats and some feminine glasses and play some fun games, talk about nonsense, enjoy some tea, and embrace the inner feminine on some level. And look you don’t need to wear the silly hat and glasses if you really don’t feel comfortable, just find a way to show the big teddy bear inside. I’ve posed the question to a couple masculine fathers, “If your daughter wants you to put on a fairy princess dress and play tea cup party, what would you do?”, “You put the fucking tutu on” is what most said, there are also countless memes of this exact question with a dad next to his daughter at a supermarket with a tutu on, they are off in some imaginary world…. So in this adult scenario the hat and glasses is a symbol of doing what you must to put a smile on your girls face. So put the biggest smile on your baby girls face. Maybe you have a littles picnic party where you have a group of littles that you take on a picnic party. As the daddy it would be your responsibility to do an allergy check – that may be a task for your submissive to find out; It would be your responsibility to pack the picnic for your little girls, games included. These games could be a game of dodgeball, or soccer, or hide and seek, tiggy, go fish, uno and so forth. Maybe you bring Mr snuggles along too, a giant stuffed bear that you won for your little at last years local show.   Maybe the drive to a café for ice-cream is used as a reward to incentivise your little to do all her tasks. She completes all of her tasks for said week and so you drive her to the café, buy her ice cream and enjoy an ice-cream cone with her. Tell her she has been a good girl this week and that if she keeps up the great work you’ll continue to be enjoying the ice cream together. This sentence alone will stir most littles crazy! All princesses want to be a good girl for daddy. Maybe I’m being naive here, I am only twenty-six, but for the right man would you agree every woman wants to be viewed as their man’s good girl? Am I right when I say that even ‘bad bitches’ will be good girls for the right man? Conversely what if your little’s biological dad kept falling through on his word to take his daughter bowling. This may sound strange to some readers, but if you as the dominant knew this information and spontaneously planned and escorted her to a few dates of bowling it may have a wonderful healing affect. You may both create lasting memories for yourselves. Again, I am not a train psychologist, that is just a view point. Maybe for a date night you plan to build a pillow castle out of chairs, a sheet, and pillows, ordering local Chinese food for dinner; creating the perfect palace for a few hours of story telling or to watch a movie that the little chooses. The stories don’t have to be childish either, you could incorporate adult themes into the stories, you are adults for fuck sake, yes you are playing at the inner child but that does not mean you need to revert back to being a complete an utter child with no competency. The movie you watch doesn’t have to be a Disney movie either it could be something like ‘She’s The Man’, or ‘The Princess Diaries’, ‘The Notebook’, or ‘Alvin & the Chipmunks’, or even ‘A Dogs Purpose’. She cuddles up to you in the make shift castle and you enjoy the movie like any other film – the princess cuddling her big teddy bear. Maybe you’re having sex for half of it, maybe your little really wants to watch the whole movie because it is their absolute favourite childhood movie and they want you to give them attention and affection in other ways like head & body tickles and warm comforting cuddles. Because not everything in life is about putting your cock inside of your partners pussy. Nail all four of those – watch whole movie, cuddles & body tickles, feelings of being a princess, and sex; and your chances of having a happy women increase quite a lot. Maybe daddy is choosing the movie and decides that you are watching an ‘irresponsible’ movie like ‘300’, or ‘The Gentleman’, or ‘Kill Bill’, then she gets even more ‘scared’ and cuddles up to you more. Maybe the experience of cuddles with her biological dad is exactly what she is missing, you would learn this through respectful communication; and so you putting on a G or PG movie that she use to watch alone while she cuddles up to you is highly appealing to her.   You’ve mentioned tasks a lot in this Questionable Kinks series and I’m still wondering what tasks are? Tasks are exactly that. They are chores and things that one must do to work towards a goal or for rewards. In a general dominant & submissive sense a task might be to perform cunnilingus on your dominant for two minutes everyday for the month, or to give your dominant a neck massage for ten minutes three times throughout the week. Completing these tasks or series of tasks should lead to some form of reward and/ or improvement for the submissive. If the dominant is not specific with the times the sub must do those acts the submissive might try to do all three neck massages in one day, or the cunnilingus for two minutes may be whenever the submissive feels like it. So as the dominant you must be clear with your instructions, because otherwise the submissive’s inner brat may test you. If you want to have cunnilingus for two minutes every morning before you jump out of bed you best make that clear. So when we talk about tasks within a DDLG dynamic you will usually find that the daddy is setting tasks around improving his little in the area’s of life you have conferred. If your little wants to learn a new language you may set tasks around learning that language. For example always greeting each other with the new language, or having your submissive ask, “Where is the bathroom?” every time they need to go to the bathroom, or making sure they say, “Thank you” in the new language every time you do something for them, give them something as a gift, and so forth. This also means you as the daddy dominant may need to learn how to answer the question, “Where is the bathroom?” in said language to help your little girl know how to understand the new language. How could you as the dominant help your submissive memorise and learn the new skills? Maybe your little is a bit lazy, she wants to do more exercise to stay fit and healthy, but she hates the standard gym and struggles with motivating herself. You may set the task that she has to do fifty sit ups, fifty squats, twenty assisted push ups every day, and go for a thirty minute fast paced walk twice a week – for conversations sake this time your submissive won’t try to brat out of the walks and wants to choose when she does them, perfectly fine. The incentive to do the exercises may be that you will do some baking with her at the end of the month because she really loves to bake. You as the daddy could go one step further and during that month find the banana bread recipe that you too are going to bake; maybe she already has an encyclopedia of recipes stashed in her cook book and you have to make the choice of whether or not you bake your recipe or hers this time. Remember there is always next time, this is her reward, and she may throw a little tantrum if she really wants to bake her recipe. Over the course of the next few months you may create a personalised workout for your submissive, where you include skipping ropes, maybe some light kettle bells, resistance bands, yoga and so forth. The reward for exceptional work over a three month period may be taking your little out for a day of pampering at a professional massage parlour, dry needling, a professional face cleanse, and salt bath – do you see where having time, money, and focus plays a pivotal role in providing some dominant & submissive services. And this is not to say that you can’t set sexual tasks or receive sexual rewards while experimenting or living this dynamic, but be an adult. Because I can not stress the importance of emotional & sexual intelligence that you must bring to all forms of kink. Because otherwise you really can find yourself in a horrible situation mentally, spiritually, and physically. With the right education; with respectful, open, honest, judgement free communication you can have a great HEALTHY kink dynamic.   Whether you join the community or just have a group of friends that are also into this kink lifestyle there are sexually based activities that can be had. Similar to the picnic’s you can have ‘sleep overs’, where a group of littles will stay at one littles place and play a variety of games, and participate in activities that may have been organised and over watched by the daddy. These activities could include baking some healthy muffins, building a fort out of pillows, putting a movie on for all to watch, maybe you read them a bed time story etc. Again you could read ‘The Hunger Games’, ‘Harry Potter’, or even ‘Erotic Writing by Lexx Soule’ and you would still generate the same affect. So just a standard girlfriends night over? Essentially yes. And if you have a husband or partner without labelling it a ‘DDLG’ that also cooks for you & your friends, and organises your girls sleep over, I’m going to dare say and take a guess that you jokingly saying, “Thanks daddy!” when he delivers the food. Maybe not, maybe it is, “Cheers babe”. Let’s not over complicate it, you are well aligned with your inner-selves if this is the case.   Should you be in a polyamorous relationship with the other littles and their daddy’s (if they have one) then goodnight may turn into a “Hey daddy, before we go to sleep can we all please play with your cock”. “THAT’S FUCKED UP!” You say.     See not exactly, because within the world of kink and BDSM, a HEALTHY daddy & little know that they are adults playing at an adult fantasy. Adult women would also love a good sleep over party. They get to gossip, show each other their new Peter Alexander PJ’s, do their nails, practice styling each other’s hair, drink wine, eat crackers and everything else. So when you convert an adult sleep over to a littles sleep over the only real differences may be as simple as the way the man is keeping track of the night, preparing the food for the littles, helping with the games, ensuring that the littles go to bed by a certain time. Maybe he doesn’t let them watch a movie that is over MA15+ because those ‘irresponsible’ movies are for daddy and his little only, he would hate to send the others home with nightmares. The littles may want to decorate each others nails, plat each others hair, run around the house screaming stupid sounds because one of the littles snuck in a bag of red frogs. NO COCAINE FOR LITTLES! (Girls love sugar. Just as much as they hate water. IYKYK). The whole time they are just wearing fully clothed cute Peter Alexander PJ’s. Do you see how done correctly you could create a littles sleep over where nothing insinuates an actual child’s sleep over. So when you get to bed time and your little(s) says “Can we please have your cock daddy” you feel comfortable knowing that you have ADULT women pleasuring you sexually. Again this is where emotional and sexual intelligence is paramount.   And look maybe you a have husband or partner that loves cooking for you and your friends, puts on a fire for you to gossip around while he sits inside, he puts up with everyone’s drunk behaviour late in the night, and you ladies play whatever games you so decide. FANTASTIC! You have a healthy relationship with your inner selves and have maintained ‘youthfulness’ if you will. May I ask though. Do you still drop a, “Thanks daddy” once in a while? Does the man know that he is the daddy. Are you still following with me?   I do believe in rare cases you could have a littles sleep over where you are monogamous and do not sexually play as a group. And I say rare because it requires a deep level of trust from your submissive, your dominant, and all the others involved. If you were a dominant who had agreed to the boundaries discussed between you & your little; that you cannot sexually play with anyone else and one of the other littles comes onto you or sneaks into your bed while you’re sleeping, what are you going to do? Do you trust your submissive to call you & ask to be picked up if the ‘daddy’ at the sleep over is attempting to cross those boundaries or makes her feel uncomfortable? Do you as a submissive trust yourself to say no if a daddy at another’s host was to come onto you? If that boundary had been openly discussed between those involved and he was crossing the line would you leave the sleep over straight away? Would you tell your man? If you are monogamous and going to parties where cheating regularly occurs from other people? Why put yourself in that situation if you know what is going to happen.   If you are monogamous with your little or maybe polyamorous but your little has said no sexual play with the other littles for this particular event, she may throw a curve ball your way at bedtime and say, “Daddy, can we pretty please have your cock”, your job as a daddy is to see through the bullshit being tempted and say, “Um no” or, “Sure. You can have my cock when your friends leave tomorrow”. It’s the shit test, and she will get mad at you the next day if you give in because you broke the trust. There are numerous ways that the night could play out, respect each other, communicate and be adults. The DDLG dynamic can be so much fun. You get to be a part of IMPROVING your princesses life and helping them grow in the areas of life they desire. You have the opportunity to connect them respectfully to their inner child that can sometimes be lost through the tribulations that life throws every one’s way. There is a different glow on your woman’s face when she is your queen and when she is your princesses. Having a little princess can be so much fun and rewarding within an adult setting, just as having a good daddy can bring you a world of smiles & joy.     