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Escorting 101- Dealing with drunks

October 29th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

If you’ve been in the adult entertainment industry for some time, the chances are high that you’ve come across a drunk client. If you are yet to, we hope you don’t because those people are hard to reason with. Drunk or intoxicated clients tend to be shouty, show-offs, nagging, and loud, which in most cases doesn’t work in favor of your business. Point to note, however, that drinking isn’t bad at all. Some escorts prefer serving their customers after a few shots. The question is, how much is too much, and if you’re ever a victim, how can you deal with that. The following are a few tips on how to deal with drunk clients. 1. Assess the client Assessing him simply means establishing whether he is too drunk or just a bit tipsy. We understand that most men prefer doing this while tipsy. It’s important to assess whether his judgment and thinking are impaired to know your best move. If you work independently, be sure to make it clear about your boundaries when it comes to working under the influence. If you work with an agency, make sure the management is aware that you’re dealing with a drunk. Interrogate him on whether he is aware of what he is doing, and from there, you’ll be able to judge the situation. That way, you’re in a better position to deal with the problem at hand. 2. Take it easy, and be soft and gentle. With gentle, we don’t mean that you let the drunk client do whatever he wants with you. Remember that drunks tend to respond better to people who approach them in a friendly manner rather than with an authoritative stand. Approach him with a non-aggressive stance, and that will be very beneficial as you try to keep things under control. 3. Think of an exit plan. Cases of clients holding escorts hostage in their man caves or hotel rooms aren’t a thing of the past. We’ve seen them, and we’ve heard them. In such a situation, you must think of the quickest way possible to get out there before things escalate. In most cases, escorts have secret codes to communicate with their agencies for such situations. If you work independently, Toowoomba escorts suggest having such a safe code with a friend or two so that they can come through for you. 4. Avoid being defensive and using weapons Remember, this person is a drunk which means his sense of reasoning is close to zero. They can also sense fear, and therefore they’ll know when you’re about to get defensive. Show them confidence and general concern about their wellbeing. The bottom line The best way of dealing with a drunk client is to avoid them when you smell a rat. Before you even engage them, make sure they are aware of your rules concerning intoxication. However, if you find yourself there, try getting him to do things that slow down the effects of the alcohol, such as drinking water.

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October 28th, 2021 by Queenie Fisher

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October 26th, 2021 by Discreet Gentlemen's Club

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Must try sex positions for a thrilling quickie

October 25th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

The most misunderstood thing I’ve heard about quickies is that they are fast and unsatisfying. It’s pretty sad that some people still don’t get the essence of those few minutes. I mean, isn’t that the reason they are called quickies? If you want to try having a quickie, we can only assure you that you’re going to have a fantastic experience. The first ingredient to a perfect and thrilling quickie is location and position. To get the best out of it, you need a perfect and dirty position that will hit her edges in the shortest time possible with the right intensity. For those times you’re in a rush and need to get it done, try any of these positions for the best experience. 1. Doggy style Doggy works perfectly, especially for those quickies in the parking lot. The position is naturally hot, sexy and does the job perfectly. With this style, the penetration from behind is immense, and at the same time, you get to enjoy the comfort of touching yourself with either a vibrator or hands. Trust us, with this style; a shattering orgasm is imminent. 2. Stand and deliver If you want to give her your best, this is the position to try. The name explains it all. The man stands and gives her his best. This style works perfectly for quickies in the bathroom, office, or kitchen. If he is strong enough, pinning her against the wall with her feet dangling in the air makes it even hotter. It’s a famous position, especially in erotic films, and makes sure you hit the crucial spots easily and fast. 3. Spread eagle Spread eagle is similar to stand and deliver. While the guy stands, the girl sits on the surface, spreads her legs, and props her ankles on the guy’s shoulders. The standing partner then hits it as the sitting partner uses her feet to set the rhythm. This position allows for deep and perfect stimulation which are ingredients to a perfect and quick orgasm. It is an ideal position where a hi-high perch such as a sink or countertop is involved. 4. Reverse cowgirl It is a common and much-underrated style that is easy to adopt. The guy simply lies down, and the girl rides. The girl can use the guy’s knees as support as she grinds her clitoris on him to make it kinky. Conclusion With any of the above styles, you’re on your way to your quickest and probably the best orgasms. As usual, Victoria escorts insist on gaining consent and practicing safe sex.