The MDLB & her prince (Little boy) The MDLB is very similar to the DDLG dynamic except I believe as an adult man, being the little boy in the dynamic means that your behaviours and the things you want to do for fun are slightly different. “Obviously!” He may have loved Hot Wheels cars growing up; he may have collected all the different track pieces to create the ultimate race track; he might have sat there for hours on end playing with his toy cars. But now that he is older and mature he does not have the enthusiasm to sit and watch a Hot Wheels car do a loop the loop followed by a jump. Please leave a comment or email me if you believe this to be wrong, but boys brains develop and mature a little differently as they grow into men to that of girls into woman. Where a girl could go through her entire life enjoying plush toys or tiny things; a boy may go from building and playing with a Hot Wheels cars set to playing the Hot Wheels video game, or just collecting the Hot Wheels cars, or learning how to drive a real super powered sports car. He has an added expectation to mature. If I made an Instagram page of me sitting with a Hot Wheels track, building it, playing with it and reviewing the cars in great detail I would be labelled as weird; conversely if a woman my age was to create a page talking about her plush toy collection, and walk throughs of her going to the shops to buy said collection she would be labelled as cute. Discursive note, as someone who has played the Hot Wheels video game for a creative project, I must say that game is pretty cool to play. If the Xbox was hooked up for pre-drinks with the boys Hot Wheels would easily come out; If you were a parent you could probably enjoy an hour of gaming with your kid even if you don’t like gaming yourself. Low key great game on a level! Your man playing the role as little boy in the dynamic may have loved playing Nerf wars when he was younger, but now unless you have adulted the gameplay they may not be as interested – create some sparkle bombs or smoke bombs, add some beer. Maybe rather than Nerf, your little boy goes to paintball with mates to reconnect with that inner child. While paintball is enjoyed by everyone, it is a temporary distraction and escape from what a ‘man’ should be doing. His purpose, his work, his family duties. Hence the saying, “Boys & their toys”. For men who may have been forced to grow up to fast and never experience a childhood, these vices and temporary distractions can play a role in helping them connect with that inner kid. While a man who was forced to grow up ‘too quick’ may not ever think of making a Hot Wheels track and watching it go loop the loop, he may find his inner child release & escape by playing video games – GTA could be the game; going to the local basketball courts by himself once in a while to shoot some hoots because he likes the sport as an adult but never had the opportunity to play or follow it as a kid; even fishing could be that thing that his dad never taught him and so now that he is a man he has found pleasure in that thing he always wanted to do growing up but couldn’t. Bringing your attention back to the loop the loop and Hot Wheels, there are a lot of scenes in TV shows and movies where a man loses touch with himself and reverts to these behaviours & emotions that he never experienced growing up. It even happens on a small scale with the billionaire in the movie ‘Pretty Woman’. I believe this demonstrates the importance of a childhood, so that when a man does go through a stage of losing or questioning who he is as a man he has a positive ‘vice’ that he may revert back to. For example he knows that playing with kids toys is for kids, but may go on a video gaming spree for a day or two while he solves his problems; or he goes for a ride on the push bike or BMX bike he has; maybe he just goes for a drive to a significant location. “What’s the difference between playing with toys to think and playing video games” you ask. The stages of being a kid for males. A thirteen-year-old is a kid, but will enjoy video games the exact same way a twenty-eight year old man would enjoy video games (maybe different games of course). Though both the thirteen-year-old and twenty-eight year will most likely find playing with toys a seven year old plays with very boring. When it comes to task setting, the roles & systems of the MDLB & the DDLG are similar, though the rewards and punishments may be different (as mentioned above). Your little boy may want to learn another language, so like previously mentioned in The DDLG section you put steps in place to help them learn the language. “Hey, how was your day?”, “Where is the toilet?”, “Please & Thank you”; using rewards and punishments to encourage your submissive boy to keep learning and speaking in the other languages. Maybe your little boy wants to become a black belt in a martial art so you set the task for him to find a corresponding dojo to said martial art that he likes and would enjoy training at. Then to keep him consistent you buy him five new Hot Wheels cars every month that he does not miss a training session – if collecting Hot Wheels cars are his thing. There is a huge difference between collecting cars and playing with cars. Having the right collection can be a huge financial asset. Think about Gary V and how he collects I think it’s baseball or NFL cards. As punishment you take his Xbox away from him when he misses 25% or more of training sessions, or maybe giving you a foot bath & foot massage is adequate punishment. Maybe one area of your boys life that he wants to improve is his sense of fashion, so you go window shopping and help him style an outfit or two that you buy as a reward when he hits a target. Maybe you’re his financial dominant as well and the outfits are tied to financial goals & rewards. While mummy’s play a nurturing role I personally believe if you are to embrace and label yourself within this kink dynamic that mummy’s should be pushing their little boy to become more of an independent, better man. That way you have a man who can handle himself, and still come to you when he needs a moment or two of being a teddy bear. And yes, I suppose to some extent the same could be said for a daddy & his girl. The history books talk about a lot of ancient rulers who taught their women how to be strong & independent, but they were still princesses.     Most boys & men likely crave the nurturing touch of the feminine - mummy. That soft gentle hand running through your hair as you lay your head in her lap, that warm cuddle and soft gliding of her fingers down your arm while you lay watching a movie, those forehead and cheek kisses that infect the mind, having your body and hair washed in the shower, maybe he just wants to roll his head over in his mummy’s lap and suck on mummy’s nipples – I actually feel cringe typing that last sentence. Thankfully I have the emotional intelligence to know where I’m going with this. There are a lot of men who would love all of the acts mentioned above without the label of being MDLB, because while a man can be a big, tough, weapon of destruction there are usually a couple or handful of women that can bring out the biggest teddy bear. These women are usually daughters, wives/ great girlfriends, and mothers. Like mentioned in the DDLG section there are some girls who made their dad put on a princess fairy costume and play tea cup party. When a man loves his wife or girlfriend so much that he would go to the end of the earth for her he will be a big softy at times. And mothers, well they brought you into this life. It’s funny to hear the number of men who know the relationship I have with my mother, and have told me I won’t hate my mother forever because she brought me into this world. I find their comments very intriguing.   The nurturing touch and love that a mother is supposed to provide her children at a young age makes a child feel safe, loved, and cared for. So when an adult female partner plays the role of this feminine with these nurturing acts the man receives that feeling of love, safety, and being cared for, he can escape into a more peaceful state of being. No war, no destruction, no conquering, no problems. Just the pureness of what is supposed to be unconditional love. This is where a man could have some level of trauma associated with his mother on a minor – moderate possibly even high scale. What if he never received a warm welcoming I love you buddy hug; what if his only memories are being told from the age of four to get off when all he wanted was to put his head on the lap of the woman who birthed him and receive some head scratches; what if he has never experienced a mum tucking him into bed and saying, “Goodnight buddy, I love you”. He may become hyper masculine, and he may also love when he finds a woman who he can rest his head on while she gives him head tickles. The woman playing the role of mummy doesn’t need to be a messed up crazy woman craving the love of her innocent child again either. She doesn’t need to be depressed that she can’t have children of her own. And she doesn’t need to pretend that her thirty-year-old husband is laying on the couch pretending he is an infant sucking for milk. I am aware that some woman who lose their child or may become infertile and crave raising a child so much that they can become psychologically ill, and so nurturing someone may sometimes aid in the healing process. Obviously without a great deal of experience and knowledge on this distinct subject I will not comment at length, because in these circumstances there would need to be psychological assistance through the process. Likewise if you were a grown man wanting to revert back to infancy and pretend you’re sucking on ‘mummy’s’ breast for milk, I can’t comment, personally I think that’s fucked up and psychological assistance should be attained. Anyone who wants to revert back to infancy for any pleasure does need psychological assistance.    If a woman thoroughly enjoys giving gifts, has a nurturing personality, likes to be a leader, then she may thoroughly enjoy being the dominant that leads her little boy. If she is someone who aspires to have children of her own one day this might be a way for her to test out some of her skills e.g. keeping your little in a schedule, helping them stay focused towards their goals, teaching them how to cook, how fair are your punishments and rewards, and so on. She may not want kids but like a lot of women still has that deep-rooted desire to care for something and/ or someone, so she may very well love having a little boy to improve and raise.   Why is it socially more accepted for girls to say daddy than boys to say mummy? I personally believe it comes down to the traditional belief that boys need to grow up and learn to become men while girls can stay princesses even when they are queens. If you are on a sinking boat who typically gets saved first. The children & the women. If someone comes up to a man and women while they are out, who is expected to solve the issue? The man. Even if the woman is a black belt in Karate she is going to at least expect her man to have some competency to try deescalate, exit or solve the situation before she kicks the crap out the intruder. Like previously mentioned there were some ancient rulers who taught their women the way of man, the women were trained how to fight, how to bid & negotiate, how to handle a weapon, how to take a punch, and the art of war. So if there was a modern day father who ensured his daughter was a black belt and would vivisect any person who dare present a threat to her, and she just so happens to fall in love with a man who may not be a skilled fighter but can handle his own to an extent, there would respectfully be no issues with the relationship from my perspective. I say all of this because I do not want a red pill dipshit or extreme feminist jumping to conclusions about what I am trying to say. Biologically and in a lot of traditional history the boys have been expected to grow up, fight their wars, deal with their problems, while the women could respectfully be princesses most of their life. I do not raise this to start conflict, only state scientific fact to give reasoning to the debate of the term, ‘Daddy’ being generally more accepted then, ‘Mummy’. So just as a daddy may say to his little, “You love when daddy feeds you his cock don’t you”, there are theoretically no issues with a man sucking a woman’s breast and her saying, “Does mummy’s nipple feel good in your mouth”. Obviously providing all are comfortable and consenting with those words and phrases. There are plenty of women who do not like the term daddy, there are plenty of men who do not like the term mummy. Please bring emotional, and sexual intelligence to any form kink or dynamic; if need be look for a sexologist that you feel comfortable with. If you can’t be an adult, if you can’t think for yourself then either do the work, do the research to educate yourself; or do not enter kink. Because will you hurt someone else or yourself.     Have you started to put the pieces together how being in a HEALTHY dominant and submissive DDLG or MDLB dynamic has a lot of psychological benefits to both the dominant and submissive. The basis of this dom sub dynamic is usually focused a little more on improving the person as a whole, and for a lack of a better term ‘raising’ the person. While there are different sexual components that can appear perverted, that is kinky fun. I believe the real benefits and fun of this dynamic are had when you put an emphasis on the other elements outside of the sex. You will have couples and people who just call each other, ‘daddy’, ‘baby girl’, ‘sexy mumma’, ‘mummy’ for some fun, they may not even be in a kink dynamic or even know about the kink lifestyle. And yes of course you may switch roles at different times, for example one month one person is the dominant and one is the submissive. Maybe for three months you are the little to your daddy but one afternoon daddy doesn’t feel like being daddy for a few hours and needs to be nurtured. Bring some intelligence and you can have a lot of fun.     The lines & social issues Obviously there are a great deal of stigma’s and social issues that are associated to this kink and relationship dynamic. Look if you’re smart enough, or within the scene/ community you’ll know the sorts of problems that could arise, and how some people may take things to the extreme and cross that line – a couple examples have been given throughout the literature. Rather than give you my full insight, you should do some thinking for yourself. I will prompt some of the issues and extremities within this dynamic and let you be an adult to make your own conscious choices whether this dynamic may be fun to explore or damaging. The age play; do you already have a negative relationship with things like ‘Teen’, ‘daddy’, ‘mummy’ porn and the rabbit holes that they can take you down, school girl and teacher, would you enjoy pretending to be an infant with a nappy? There are not a lot of kinks that I judge, that last one does raise my eyebrows. Do you understand the line? Where do you draw the line? Incest behaviours; I jelq and have exercises for my penis, and as a man who finds older women attractive it is very hard to find a x-rated film of an older woman without some form of step-this, or without words within the clip referring to some dirty shit. Do you like older women? Do you watch porn? I dare say that you would be seeing a very similar thing? While some guys I have talked to over my time about porn say that they have control of their vices and comfortably joke about the step, there are a very large portion that do not have control. And even industry professionals (sex, psychology, relationships, and human behaviour) talk about the effects of the porn you consume. So when you put all of those negative relationships together, you have one giant negative relationship that can do a lot of damage to everyone. Do you understand what I am trying to say now when I say that kink, can encourage emotional and sexual intelligence. Right from wrong. And has benefits to improving yourself and others. But if done poorly, with no intelligence, no desire to learn, and without respect, without communication, and immaturity, you will land yourself & others in psychological, spiritual, and physical trouble. This has been a great blog to write, and I hope that you have learnt something. If you wish to continue exploring the different worlds of kink, dominant & submissive dynamics, BDSM, Tantra then I encourage you to do the research and take the necessary steps to a HEALTHY, FUN, SEXUALLY FULLFILLING, ADULT life. Take things slow, stay safe, stay sane, be consensual.   If you have any further questions please just email lexxsoule@gmail.com or leave a comment below.   Warmest regards, L. Soule.

I am adoring the sunshine Melbourne has been blessed with this week. The sun is gorgeous and puts everyone in such s good mood, people smiling everywhere. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for pool days and beach days to fill my summer.. I want to work on my tan 😫 And just like that it will be Christmas and Queen Mariah will return!

High heels can add an extra layer of allure and confidence to any encounter, but they also come with their own set of challenges, especially during intimate moments. For escorts in Brisbane looking to master the art of sex in high heels, this guide provides practical tips and advice to ensure both safety and sensuality. Read on to discover how to seamlessly integrate high heels into your intimate experiences. The Allure of High Heels High heels have long been associated with glamour, elegance, and a heightened sense of power and sexuality. They accentuate the legs, improve posture, and add an element of sophistication to any outfit. For escorts in Brisbane, wearing high heels can enhance the overall experience for clients, creating a visually captivating and confident presence. Understanding the appeal of high heels can help you use them effectively to set the mood and elevate the encounter. Choosing the Right Heels Selecting the right pair of high heels is crucial for comfort and stability. Opt for heels that fit well and provide adequate support. Consider the height and style of the heel – while stiletto heels are undeniably sexy, they can be challenging to maneuver in. Wedges or block heels offer more stability without compromising on style. Look for shoes with cushioned insoles and sturdy ankle straps to prevent slipping and provide extra support during movement. Practicing Balance and Movement Wearing high heels requires practice, especially when incorporating them into intimate activities. Spend time walking and moving in your heels to get accustomed to the balance and feel. Practice transitioning from standing to sitting or lying down gracefully. Consider incorporating light stretching exercises to improve your balance and flexibility. The more comfortable and confident you are in your heels, the more natural and enjoyable the experience will be. Safe and Sexy Positions Certain positions are more suited for high heels, offering both safety and sensuality. Here are a few to consider: Standing Positions: Positions like standing doggy style can be enhanced with high heels, as they naturally elevate your height and add an extra element of visual appeal. Lean against a wall or a sturdy piece of furniture for support. Edge of the Bed: Sitting on the edge of the bed with your partner standing or kneeling in front of you allows you to keep your heels on without compromising stability. Modified Missionary: Lying on your back with your legs elevated and resting on your partner’s shoulders can keep your heels in view while providing a comfortable and intimate angle. Chair Positions: Use a sturdy chair for support while experimenting with positions like straddling your partner or sitting on their lap. Incorporating Heels into the Experience High heels can be more than just an accessory; they can be a tool for enhancing the sensual experience. Consider using your heels to tease and tantalize your partner – running the heel along their body, gently pressing the pointed toe against their skin, or using the strap as a playful restraint. The visual and tactile elements of high heels can add an extra layer of excitement and anticipation, making the encounter even more memorable. Aftercare for Your Feet After an intimate session in high heels, it's essential to take care of your feet. Remove your heels and gently massage your feet to relieve any tension. Soak your feet in warm water with salts to soothe any soreness. Apply a moisturizing lotion to keep your skin soft and hydrated. Taking the time to care for your feet ensures they remain healthy and ready for your next adventure in high heels. Bottom Line Sex in high heels can be a thrilling and empowering experience when approached with the right mindset and preparation. By choosing the right heels, practising balance, selecting suitable positions, and incorporating your heels into the experience, you can create a captivating and confident presence for your clients. Remember to practice safety and comfort, and take care of your feet afterwards to maintain their health. With these tips, you can master the art of sex in high heels and elevate your intimate encounters to new heights.

Period is here and will be till Sunday/Monday if I've mathed correctly. 30% off for those who chose to brave the red wave I'm just as disappointed as you are, i promise! I hope to see you all next week Fresh as a daisy :) ttfn. - Aria xx

Before continuing I recommend visiting my website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 6 (Yasmin), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-6-yasmin. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). Yasmin is a young twenty-eight-year-old women who broke up with her boyfriend after walking in on an affair one year ago. Since then, she has struggled to build intimate connections with other males; with seven years of trust betrayed she has felt so alone and invaluable. Lexx a thirty-three-year-old escort has heard this scenario all too much; and has a deep empathy for people who experience this; especially when the events take place in couples sacred palaces of love. Yasmin loves sex; she is a classy girl and will not jump on any old cock. Obviously struggling to establish trust in males she experimented with other females, enjoying the experiences too. Something is missing though; she desires the attention & affection of the masculine from a male counterpart – Lexx Soule’s genuine aura was very appealing. Performing a due diligent snoop, she saw that he had a very flirtish sexual energy augmenting his profile, however nothing lubricious. While his profile was face out and quite popular, she had come to the understanding she would rather pay for great company and sex, then waste time with people who did not meet her needs - a good, high value man that will love her unconditionally, is educated, maintains his health, and fulfills her sexual, emotional, and spiritual needs. She does not need a drop dead handsome ten out of ten model – though she would not turn down the opportunity if presented. She just wants a genuinely good gentleman. Speaking with Lexx over SMS she felt comfortable, and sexy; the freedom to leave the arrangement at any moment without saying goodbye added value to the service. Lexx notifies his client that he is in the hotel lobby, the nerves force an instant reply from the new client “Be right down”. A simple hug and kiss on the cheek keep the interaction discreet before they journey up to the four-star suite on floor fifteen. Being extremely nervous Yasmin suggest that the pair sit and enjoy a drink & some fruit first, buying a six pack of guava vodka cruisers to settle the nerves. Little does she know that first encounters have a short grace introduction period to become more acquainted and help both people become comfortable. “Would you like a cruiser?” her words and actions are permeating anxiety. “Thank you, but I will just have a glass of water please” Lexx replies nonchalantly as he seats at the round wooden dinner table. “Would you like a cold bottle?” she offers in her nervous reck, “Just tap water for me please” Lexx enjoys room temperature water and seen as there is a fitted filter, he requests the tap water. “Do I seem nervous? I feel very nervous!” Yasmin paces while setting the table, with nibbles & drink, tinkering with small items like keys, phone, hair, ornaments. “Yasmin”, “Yeah”, Take a deep breath and please sit and talk with me” Lexx’s voice is soothing, calm, and lead with him taking the cruiser out of her hand, and gently holding her hands, nourishing the space. Yasmin stops pacing for a second, “you’re right, you’re right, you’re right”. *Inhale…… Exhale…….  She reaches for the cruiser and devours half the bottle. Yasmin then seats with Lexx at the table.   “Are guava flavoured cruisers your favourite drink of choice?” Lexx confers calmly. “Yeah. They take me back to twenty again” Yasmin replies still permeating nerves. “A good time for you?” Lexx enquiries. “That was the time I met my ex, I was partying, my friends weren’t all getting married and having kids, and life was easy” Yasmin opens. “Aaahhhh yes, I too am familiar with the partying era of one’s young twenty’s. Some wild memories. With regards to your friends though, you don’t make the opportunity to go out for dinner or do anything social with them?” Lexx maintaining the calmness of the room while learning more about his client. “Not for the last six months, everyone keeps making plans and then they bail at the last moment or want to rearrange plans” Yasmin confers. “You know you don’t have to be here; you can leave.” she un-rationally blurts to Lexx. Lexx cordially chuckles before replying with repartee “I haven’t heard that one before”. “What do you mean?” Yasmin’s anxious nerves getting the better of her judgement. “What I mean is that I am here because you are paying me to be here. I am here because I want to be here. You are a very gorgeous young woman. And look if you tell me to leave and really do want me to leave, I will leave, and I will still be paid for the full two hours” Lexx commands the leadership position with his calm, strong words. Unfortunately, he has had a handful of clients tell him to leave and that they do not know why they hired him in the first place, all due to nervousness. Lexx has usually only taken half the payment as he feels empathy for their nerves, and understands it is a big investment. Most of those clients re-hired Lexx within the coming weeks, paying him in full as a deposit, and becoming on going clients of Lexx.   “Okay. I’m so sorry! I don’t actually think I can do this; you need to leave. I’m so sorry” The anxiety getting the better of Yasmin. “Okay. Are you really sure that is what you want me to do?” Lexx comfortingly asks. “I’m sorry! Please leave, you can keep the money. Just please, I’m so sorry!” Unable to make eye contact with her escort, her anxiety continues to emote. “Okay…” Lexx stands from his seat grabs his belongings and leaves one last message. “Should you change your mind, you may message me. I have a three-strike rule for these scenarios, I will be keeping the full payment today and you will still need to pay a deposit and the hourly rate should you desire re-hiring. You are gorgeous girl. Have a good day Yasmin” Lexx walks for the exit. Just as he pushes the door handle down, he feels the ground echo, and a hand on his left shoulder pulling him back. Lexx is pushed against the wall “Don’t go please! Just take me right now and fuck me like I need!” Yasmins eyes glitter with the desire for Lexx to have his way. He can see her innocence; her soul is screaming for him! Lexx puts his hands to her oblong face and lights the fire of passion with his lips! Lexx stays and fulfills Yasmin’s luscious desire for good, high quality male attention.   *Audio sounds (Thrusts. Claps. M/F moans).   Thank you for reading, L. Soule.