The best places to have your quickie

October 22nd, 2021 by Naughty Ads

Quickies are a perfect go-to option if you’re a couple looking for some sexual thrill and excitement. They are not only elating but also beneficial to the relationship. The best thing about quickies is that they don’t need any preparation, no nosy kids, and they come with an immense urge that can’t wait for the bedroom. As a young generation full of hormonal tendencies and an insatiable sex drive, you must have experienced a quickie, and if not, you’re missing out on so much. Lucky for you, we’re here to fill you in on some of the best places to have your quickie. Weddings Weddings are some of the best places to knock yourselves out. Imagine all that romantic mood in the air. Why do you want to leave all the fun to the bride and the groom? The good thing is that most people are so busy watching the bride, which means you won’t even get caught. And if you get caught, they will understand when you tell them you couldn’t resist it when you saw the groom kiss the bride. The taxi So you’ve just had a long day, and you’re leaving the club with your one-night stand or girlfriend, and you can’t wait to get home. You don’t have to feel shy as most drivers won’t mind the free shows. The moment you get home, walk straight from the cab to your couch and finish what you started to add up to the sexual tension. Just remember to tip your driver really well. The office If you and your lover share a workplace, then there’s no better place to have it than on top of your desk. Keeping in mind that this could ruin your career if you’re caught even adds to the thrill. Just remember to keep the door locked and clean the mess after the action. The elevator This is probably your favourite. We're pretty sure that you’ve seen it in movies and you’ve always desired to get it done. The next time you take a ride in the small space, make sure you try it out. Keep in mind a quickie cannot be completed in a one-floor ride, so you better plan for a long climb. It even gets better when some elevator music is on. Parking lot The parking lot is definitely a tempting place to have a quickie with your favourite girl. As long as the place is clear, get things going. Escorts in Tweed Heads suggest going doggy so that you can easily escape when someone creeps in. Close note There you have it—some of the best places to bridge the gap between you and sheer thrill. The most important thing to remember is to practice safe sex. If possible, use protection.

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October 22nd, 2021 by Tally Ho

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October 21st, 2021 by Sarah Jay

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October 21st, 2021 by Naughty Ads

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How to be an escortâ€™s favourite client

October 19th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

No matter how society views escorting, it keeps booming due to the large demand it has. As a man, approaching an escort, especially as a first-timer, can be quite intimidating. The thought of her being around many men is reason enough to shake you up and fill you with thoughts of how that date will end. Quite frankly, most escorts deal with men of excellent calibre, such as tycoons and celebrities, and for sure, the chances are high that you may not impress her as a first-timer. However, most people don’t realize that it takes so little to have her impressed. The following are a few tips to have your name at the top of her priority list. Make her feel like a woman According to Tauranga escorts, the biggest turn-off is when men don’t view them as they view their mothers or sisters. They go further to explain that many men see them as immoral and not normal members of society. The sad thing is that despite this nasty treatment, the same men hire their services. If you want to leave your mark on her, you have to make sure you treat her like a lady. You have to pick up the cues and treat her like you treat your mother or sisters. Make sure you show her respect and show utmost maturity. Remember to treat dates with her the way you’d treat actual appointments. As other men treat her lowly, she will surely notice you and keep you close. Be presentable and professional The way you appear for your dates and appointments comes in handy in impressing her. While most men won’t care about their appearance during the appointment, be sure to pay closer attention to what you wear, your smell, and your hygiene. Take a shower before your date, and if possible, have a nice haircut. From the view of professionalism, remember that she has some rules laid out. When you meet her, be sure to follow them strictly, and observe the boundaries. This does not only impress her but also makes sure that both parties are safe. Keep time Don’t let it get to your head that just because you’re paying her, you can keep her all you want. Learn to observe timelines, and keep in mind that just because you’re paying doesn’t mean you can extend the appointments however you wish to. Note that we are not trying to say you can’t extend appointments. If you really wish to, ask her politely and renegotiate. Pay well and tip her It doesn’t make sense if it’s not well paid for. Show her a sign of respect and appreciation by respecting her rates and going the extra mile with a little tip. Be there for her Remember, she is human and has emotions. Keep her assured that you’re always available for her whenever she needs help. However, be cautious of manipulative people and avoid making false promises. Footnote The mentioned tips will be of great help to you. The most important thing to keep in mind is that simple and honest does it all. In whatever you do, be yourself!