LOVING this weather can't wait for summer I usually try and get as much sunshine as possible which is not often in Melbourne 😅 getting out and enjoying life that's what it's all about, time is precious gotta have fun don't take life too serious and be with people that make you happy and vise versa 😘😜 Sofia Vuitton

Before reading this blog take into account that the information contained within this literature is of a general & nuisance nature, and has been compiled through my own experiences sexually, psychologically, spiritually, and studies of human nature. Currently I am not a dominant, and I am not a submissive, I am not even a switch. I am currently just a bachelor who understands the fundamental basics of this dynamic and believe that the knowledge I have can educate people on the benefits of this lifestyle and relationship. As a heterosexual man I will at times use references of a heterosexual relationship, however the dominant & submissive relationship can be applied to all sexualities as it is a representation of leader & follower. Masculine & feminine. This is an educational blog that has been tailored predominately for singles & people in monogamous relationships or aspiring to be in monogamous relationships. That being said if you have the emotional intelligence and believe you could transcribe this knowledge into a polyamorous relationship the principles outlined in this blog may still apply to your relationship desires. I will be discussing the difference between being a leader, a dominate man, and being a legitimate dominant with a submissive; how the dominant & submissive relationship dynamic brings order, direction, more freedom, and promotes development within each other; and how the dynamic can still be applied to a family household. I do believe that a HEALTHY dominant, submissive dynamic can bring about the change people want within their relationships and lives. More fulfillment, more order, more direction, better communication, better sex, better connection, a better understanding of eachother, a lower rate of divorce, and a better education and knowledge of what sex really is.   The dominant and submissive dynamic basis itself around the traditional relationship system that one person leads and one person follows. Though unlike traditional relationship roles where the man is the leader and bread winner, and the female follows suit; within a dominant & submissive dynamic both males & females can play the role as the dominant and the submissive. Female dominants are referred to as ‘domme’s’; males referred to as doms; submissives are just subs. With the popular narrative of equality that is pushed in today’s society, you may be wondering how and why anyone would want to submit to another person in a relationship sense. Why would anyone want to have another person direct them through different areas of life. Why would anyone want another person to order them around and tell them what to do. We have bosses, governments, and powerful people already telling us how to live our lives; why would someone want an individual that is close to them to do this as well. This all sounds like narcissistic behaviour to manipulate and control other people into our own perverted pleasures. So why was 50 Shades of Grey so popular? Did you pleasure yourself to the thought of Mr. Grey being that crazy about you? I know there is a hot debate about this book, but we are not going into that right now. Because when you have a HEALTHY, consensual, openly communicated, boundaries set dominant submissive relationship; you open yourself up to the best sex you & your partner(s) have ever had, you understand your responsibility within the relationship, and will grow into more mature, sexually conscious adults.   Just like previously mentioned in the blog ‘Questionable Kinks: The Sadist & The Masochist’. A healthy, consensual dominant submissive relationship requires boundaries and limits within the relationship. A good dominant is a leader, a good submissive is a respectful follower – respectful of themselves and their leader. As a submissive if you do not respect yourself, you open doors to being used, abused and having no boundaries to enforce; leading to hurt mentally, spiritually, physically, and sexually. Should you as a submissive not respect yourself then you will most likely attract a dominant who will not respect you and your boundaries. Throughout this blog you will see that on some levels the submissive holds the power. A submissive can say no, and a submissive has boundaries, if you as the dominant want your submissive to trust you to do the dirty, perverted things you like within the bedroom then you must listen to those boundaries. As a dominant you have a responsibility for your submissive, RESPONSIBILITY! Depending on your relationship and how much power you have agreed to exchange is how responsible you are. This could range from setting chores; sexual services; setting study schedules, side hustle schedules, enforcing your submissive to attend their hobbies, paying for said hobbies. Compared to most western world relationships, when you assume the role as a dominant you have more pressure to follow through on your words because this is what demonstrates your level of competency and leadership, and establishes the trust you and your sub need to explore the realms of sex. If you said you’re going to do something you will be expected to do it. If you said you were going to fuck, have sex, or make slow passionate love in a certain way or at a certain time then make it happen. If you said that you are going to take your submissive out for breakfast do not spend the previous night out partying if you know you will be mentally & physically unavailable. If a relationship, and or marriage is about responsibility and commitment to each other then why are there so many unhappy, unfulfilled, sexless, bored, lifeless couples. And why are the divorce rates so high. Because no one has a clue what their responsibilities are, and no one is having the dirty kink sex that they fantasise about. When you enter a dominant submissive relationship responsibilities must be talked about, boundaries must be talked about, safe words must be established. If there are no boundaries, if there are no on-going conversations, if there are no discussions of responsibilities then there a few red flags being raised. So far would you agree that the core basics of a dominant submissive relationship should be apart of a standard equal relationship? Open, honest communication; consent; boundaries.   Before we talk about a what separates a dominant & submissive relationship, Let’s look at a few different types of submissives and dominants.   Dominants Hard Dom – Hard doms are going to be quite domineering and strict with enforcing order within the relationship. They may be more strict, more ‘mean’, be more firm, inflict more harsh punishments compared to your entry level dom, or daddy/ mommy dom. Do not let the word ‘hard’ frighten you, some submissives need and desire someone being firm with them. These types of doms can be great people to follow if they have respect for others and themselves, and the submissive embraces the dynamic correctly and respectfully.   Daddy/ mommy Dom – Usually a softer kind of Dom, they are a little more nurturing, they will play at the little prince or princess inside of us – maybe wash the hair of their sub while bathing, taking the sub out for ice cream as a reward, buying gifts that remind the sub of their younger self - like a plush toy or collectables. I intend to discuss this style of Doming & relationship dynamic in greater depth in the ‘Questionable Kinks: DDLG & MDLG’ blog. From my own experiences and beliefs this style of doming & submitting works on a deep-rooted psychological level. However there are a few issues surrounding this kink that need to also be brought to attention. We are adults and need to grow up!   Financial Dom or Fin Dom – Quite self-explanatory, the power exchange of ones financials. THIS IS MOST DEFINITELY NOT FOR EVERYBODY! I do not believe being a financial Dom is just about being a sugar mummy or sugar daddy, if the sugar top is just giving their bottom money to do whatever they want, the top is not exactly taking responsibility for the welfare of their bottom. Thus not doming. To me if you want to financially dom/ domme someone you must be overlooking your subs financials, enforcing good spending/ savings habits, teaching money techniques, rewards & punishments around the use of money.   A Master or Mistress – Fuck me! if you are not either retired, or financially, mentally, and/ or time abundant do not call yourself a full-time Master/ Mistress. If you are not prepared to think 2, 3, 4, 5 steps ahead for your submissive slave then do not claim to be, and do not attempt being a master. Full-time Masters are people who literally control every aspect of their submissives life. Full-time Masters choose what their submissives eat, when they eat, when sex happens, what type of sex happens, how they dress in & out of the bedroom and much, much more. If you read that and think “fuck me, why would anyone do that.” There are boundaries and open communication that must be established before engaging in this relationship dynamic. E.g. You as the slave may still have an occupation that you are not willing to jeopardise and that you enjoy, so obviously you would have to let your master/ mistress know they can not jeopardise such thing. Maybe you do not want to relinquish control over your financials and do not exchange the power of such. Remember in the world of consensual kink this is fun and all people involved must be on the same page otherwise there are complications and the possibility of trauma. Usually, master slave relationships are only temporary because of life commitments. You must be really switched on and focused to be a master. In the right environment and with the right person, submitting to a Master would be extremely fun, just as being the master would be equally as fun. But both would be equally tiring. Do you think you could coordinate your own life while controlling every detail of someone else’s? If you are new to the world of kink and being a dominant & submissive do not enter a master slave dynamic, it requires psychological intelligence, emotional intelligence, a strong understanding of human nature and sex. People can and will get hurt very badly if this dynamic is executed poorly, even more so than a ‘standard’ dom sub relationship. Should the master/ slave dynamic appeal to you, experiment with your partner for a day. Discuss your boundaries and have some fun.   The Submissives The Brat – They will test you, they will push your limits, they want to be tamed and they want to see how good of a dominant and leader you are. Will you put up with their misbehaving, how much trouble will they get away with before you punish them. These types of submissives are not for every dominant, some dominants like the challenge of taming a brat, making them a loyal servant; others find them annoying. From my readings, apparently brats can either become some of the most loyal submissives, or they leave once they become bored and tamed. If you are in a long-term relationship/ or marriage and you have a brat, they may never even think of leaving you, but you will have to endure their cheeky games. These games do not always mean flirting with someone else to get your attention, it might be as simple as knowing what your favourite underwear is and wearing it around the house while enforcing the safe word of red all day. The brat is testing your patience and you as leader must demonstrate that you are the leader who is in control, they said red, red means stop everything do not pass go, do not collect $200. If your submissive is wearing your favourite lingerie set, has done her hair just how you like it, is wearing your favourite scent of hers but says do not touch, how are you going to handle that. What will you do? All you want to do is take her right there, bend her over the kitchen table and drill your meat into her succulent life-giving hole, and she is putting a boundary up. How are you going to make her remove that boundary and beg for you to put your meat stick inside of her. Maybe you reverse the power of seduction and have her begging, “Please. Please. Please” but now you do not feel like her anymore, so you tease, seduce, and deny her for a couple hours. Imagine the kind of sex you would have if you both playfully danced with your boundaries respectfully for eight hours. On the first minute of that eighth hour you can almost guarantee that the submissive will be biting the pillow. The scenario above is just a basic example of how a bratting act can turn into something passionate & sexy. Other forms of bratting may be ignoring the chores for as long as possible to see what you will do or doing the chores but doing them half arsed and wrong deliberately; nagging; annoying you just to get your attention; disobeying your instructions. Some people find brats a lot of fun, others find them a pain in the arse. But I think to have fun in this life we all need to develop a little bit of playful cheek every now and then.   The Perfect Submissive – Oh what a submissive to have! Smart, capable, and ready to serve their dominant at any moment. They will follow the directions of their dominant without hesitation, they will do everything they can to please and provide for their dominant, and they are accountable for their own responsibilities. Every submissive has the capability to be a perfect submissive, but before anyone becomes the perfect submissive they must know that the dominate leading the way has their best interest at heart; would never betray them; would do anything to ensure the safety, wellbeing, and happiness of the submissive. They sit when instructed, they move when told, they are proud submissives, and they do whatever is necessary to keep their dominant happy because they know it will be returned tenfold. With the right dominant, this pair would be a house on fire with a bucket of gasoline being carried by helicopters to ‘extinguish’ the flame.   The Sadist Submissive – The dynamic behind a sadist submissive is a little complex for most nuisance kinksters to wrap their heads around, because they would inherently require a masochist dominant, and when you read sadist sub; masochist dom, you may find yourself in a little bit of confusion. I did at first. Without too much deep knowledge on this exact dynamic – sadist sub & masochist dom; I believe that the rolls would ultimately reverse during ‘play’. If you are experienced within this area, please educate me and all others reading by leaving a comment below.   The slave submissive – The name says it all; these submissives enjoy having everything dictated for them, relinquishing control and serving their master/ mistress to the fullest extent.   You can be a dominate man, and not a dominate. Kinky sex. Dirty sex. Raw honest, deep wild desired sex. What distinguishes a traditionally dominant man, and being a dominant with a submissive is the responsibility behind caring for the submissive. The use of rewards and punishments to encourage your submissive, and the emphases on sex. Kinky, hot, wild, untamed, perverted sex. Additionally, like stated at the beginning of this blog, a dominant can be man or woman with a man or woman submissive. You could be the man of the house. A good man who provides, you lead and run the household, you know how to have good sex, you’re protective etc. But if you were to tell your wife to “Come here right now and suck my cock” would she? Or better yet under the circumstances would she have too…..*Respectfully of course. IYKYK. If your submissive has an incredible month and completes all the tasks that you have set: they go to all their hobbies; done their household chores; they have aroused, teased and pleasured you every night because of how hard you work; have you planned a reward for their good work? Did you tell them at the beginning of the month “If you hit all of your targets this month then you will receive a reward, if you slack off and succeed less then fifty percent then you will be punished”. You can get creative, kinky, dirty, and mean. But remember taking things slow in the beginning is the best policy. Do you see that slight difference in the dynamic and how the brain of both people would operate differently. You’re consciously working towards targets and goals because you know that there are rewards and punishments for both the dominant and submissive if you both succeed or fail. The kinky sex is also a huge element in this dynamic, you might be able to fuck your partner really well; but if you’re partner opened up to you, could you put their head down the toilet while you fuck their arse; would you be capable of a gangbang if all were interested; how would you feel making a submissive vomit on your cock? How would you feel gagging on a cock to the point of vomit? look there are some really messed up kinks that people have, but kinky sex is thought about more than you think and can be a lot of fun! The kinky sex is probably the biggest part of what separates a household leader/ follower & a Dom, Sub relationship. Now as a dominant you have the responsibility to make sure your submissive comes back to earth and understands that what you did was consensual adult fun. If you have just dunked your subs head in the toilet, plugged her arse hole with a butt plug, and pounded her while calling her horrible names; they need to know that it is all just part of the perverted kinks you share. As a submissive check in with your dominant as well, because while it is their responsibility to lead, they may have just broken a comfort zone and tried something completely new, they need to know that you do not judge them, that they are not a bad person and so forth. Eventually you will both understand each other and the check ins proceeding the days of the session may be as simple as, “Hey baby, are you feeling okay after our session the other night?” and replying appropriately. Should you try something new and hate it, communicate with your partner and think about why and what triggers made you not like it, it will help both you and your partner have a better understanding of yourselves. But again, take it slow, really slow. Staying with the example above, if you have never been extremely kinky before maybe don’t start with the toilet bowl. One stigma that must be cleared is that all dominant & submissives have BDSM, kinky styled sex 100% of the time. That is simply not true! Vanilla sex and sensual sex are also thoroughly enjoyed by dominant & submissive couples. You’ll probably find that you enjoy those sessions even more then previously because there will be habits that follow – like after care cuddles or discovering what your partner loves. You may have never known that your partner loves when you are on top in missionary nibbling their ear, but now that you communicate about your pleasures, you know what toppings your partner likes with their vanilla ice cream.   I believe there are 3 main things that separate a good relationship, and a HEALTHY dominant & submissive relationship. The power exchange, the use of rewards & punishments, and the wild kinky sex that you explore. And when executed well I believe those things create stronger, more fulfilling, more passionate relationships.   Rewards & Punishments The use of rewards & punishments are to encourage certain behaviours, tasks to be completed, and sexual services to happen e.g. having your submissive man eat your pussy for five minutes every morning before leaving the bed may garner the reward of unlimited blow jobs for a day at the end of the month. Rewards and punishments need to be thought out and given appropriately. The rewards and punishments need to match the action. If you have asked your submissive to make their bed every day and they do it, do not go buy a $10,000 Chanel bag for them, give them a three-hour massage, or eat their pussy/ suck their dick for an hour. Conversely do not punish your submissive irresponsibly or out of emotion. If your submissive has worked overtime all month, has had external family commitments, and were genuinely sick for five days of the month and so was unable to complete a select few tasks then do not punish them for ‘not completing all the tasks’. You may have to analyse the tasks and the circumstances and show your submissive how they could have and should have used their time better, educating them on which tasks they should have prioritised. Make a deal/ compromise, or even let them off the hook because you have a clear understanding and emotional intelligence for the situation. You can learn a lot about your partner through the use of rewards and punishments. Do they respond better to the highlight of a reward, or the fear of punishment? What is their love language? Do they like delayed gratification for a bigger reward, or smaller more frequent rewards? Does your punishments act as an incentive for bad behaviour or will they do exactly as they are told? You may have masochist submissive so there will be some forms of physical and mental pain that they enjoy, how long until you realise which punishment is real punishment? Cheeky submissives will not let you off the hook. If you’re partners love language is quality time and you just keep buying them materialistic things, your rewards will start to bore and not feel like a reward. You keep buying them all these nice things but they were the best submissive they could be in order to receive eight hours of your quality time. We all live busy lives, that eight hours may have to be spread over a week; you may travel for work so that eight hours may have to be video calls. Communicate, negotiate and work it out. If your submissive is impatient, giving very small gifts as stepping rewards may keep them engaged in their tasks and goals long enough to complete them and receive the big reward they want. As a submissive you will start to learn your dominates behaviour, and when you may need to reciprocate some love and rewards. Let’s say your dom is under the pump in life, you’re both on target and all is well but you can just see they need a little boost, you may need to work out how you can relieve that stress. It may be as simple as a blowjob or cunnilingus, or keeping all additional stress and distractions out of their mind, or evening going as far as booking something like their weekly sauna for them. You want to keep your dominate at peak condition so that they can provide for you.     Here are examples of rewards: -       A massage -       Sexual pleasure -       Body worship -       A kink they have wanted to do, or really enjoy. E.g. paying an escort for a threeway. -       Oral pleasure for an extended time -       Whatever sex they want -       An additional date that month -       One day of pampering -       One day of quality time -       Paying for their nails -       Paying for their haircut -       Writing a poem -       Giving them a day completely to their own devices -       Taking them to the movies -       Taking them to their favourite restaurant -       Taking them on a holiday -       Buying the shoes they have wanted for a couple months   Here are examples of punishments: -       Giving a blowjob or cunnilingus -       Making them attend your extended weekly family event. -       Writing lines -       A spanking or whipping -       Ice bath -       Being a slave -       Cock and ball torture -       Clitoral edging and denying an orgasm for a day -       No sex for a day or week. While you tease dress seductively. -       Made to wear latex or cross dress down to the supermarket -       Time out’s -       Being put in a cage -       Receiving a golden shower   This is where communication is vital. At the beginning of the relationship if you as the submissive agree that ice baths or cold showers are an acceptable punishment for being lazy and a few other things. And you only complete 25% of your weekly tasks due to being lazy, and your dom tells you to get in the tub or to only have cold showers for the following week you are too do as you’re told! Otherwise it defeats the whole purpose. Sure you might put up a little bit of a fight, “But this”, “But that”, “I don’t want to” which your dom must handle appropriately; but ultimately if you have consented to the punishment and you are just saying you don’t want to do the punishment because you don’t feel like it, you are going to create more conflict then necessary. Bring some adult intelligence to the situation and understand you were lazy and your dom is punishing you for that. As the dominant if your submissive complains and gives you 101 bullshit excuses as to why they were lazy: There was a new season of their favourite show on Netflix; Their friend called them everyday and gossiped for 2 hours every time; They were ‘sick’; They were looking for the missing cat that has been missing in the suburb for the last 5 months; then you have a responsibility to call them out on this bullshit and enforce the order and punishment. Otherwise they will not see you as a leader and the slippery slope slowly begins to snowball.   Maybe you’re trying to clean up the filthy shit, piss, fuck, cunt, arsehole type of course language that is coming out of your submissives mouth. You might agree that when your submissive gets to ten strikes that they must gag on your cock for a five-minute blowjob. Maybe it’s time for a swirly while you plug their arsehole. This is where communication and consent must be emphasised again. Continually talking about what your hard limits are, what your boundaries are, what you consent too and what you don’t. Both of you need to understand the difference between I really don’t like that punishment – because it sucks. And if you do that this the relationship will start to dissipate. For example you as a submissive may say that if you are ever cucked the relationship is over, where another person may hate a cucking just enough that it is a great form of punishment. As a dominate if your submissive hates pain, and really hates pain, and has said that whipping or spanking is a hard no then obviously you do not use physical pain as the punishment, maybe they love watching Netflix though and so putting a ban on Netflix may be the perfect consequence for bad behaviour. You may need to change the password to prevent some sneaky indulgence.   As a dominant if your submissive does all that they have been asked, earning their reward, you best have the rewards. Otherwise they will become pissed off and lose trust in your word. We all drop the ball at times, life will sweep us away, we may forget a thing here or there, just don’t make it a habit. And so if your submissive turns to you and says, “You’re being a piece of shit! I’ve done all that you asked, I’ve been good, I’ve put in my work, now keep your end of the bargain” you best internalise all their words and rectify the situation. You said you would take them out on an amazing dinner last week, bring them home for the best tantric sex of their life and you forget the dinner and tantric sex; but have had normal sex and been out with friends for a couple drinks, your submissive has every right to be pissed off at you.   And lastly, if you are in a long-term relationship you will still need to have a date night or do activities that are not viewed as rewards, and are just time spent with each other. This is how you build a bond and grow together. Start small, start slow, communicate honestly and with intent to grow, improve and learn, and this rewards punishment system of a dominant submissive relationship can and will fulfill all involved.     