Becoming an ultimate femdom- pro tips

October 15th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

Female domination, or rather femdom, is a pure form of art, a mental sport consisting of understanding, using, commanding, and controlling the mind of your submissive, which in this case is a man. A femdom wishes to impose her will on the sub. You may not consider yourself a sexually dominant woman, but we are pretty sure that at some point, you’ve given an order. That “come over tonight” text that you sent someone and had him knock on your door after 10 minutes is a straightforward way of being dominant. However, the question is how you can go about this if you want to take things a notch higher and take over his mind, body, and soul. We’ve gathered a few tips on how you can re-examine this idea, and in the end, have the power dynamic inclined towards your side. We hope you enjoy it. 1. Always gain consent in a sexy way. Most people think that domination is about owning a slave and going all hard on him. While some part of it is genuine, it’s important to remember that respect is never left behind. Domination is similar to sex, and consent has to be given. It would be best to never force your sub into doing things he doesn’t feel comfortable doing. The best way of establishing consent and safety is through a safe word that you two can agree on. Safe words are very important in these kinds of relationships as they let you know when your sub can’t take action anymore and protect you both emotionally and mentally. When the sub is willing, the experience will be amazing. 2. Incorporate some foot worship. Is there anything sexier than seeing your sub kiss and worship your feet? It gives you that sense of power, the feeling of you being in control of him. It gets even sexier when he does it when you have your sexy pair of long, black leather boots and a G-string. Imagine looking into his eyes as his tongue travels up and down your boots, with your hands on his head and some stepping on him. I don’t know about you, but that is sexy as hell! 3. Cock and balls bondage. Whenever you want to try dominating him, cock and ball bondage are your easiest go-to options. Basically, this involves you being in control of his cock and balls; you are literally in charge of his orgasms. You could go for a simple cock ring for a beginner, and if things get better, a cock cage will be just right. Make his cock and balls your prisoner; he will love it, and he will worship you! 4. Tease him There is nothing that feels better than being in control. Teasing your sub is the icing on the cake when it comes to female domination. Learn his weakest points, and tease them. Dress in that sexy lingerie and have him crave for you but can’t get any of it. He will love you to the core! The bottom line Becoming an ultimate femdom is all about being creative, fun, and caring. Escorts in Taree suggest that you have a conversation with your sub so as to figure out his likes and dislikes. Remember, dominating him is not about being mean. In whatever you do, take care of your sub.

The art of making better connections with your clients

October 13th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

Some might call it easy, but being a professional and successful escort isn’t easy. There are countless nuances to it; the biggest of them is to deal with clients. Given that most escorts are stunningly beautiful, attracting first-time clients might be pretty easy, but the real job comes to maintaining them. An escort must be essentially beautiful, but the business might never boom without the art of making meaningful connections. Lucky for you, we have prepared this round-up of some tips for making better professional connections with your clients. Shall we get into it? Always be client-oriented As an escort, you must always keep in mind that this is your field, and the client is the most important person to you. That said, their satisfaction should always be your priority. In your dates, every step you take should always be geared towards their desire and needs. You should be able to strike a connection with your clients effortlessly to serve them better. Wondering how to go about this? According to escorts in Tamworth, these tips will help you a great deal: Start with light and straightforward conversations Try exploring their workplace or place of birth. However, be careful as some people prefer keeping their personal life to them Try to dive deeper into him by asking what makes him comfortable with adult companionship Try to draw out any sexual fantasies and fetishes they might have. The most important thing is to keep tabs on the answers as you probe for them and learn to read between the lines. Be kind and empathetic Remember that anyone you meet in this world is fighting battles you don’t know about. When you meet your clients, try to be a solution to their problems. Make sure your presence gravitates towards bringing good vibes to them and alleviating their difficulties. Learn the art of filling their emotional voids, massaging their egos, suspending their loneliness, and boosting their confidence. By doing that, your client will feel more comfortable, which is a perfect path to better connections. Be transparent in communication Make it easy for your client to understand you. Before you even meet up, make sure you have everything laid down clearly, concerning the services you offer and the pricing. Let him know what you’ll deliver to avoid disappointments. Transparency is a bonus when it comes to establishing connections with clients. Conduct yourself professionally Keep in mind that you’re here for business and that this is a job like any other. Make sure you’re physically, emotionally, and mentally healthy to look and perform better. Remember to observe punctuality, especially with time and deadlines. Doing all these will create a professional image to your clients, which opens up possibilities for huge tips and better deals. Wrap-up Getting on top is hard, but staying on top is harder. With the few tips listed above, you will never get it wrong. Most important of all, remember to appreciate your client after every date. They don’t get that very often, which means pampering them will make them feel special.