Most modern-day relationships vs dom/ sub dynamic From my own experiences there are plenty of examples where there is no leader and no one taking charge in the relationship or family. No clear rules, no clear roles and responsibilities, no growth, no learning about the other person, no leading, no directions. Just plain fuckery that makes me feel generally empathetic for a lot of couples today. I see both woman and men being let down by their counterpart. The diversity that we have today is incredible. Women can earn more than there man and still have a good relationship. Gay people are legally allowed to marry. And at least here in the west you can usually marry and date someone of a different ethnicity without being judged too critically. But if no one takes responsibility; no one leads; there are no on-going discussions about the future or your boundaries; and no on-going discussions about the relationship; and no real date nights, the relationship will crumble. Relationships are work! Relationships are responsibility! Relationships are meant to bring joy not absorb every last morsal of energy you have left! Will it always be sunshine and rainbows, no! Will you want your partner next to you of every waking moment, probably not! Do you need your own hobbies and alone time, 100%. A lot of modern day relationships & marriage are boring; void of roles & responsibilities; low in real love; and are just a societal passage that says “You’ve made it!”. You’ve made it to the most boring, sexless, intimacy deprived 40+ years of your life, WELL DONE! I don’t know about you but a dinner date where you both sit on your phones scrolling through Instagram, Facebook, your emails, TikTok waiting for your food does not sound like a date. Sex where you ask for it every time sounds like crap. Sharing an intimate space for as little as five minutes after a good round of sex should be a bare minimum – yes of course there is exceptions, and I should not have to explain them. But unfortunately, this is the truth for so many couples and is why the divorce rates in the west are at an all time high, and why escorts will continue to have work. When you enter into a good, healthy dominant submissive relationship all of that bullshit kind of has to go out the door. Because in order to have rewards & punishments; in order to have the kinkiest, dirtiest, perverted sex of your life; in order to exchange power; you need to start communicating more; you need to voice your frustrations and what you enjoy; you need to be seducing; you need to be adding some form of excitement; someone needs to lead; you need to respect each other. If you have a family or are in a long term/ life arrangement then you need to be planning, talking, and organising your futures – basic things that should be practiced in standard relationships. Being in a long-term relationship should mean that you are either in love or have some level of love for each other, meaning that both of you will want more than just perverted, kinky, sex. She may love being your dirty cock slut, but would probably love some cuddles and a movie once in a while. He may love the opportunity to have sex with you twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week; but would probably love you just giving him a random neck massage. It’s a responsibility thing; you’re consciously thinking about how you can make your partner better, and how you can be a better partner so that you can have the sex you both desire, and receive the rewards that you worked for.   Does this example sound familiar to you? Women: “What would you like for dinner?” Man: “I don’t know, what do you want” W: “I’m asking you” M: “I’m asking you” W: “I’m asking you” M: “I don’t care whatever” For five minutes. Like fuck sake, if you have the masculine role in a standard household and you can’t choose what to eat, you are going to annoy the living shit out of the feminine. It is okay to say “I don’t care, just order whatever you want” or, “Just order whatever you think I want” but for the life of your relationship and the world, do not whine like a little bitch when food is put in front of you and ‘it is not what you wanted’, you said “order whatever”, and you received whatever say thank you and shut the fuck up. If you cannot make choices around what you are going to eat then how can you be expected to make a decision. Choices are small, decisions impact your life.   Here are two healthy and simple examples of how ordering dinner should be done.   Sub: “What do you want for dinner?” Dom: thinks for 30 seconds because he is allowed to think. “Indian. Coconut rice, naan bread, and butter chicken please” Sub: “I don’t feel like Indian” Dom: “You asked me what I want for dinner and that is what I want. Please make my order, and if you do not make a choice for yourself I will do it for you” Sub: Orders the Indian and then also has Indian because Indian is delicious and she can’t be bothered wasting time on the thought of food.     Example 2: Sub: “What would you like for dinner” Dom: “I don’t care order me whatever” Sub: Orders vegan lasagna and poke bowls Food is delivered to the Dom Dom: “Cheers baby girls, this looks delicious”  Again I would like to point out that this sort of communication should be the norm in a house hold but unfortunately is not. Should you as the submissive already know what you intend to order and eat say something like “I’m ordering xyz, what would you like?”   Monogamy is not dead This will be a short paragraph. Monogamy is not dead. Evan in a dominant, submissive dynamic. If both of you enjoy threesomes, but either pay for an escort or only let people into the bedroom for special occasions and rewards; but do not share any level of deep romantic intimacy with the third, are you monogamous, I think yes. It’s just your kink. If you both like gangbangs and reverse gangbangs and have one a few times a year, are you still monogamous if all contact to patrons stays within the bedroom only? I think yes. It’s just your kink. If anyone exterior to your monogamous relationship tries to breach and disrupt the relationship it is the responsibility of the partners to talk about it and act accordingly. Within a dominant submissive dynamic the dominant obviously assumes leadership and handles the problem appropriately. Should either partner breach this boundary then it is obviously cheating. Obviously any form of swinging is polyamorous. Though if you and your partner travel to a swinging hotel/ club a few times a year for some negotiated fun then I could reason with you that you are monogamous providing all fun and contact stays at the hotel and neither of you see anyone outside of your kinky holiday. But if sexting, wife & husband swaps, private meet ups with people outside your marriage/ intimate bond are a part of your relationship than you are polyamorous.   I am not judging polyamory, swingers or people in open relationships. Just giving my insight into the hot debate that monogamy is dead, when it is not. People just need to have the conversations, sexual education, respect, self-awareness, and discipline.       Okay this all sounds hot, fun, kinky, wild, interesting. But I/ we have kids? Great point! Because depending on their age bracket, your children should not think that shoving someone’s head down a toilet is generally a good thing to do, or that calling someone a whore is acceptable, or letting mum punch dad across the jaw is okay. How do you explain why dad didn’t have a black eye yesterday but woke up with a golf ball sized bruise this morning….. Parents have a very important role when it comes to teaching their children about sex, what sex is, and what it can be, and unfortunately in the western world not every parent has the knowledge, tools and skills to teach & talk to their children about what sex is and can be. So the idea of bringing this lifestyle into the house could be daunting and taboo. But you’re an adult and deserve to still experience life as an adult. This entire paragraph is 100% vicarious because I do not have children of my own yet, though I look forward to that challenge one day because I know that both my wives and I will still want sex when we have kids. I understand that women have hormonal changes during and post pregnancy, their perspective changes; that just means I too would have to adjust. I might have to work smarter and harder, to free up time; I have to be more considerate to their bodies & emotions – maybe I just make out with them for two minutes with no intention of sex; I understand that after they give birth their pussies are going to be out of order for a little while, and that I will have to pleasure their mind & body in the number of other ways there is to pleasure a body. Maybe this is just me, maybe I am completely wrong, maybe I have no clue what I am talking about, time will tell. Something that I have continually conferred with different parents and pondered for myself is that fact that adults who are parents need the time & space to be adults. As a parent you live for your kids, you love your kids unconditionally, you put them above yourself, which can lead to the loss of self and your relationship. Obviously with the cost of a baby sitter rising, friends and family not wanting to help, and predators being the closest people to you; it can be hard to plan alone time, date nights, to have spontaneous kinky sex. I have an empathetic view point, and look forward to those challenges should that day arrive. If you are a couple with kids and want to explore this nuisance world of being a dominant and submissive then this is where I believe you can strengthen your bond even more as a couple. Using the swearing example previously mentioned, maybe the ten strikes for swearing are not disciplined straight away, and you as the dom just give that look to your sub that says you are in trouble later, and before bed your sub is gaging on your cock for five minutes. There doesn’t always need to be sex that follows either, though there is a higher probability that it could, your sub might thoroughly enjoy the fact that you remembered to punish them and reward you by continuing the pleasure. If things are loud and there are curious ears that interrogate you in the morning then think of what an appropriate thing would be to say. You’re the parent not me, work out what you need to say to the age appropriate child. If you want to indulge in adult fun, then use the thing between your two ears and be an adult. Maybe the parrots take the conversation to school, again be a parent, be an adult and work it out. You are an adult, you deserve to be an adult that has fun, and you deserve to have to sex with the one(s) you love. If you can work out how to do everything else in your life, I’m sure you can work out how to integrate sex into your life. If your tribulation in life is working out how to have sex and navigate the raising of a sexually healthy child you’re doing alright. Find a good sexologist, find other parents that are also in a similar dynamic to you, do the research (a great sexual psychologist that I will link below is Esther Perel, her book mating in captivity is a phenomenal place to start for information on this paragraphs subject – the hardship of connection, intimacy and mating as you progress through different stages of a relationship). Obviously if you are a single parent you have a few tribulations to face, and there are lot of variables account for with that scenario. If you have got yourself this far you can and will work out something for yourself.   My experience as a dominant & submissive Unfortunately the one and only experience that I have had with a dominant submissive relationship failed. I was the dominant. And it is because of this failure that I understand what is required within the dynamic, the importance of taking things slow, the importance of open and honest communication, the importance of adequate rewards & punishments, the need to have resources like time, money, and focus. Through this experience of a long-term relationship failing, and a dominant submissive relationship also failing I see no point in dating for short term gain. I would only enter a short-term relationship if it was a dominant submissive relationship, because it at least gives some form of direction and clarity. If I was in a dominant, submissive relationship with someone I would get off on seeing them grow and become better, such is the saying always return something how you found it or in better condition. To me the most basic, fundamental dominant & submissive relationship has core systems that make a great ‘standard’ relationship. Clarity, direction, order, understanding, open judgement free communication. As I have matured these elements of a relationship have appealed a lot more to me then hook up culture. Because at the time of writing this I am time short and not bringing in $250,000 a year, being a dominant is not on the table. And for me to submit to someone I would have to know that I could trust them as I have businesses to run, career aspirations, and would be quite picky with who gets to reward & punish me. Though maybe exploring the kink world/ community more next year is something I will look into, and maybe find myself a part time submissive.   Conclusion This dynamic, this lifestyle is not for everyone. Just as not everyone likes apples, not everyone eats steak, just as some people like soccer, and some people like basketball. And just because you have the label Dominant & Submissive does not mean you can not explore other areas of sexuality like tantra, or that you can’t enjoy some good quality missionary vanilla sex, like I previously stated you would probably learn to love vanilla sex on a deeper level, and ignite an extremely high level of passion during a tantra experience. When you have a HEALTHY dominant and submissive relationship you can have a beautiful, fulfilling life emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and physically. This blog has obviously been tailored to nuisance people of BDSM and kink. We live in a world today that is void of wanting responsibility; void of respect; void of genuine love; void of connection; void of communication. Adversely people are over having responsibility; over fake love; over fake connections filled with selfish intent; over boring, banal, sexless relationships. There is a snake eating itself in society and becoming sexual conscious and aware is one step closer to stopping this cannibalistic act. When you enter a dominant & submissive relationship you are forced to become sexually conscious. Being sexually conscious is understanding that sex is the reason you are alive and reading this blog and the reason I am alive writing this; being sexual conscious is understanding that sex is so much more than just a reproduction method, it is fun, it can bond people in a way that is indescribable, it can be used to heal, and it can be naughty and dirty; being sexually conscious is being aware of your own sexual desires and fantasies owning them, and deciding if you want to bring those fantasies into reality through a role play or arranged agreement; being sexually conscious can help you distinguish right from wrong; being sexually conscious is maturing and learning what adult fun is. Being sexually conscious is not exposing yourself to the world and expecting someone not to judge or stare at you. Being sexually conscious is not an agenda to push everyone to be the same. Being sexually conscious is not liberation to be free and do whatever you want with no repercussions. Being sexually conscious is not judging people because of who they are dating. Being sexually conscious is an adopted mindset. Being sexually conscious is being educated and not opinionated. Being sexually conscious is understanding that we as adults shape, mould and subconsciously educate the next generation on what it means to be an adult, what sex is and what is acceptable within sex. Being sexually conscious is the way forward.   And I believe being in a HEALTHY dominant submissive relationship forces you to educate yourself on sex, intimacy, pleasure, human nature, yourself & your partner(s).   I hope this blog has been insightful to any BDSM new comers. Should you be an experienced dominant or submissive who would like to leave their own experiences, notes, points of view, advise or links to further research please do so in the comments. If you would like to get in contact surrounding anything within this blog please email lexxsoule@gmail.com   Warm regards, L. Soule.   Further research Texas Dom - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz5Kwe6ZbuE Depraved ASMR - https://www.youtube.com/@DepravedASMR Esther Perel - https://www.youtube.com/@estherperel https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/ Read the book ‘Mating in captivity’  

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Before continuing I recommend visiting the website shop, and buying yourself the Erotic package Season 2, episode 5 (Isabella), https://www.lexxsoule.com/product-page/erotica-season-2-episode-5-isabella. For the price of a movie ticket you will receive a copy of this blog, a narrated MP3 file with special sound effects (more then just sex), a narrated MP4 file with some naughty visuals of myself, 2 posters, and 2 thank you screen savers (new screen savers every episode). “I am waiting in the lobby now” Lexx sends an SMS to his long-standing client Isabella who is eagerly waiting in the sexiest light-blue one-piece lingerie silhouette, in her one-bedroom, five-star hotel suite. Isabella puts on her long beige trench coat and skips down to her escort. The warmest greetings ignite the alluring, cordial, excitement - a perfect kiss on the cheek and a warm five second hug. Once inside the privacy of their sexual palace Isabella removes the trench coat that hides her seductive piece of art - her luscious body covered by lascivious fabric. Lexx is in awe as he turns to witness the goddess before him; a bodacious smile goes from cheek to cheek, “Wow, you look incredible in this piece Isabella! You have never worn light blue for me before”, Lexx compliments as he places his bag on the floor and meets his client in the middle of the room. “I thought being our one-year client, escort anniversary you would like a small surprise. I’m glad you like it” Isabella confers, eager to undress her sexy man. Lexx wears a red, white, and dark navy-blue button-down shirt, covered by a black sports jacket; paired with silver chinos, and a dark brown belt to match the dark brown leather monk strap shoes – to say he looks lascivious is an understatement. Isabella slides her hands under the sports jacket to feel the athletic body; gliding the smart looking silhouette off Lexx’s shoulders and down his arms, throwing the jacket to the side. She then places Lexx’s hands on her hips as if he did not know what to do – obviously he does; a goddess seducing her god; their eyes traveling to the deepest parts of their enigmatic souls; their hands exploring the artistic sculptures that both possess. The sound of a nickel would echo through the room as the pair’s lips connect, igniting the start of the fire. After a couple minutes of exploration Lexx’s hands find themselves travelling down his client’s back side, reaching the rendezvous of her voluptuous thick cheeks; a good strong squeeze, followed by a ten second massage, leading to a few small smacks – small moans leave her voice box with every tap. Lexx lifts the sexy piece of art and takes her to the large sofa right behind him. Being a true gentleman, his lady will be pleasured first. Kneeling upright Lexx seductively unbuttons his handsome shirt while staring deep into the enigmatic soul of Isabellas beautiful dark brown eyes – Lexx’s favourite. The bulge in Lexx’s pants increases greatly as Isabella simultaneously massages the erogenous zone, she wants that big, hard cock in her right now; Lexx has other plans though. He grabs her wrist and removes it from his crouch, “Aaaaawwwww, but he likes it!” Isabella sulks, “Soon” Lexx orders. Keeping his eyes on hers he positions himself at the bottom of her hips, pleasuring the inner thighs right down to her wider, soft, cute feet; licking and making out with the silk bottoms and toes. Her vibrant, pink, small, open outer lipped pussy deserves the utmost attention next – she is always well behaved, she is fun, she is yum, a deliciously curved thirty-seven-year-old women. Lexx does not just eat her cookie, he devours it slowly, enjoying every morsal of liquid that lubricates the hole, treating the cookie as if it were the very best cookie in the entire world! *Audio sounds (Oral. Fingering).   And when Isabella does not smoke, drink alcohol, eat poorly, and takes on the advice given from Lexx: consume pineapple, cinnamon, be well hydrated, and enjoy lots of fruit in the days leading up to their times together; she does supply Lexx with one of the best tasting cookies – conferring an irresistible pussy. Lexx kisses, sucks, pashes, and fingers his client into a wonderful orgasm.   *Audio sounds (Oral & fingering building up to an orgasm)   The blowjob that Lexx receives is just a pleasurable, beginning with something sensual and slow, progressing into something dirty, slippery, and wet.   *Audio sounds (Sensual blowjob building into something slippery, dirty, and wet). *Silence. *Audio sounds (Thrusts. Claps. M/F moans).   Isabella still wearing her sexy new silhouette has been bent over the back of the couch and has Lexx penetrating her in the best way possible; one hand on her nape, one hand on her hips, banging her silky, warm, gooey apple pie. Isabella just let’s herself go, falling limp as Lexx drills his seven inches by six inches deep into Isabella’s desert. “Please don’t stop Lexx, your cock feels incredible. You fill me so well. Please don’t stop, please don’t stop, please don’t stop” are the moans leaving Isabella’s voice box. “You like the way that cock fills your pretty soft hole. You like being filled with a thick meat stick. God you’re so damn sexy Bella!” The pair exchange in dirty remarks while copulating each other ardently, Bella aiding with the sexual pleasure by pushing her ass into Lexx as he thrusts forward, a world of ultimate fantasy. Good dick meeting soft velvet; moans created with empty lungs; and sexual passion igniting the entire hotel floor. Lexx and Isabella copulate, fuck, and make passionate lust for four hours!   *Audio sounds (Thrusts. Claps. M/F moans).   Thank you for reading, L. Soule. 

Please be aware that the information contained within this blog is of a general nature based on my own personal research and experiences. These are psychological frameworks that can either provide a great deal of pleasure for all participants, and can also be psychological mindsets that bring a great deal of pain and trauma. Please be safe and cautious should you experiment within the physical realm. There are people who will provide you a safe, comfortable environment to explore and there are dangerous people on both sides that can bring a great deal of pain and trauma to your life. Should you need professional guidance, I recommend doing the due diligence required and finding a good sexologist; taking this paper as your reference point if necessary to explain where your interests started. This is an ADULT form of entertainment and fun. Always be safe, sane, and consensual. Should you be an educated, experienced and respectful individual within this field and believe anything within this blog to be misleading or false please reach out and educate me; I love learning and expanding my view. Both the sadist & the masochist receive a bad reputation by the public and general society today. The sadist is a hidden psychopath or sociopath just trying to find a way to hurt, abuse and harm other people; the masochist is just someone who is addicted to the feeling of pain because that is all they have ever experienced. To the general public and society they both need therapeutic help, medication and Jesus. And look yes, sometimes trauma can lead to, or stem from these tendencies of kink, however you will come to learn that some of the psychological ways of thinking behind these forms of fun have been engraved in human nature since we were bacteria, and that enduring pain can be therapeutic to some people. For those of you still laughing at my remark of Jesus, well there are some Christians who have embraced the kink lifestyle and it has kept their marriage & life in-tact. Just because you have consensual fun inflicting and receiving pain, does not mean you are a devil worshipper. Using his name off face value and the few videos I have watched of him, I would like to reference ‘Texas Dom’, an American who became a Dominant with his Submissive wife to apparently save their marriage. He talks about loving his wife and kids, accepting responsibility, attending church, and being a good strong man. And when kinky sex, war, chaos, painful initiations, leaders and followers have been around since the dawn of time you will see that these ways of thinking have always been a part of human nature. Both the ‘good’ & ‘bad’.   The Sadist The sadist – A person who gets pleasure, sometimes sexual, by being cruel to or hurting another person. (1)   When you read this you probably think of the most horrible person; maybe a psychopath, sociopath, someone evil, someone who treats everyone like dirt. And while psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists, and down right bad people do fall into the category of a sadist there are a lot of kind, empathetic, good hearted, nurturing people who enjoy inflicting pain on willing masochists who consent to the fun.   As I have matured mentally and spiritually I have learnt two things about human nature. We have a huge capacity to belong, to be apart of a community, to look after someone or something else – maybe a plant, an animal, another human etc; to act in a way that is relatively good. Provide, Protect, Preserve. Though on the opposite side of the coin is the desire to conquer, hold power, be important, and to self-indulge. Let’s say you believe in science and the fact that we have evolved over hundreds of thousands of years and started as a microorganism - a bacteria. We had to fight the other bacteria to continue surviving, then we evolved into a more primitive species of animal where just like chimpanzees we had to fight and kill other animals to survive and conquer. It was and is the animal kingdom, no different to a tiger killing a deer today. We have had violence engraved within our minds long before our great, great, great, great, great grandparents were a spec of sand in their parents mind. Thankfully and said respectfully, the evolution of a conscious society has meant this violent tendency has been removed or mitigated from the normalities of everyday life. We no longer have to hunt for a kangaroo, a deer, or a rabbit. We now have supermarkets and farms that allow us to safely buy this food and consume or provide for our homes. The over consumption, and waste of these foods is something for another blog. While there is constantly war happening around the world, everyday ‘good’ people – of Australia at least; do not have to fight with a spear, bow & arrow, or gun just to keep their house or suburb from being invaded. The residences of Chermside are not plotting to invade and conquer the residence of Newstead. ‘Woke’ people will see invasions happening all around the world, spiritually, mentally, and physically. Fundamentally being an Australian resident means you have water, food, and a place to live. Yes I am aware that there are people who live in tents at the moment, there are people struggling without warm water to shower or filtered water to drink, and barely enough money to provide for their families. But that is political conversation for another day. Just stay with me please. Since we were a micro-organism, we have had to fight to either defend or conquer, and while I do believe we live in a time now where as an entire planet we should be able to live together without trying to conquer someone else’s land, there are some people that just won’t get the message. Which goes down a whole other rabbit whole, and we are not about to dig a discursive burrow. The point that you need to be aware of about sadism from a scientific and psychological point of view is that we have been violent creatures for a very long time. So the enjoyment that derives itself from seeing someone else in pain or fear is just as inherent as the enjoyment that we receive when we care, love and nurture someone or something we care about.     Now let’s look at a religious point of view. The Christian New International Version (3) John 3:36 (NIV) "Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them."   Nahum 1:2 (NIV) "The Lord is a jealous and avenging God; the Lord takes vengeance and is filled with wrath. The Lord takes vengeance on his foes and vents his wrath against his enemies."   Hebrews 10:31 (NIV) "It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God."   Matthew 10:28 (NIV) "Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell."   Now this is just from Christian Bible. I know from brief studies, that the Buddhist belief system preaches peace and non-violent actions, though acknowledges that in certain situations wrath must be taken into your own hands. The Quran is also filled with strong actions of violence towards those who are to be punished. From heaven, earth, to hell, violent acts are talked about in all religions. If God created humans in the image of himself, and God has wrath, then humans too would inherently attribute wrath. “So we can go around destroying everything, killing innocent people who don’t believe in our beliefs, go take over our neighbours to conquer our street?” hahaha NO!   When you understand that both science and religion prove the mere fact that we have the capabilities of violent actions, it is much easier to see how some people find pleasure in CONSENSUAL sadism. In a consensual scenario a masochist communicates with a sadist and they both talk about boundaries, what they enjoy, what they set as a hard limit. For example, one Sadist might really enjoy flogging the ass cheeks of a masochist with a leather whip, but hates bodily fluid and would never be able to give someone a golden shower or use fake blood to enact a fear based scene. The Sadist may enjoy domineering the submissive masochist by using them as a footstall, ordering them to make them food and drink, or ordering them to suck their penis/ eat their pussy on command. But may never want to fist the willing masochists arsehole. Some masochists will tell you to cleanly put a closed fist across their jaw; you as a sadist may not feel comfortable doing that so you will not do it. There are some things some sadists are willing to do, and things that some sadist are not willing to do. Some sadists just like the psychological control, some like inflicting physical pain. There are different types of sadistic & masochistic pleasure. Experienced sadists who have fun within the consensual realm can be some of the nicest people you ever meet.   I would like to acknowledge that before you do experiment with these extreme acts of adult fun to do a little bit of research in how to have fun safely, even something as simple as choking can be done very poorly; pulling someone’s hair can feel incredible or it can feel like torture. Communication is key and if the person you are experimenting with is not respecting your boundaries get out of the situation! Because otherwise one, both or all involved could end up hurt mentally, spiritually, and/ or physically. Using safe words is the best way of communicating your comfort level; a very simple red, yellow, green system is the easiest way. Red means stop everything immediately; yellow means slow things down or turn the intensity down; green means resume. Obviously as you become more experienced or develop some form of relationship with your partner(s), you might come up with different safe words. I have different safe words in my personal life to my professional life, for work I will always use red, yellow, green. Another thing I would like to put forth to any sadist having fun with masochists is the simple act of applauding your masochist when they say red or yellow. There are masochists who like to push their limits and do not want to let the sadist see them as meek, and so by giving them a simple “Well done”, “Good job”, “You did well”, “Good girl”, “Good boy” etc, when they use the safe words, gives the masochist the safety to know you (the sadist/ top) accepts their limit. Conversely as the sadist, when they hear the masochist express their limit the sadist can trust that masochist will communicate their limits without putting themselves in danger. Because the truth is, in the world of ADULT fun, consensual sadists and masochists enjoy the experience a great deal and do not want any real harm to come to the other person.     The Masochist The masochist – A person who derives sexual pleasure from being hurt or controlled by another person. (2) “Pain is just a feeling to let you know you are still alive” – Hellraiser. As you may know the human body can take a beating and keep on going. People survive car accidents; concussions; broken arms heal; you could smoke cigarettes for five years, quit and then over the course of five to ten years the body will heal itself. Conversely you can also die in less than a second. When under extreme stress, or a life-threatening injury presents itself, your body floods with adrenaline. You will feel less pain, maybe have a second life, have more energy; it’s remarkable really. From my experiences and knowledge that’s what excites a masochist, you’re in a consensual space where you can push your pain, stress, and psychological threshold, while trusting that the person inflicting the pain will not push you over the edge. The pain does not have to be subject to the physical realm either. You could install fear into someone which will mentally stimulate the fight or flight response, you could degrade someone and make them feel powerless with your words – imagine a powerful individual who usually has everyone ‘fear’ them, they may enjoy someone making them feel inferior in the privacy of the bedroom. It’s a mental, physical, and spiritual experience to see just how much your body can endure, how much your mind can take, how strong you are mentally, physically, and spiritually. It is and can be form of meditation for some people. It feels empowering. It makes you feel strong.   Through out the centuries there have been initiations for boys to become men, painful initiations that have sometimes caused death. Think of the Papua New Guinea tribe that wear ant gloves, think about the Spartans, there is an African tribe that cut their skin repetitively so deep that they shower in their own blood – The Crocodile initiation (4). The scars look like that of a crocodile’s back. As a man, being a masochist could be appealing because through the times enduring some form of pain has been your transcendence into manhood. From a female perspective, you may enjoy relinquishing control to a stronger, more destructive body because you as the feminine inherently want to serve and please your superior. Let them have their way with you, let them do whatever they want, hungry to devour you. But you want it in a way that means there are roses, chocolates, and cuddles at the end from someone who actually cares about you. Childbirth is an extremely painful experience, women are not meek, and so female masochists may to enjoy seeing how much pain they can physically endure.   Historically there have always been leaders and followers, but I think that the term of being a leader or a follower would just play into the parent category of Dominant & Submissive. Because you could enjoy following and serving someone, but hate pain. And really has anybody ever loved pain, I would argue that it is the mental conditioning that makes people enjoy pain, or at least not fear pain. No sane everyday individual will say to another individual, “Would you please grab a whip and whip me until I’m crying and bleeding on the ground”. When soldiers are put through extreme training and beaten to a pulp do you think they just stand there and take the beating – if instructed to of course they will do the best they can to not move, but otherwise they will fight back so that their body gets away from the pain. If you put two signs in the middle of the busy area with one saying give a free punch, and one saying receive a free punch I personally believe you would have more people line up to give a free punch. Usually humans want to take for themselves and not give, but in this situation I think a lot of people would become the most generous givers the world has ever seen.   There is a lot of fun that can be had as a masochist, only if you are in the right environment with the right person.     Conclusion I personally identify as a switch. I like to be a top sadist, and I like to be a bottom masochist. Though my masochist kinks will stay in my private life and are not things I would let just anyone do. You may find it strange that I know I have a masochist side without an overtly large experience in being a masochist, but I’ve just done some things to know what I like and what I don’t and why I like what I like. I have experimented with my top side more and enjoy that dynamic. Two things that must be emphasised if you are going to be a top is learning the importance of your own boundaries and aftercare. You do not need to do everything, and you are allowed to decline certain acts should you not feel comfortable. Aftercare is about you and the other person. Whether that is cleaning your subordinate, showering with them, cuddling, body tickles and affection, bringing your masochist back to the safe space of reality and letting them know that they are now safe. Even in the days proceeding, check in to make sure they are okay mentally and physically. Take the time to bring yourself back to reality; meditate, watch a movie, stretch, hydrate, workout, eat some good food; do whatever you enjoy to bring you back to a level head. Should you be experienced within this realm you may not need a lot of time if any to bring yourself back to reality; you may just need a shower or bath by yourself to feel grounded. You understand yourself and the situation enough to know that it was all just fun. Now while I have openly disclosed the fact that sexually I identify as a switch for this kink I do not always recommend everyone else publicly do the same thing. People will judge you, they will make remarks, and yes some people will be curious and ask enthusiastic questions, but may also have a big mouth and share your new experimentation with the entire floor that you work on. This may sound obvious, but if you do extensive research and learn more about this world you may want to openly share it with your world, which is not always the best. I am a sex worker and so the conversation of kink is very easy and comfortable for me, people already judge me because I am an escort. While I am about bringing a positive change to the conversation of sex, it needs to be done in a smart way. People will tell you that you should just openly express your sexuality and your kinky desires, you’ll turn around and say, “I want 10 people to piss in my mouth while my hands are tied behind my back” and all of a sudden no one wants to be your friend anymore. Sometimes sex needs to be kept subdue and private. Hopefully this has been educational to any new comers or people who have never researched into kinks. Should this have installed curiosity, do extensive research, find out what you like and don’t like and have some fun. Enjoy the new world that is opened to you! Always remember to take things slow, moving to fast in the area of kink can do damage to everyone involved including yourself, always be clear with your communication, set boundaries, respect yourself and respect the person you are having fun with. Below is a link to a YouTube kink educator that started me on the journey. Very friendly normal looking dude, welcoming to all, and a great entry level to kink. https://www.youtube.com/@DepravedASMR   Should you want to find a community FetLife is a great place to find other kinksters, going to events is a great place to explore as well. Should you not like communities for any range of reasons, I do offer a selected range of kink services for your own private pleasure. From spiced vanilla to extreme. Just send me an email outlining what it is you desire, and I will let you know if I can bring that fantasy to life. Email: lexxsoule@gmail.com   Stay safe. Stay sane. Stay Consensual.   Thank you for reading, L. Soule.       References 1)   Sadist – A person who gets pleasure, sometimes sexual, by being cruel to or hurting another person. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/sadist 2)   A masochist – A person who derives sexual pleasure from being hurt or controlled by another person. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/masochist 3)   Now let’s look at a religious point of view. The Christian New International Version https://chatgpt.com/  “Please give me 10 verses from the Christian bible where the wrath of god is talked about. labeling each verse correctly” 4)   The Crocodile initiation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJDOh3VSoxQ

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