Meeting escorts - The importance of communication

October 11th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

It goes without saying that communication is a crucial ingredient to any mind-blowing experience. Whenever communication is right, any moment that follows is one to relish. In most cases, people think that communicating with an escort is all about that first email or text message, which is entirely misguided. Communication matters from the point of the booking to the first introduction, reception, and even the very last goodbye. If you’ve been taking this lightly, here is a breakdown of the importance of communication when meeting escorts. 1. Proper communication helps you manage expectations We all have fantasies, especially when meeting someone new is involved. The truth is most people make bookings with some pictures in mind, such as body features, complexion, or even body size. In most cases, expectations are fuelled by the inviting profiles or the escorts on their web or social media pages or their agency websites. While it’s okay to have some expectations, it’s important to communicate to the lucky girl to avoid being disappointed in the experience. Be sure to insist on a proper explanation of her features, and make sure she knows well that you expect to see the same thing as what is on her profile. By the time you confirm the booking, make sure that you channel all the information to her. This way, you’ll be able to handle your expectations, and in the long run, your date will be like a dream come true. 2. With communication, you avoid misunderstandings According to escorts in Swan Hill, misunderstandings are common in escort-client relationships, and most of them arise because of money, or rather, service pricing. In most cases, either party feels like they have been ripped off or offered less than the initial agreement. These things are, however, easily preventable, just by concise communication between the parties. By clarifying the venue, duration of the service, number of parties involved, and pricing, such issues are easily avoided. 3. It makes it easy for everyone. Make sure that before you confirm the order, you have communicated everything you feel that the escort should know. It doesn’t take so much explaining to understand that everything becomes more manageable when the parties understand each other perfectly. There is nothing as embarrassing as disagreeing on something that you could have easily avoided if only you had taken a minute to discuss before the call in. 4. It nurtures future relationships. Both escorts and clients wish for easy, convenient, smooth, and fun dates. If you and your escort develop a proper understanding of each other, it becomes easier to connect in the future for more business. Remember that for every good experience a client has, the escort is almost assured of more bookings in the future. The bottom line The importance of communication in escort-client relationships cannot be fully exhausted. Fortunately, it takes so little to master. Just be open, honest, and straight to the point when approaching an escort for a booking. You will love it!

Booking Escorts for the First Time

October 11th, 2021 by Eris Elysium

Seeing an escort for the first time can be a bit daunting, but don't worry! There's plenty you can do to make the experience go a bit smoother Mention it's your first time when you first message, most sites will give you a prefilled message to use, just make sure you include your name, city you saw the ad in ( some girls tour ), what time/day you would like to book, and what sort of services you would like There's also lots of forums and sites with FAQ's to learn more about client etiquette, but most importantly just be polite :)

Jessica in Redfern ain't like her pics

October 8th, 2021 by Jay Son

Jess in Redfern is nothing like her pictures. It and I'm being nice has 2 teeth, bad bo and hair in lots more places than it's head. Good luck to whoever wants to go there because I found it a waste of time and money

Top 4 tips to having the perfect threesome

October 7th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

Threesomes hold a special seat in the world of sexual imagination and cultural landscape. If you don’t know what a threesome is, you’d be surprised to find out that the definition is looser than you might think-sex between three people. A threesome can involve people of any combination of genders, and a point to note is that not everyone involved in a threesome needs to be penetrated or to penetrate. The cold and sad truth is that having a fantastic and thrilling threesome does not come easy. Think about the hassle of finding positions, perfect partners, and how to ask them politely. However, with our four tips, you will increase your chances of getting a perfect threesome. Ready? 1. Open communication Communication feels like a simple tip, but it’s often left out when it comes to matters of intimacy. Do you ever wonder why most relationships or even one-night stands end up in disappointment? Poor communication it is! Before you indulge in a threesome, talk about everything with your partner and in the most authentic way possible. Talk about your needs, fantasies, desires, and even your fears. When sourcing for the third partner, escorts in Shepparton firmly insist on getting a great communicator and an escort that is open in all aspects. That way, no one is left in the dark before, during, and after the threesome. 2. Manifest your perfect third partner The hardest part of navigating through a threesome is probably finding a perfect third partner. Our editorial team has met several couples who really want a threesome, but they have no clue who to ask. Take a seat as a couple, and pen down everything you want in your third party. Penning things down will make it clear as to who exactly you both want and wish to attract or invite into your lives. 3. Set extensive boundaries, and have consent Truth be told, even the freakiest people have some sexual acts that scare them or disgust them. Please note that boundaries can be either emotional or sexual. Before you three commit, be honest and openly discuss your sexual and emotional boundaries. On the topic of consent, it’s basically respecting what the other person considers a “yes” or “no.” When you discuss all these factors, the experience will be a lot safer and more fun. An example of a boundary someone might have is speaking about whether you’re comfortable with having your butt touched or penetrated. 4. Search for a partner extensively and carefully If you don’t have anyone for your threesome, we suggest you first refer to tip number one. After that, make sure both of you are involved in the search. There are so many places to find a perfect date for a threesome. They include clubs, parties, referrals from friends, sex parties a Shepparton Escort (or wherever your location might be) on Naughty Ads! Whichever way you choose, make sure the two of you are involved in the texts, calls, and of course, the initial meetup. Reminder! Never forgot about protection. It would help if you discussed this as a team. Remember you’re inviting a stranger into your sexual world and therefore safety is paramount. Lastly, the reality is there is no guarantee that the threesome will run smoothly. It might be a wreck, and it might just be the best experience ever - but you won’t know until you try it. Get out there and have fun! Now!

5 things he secretly craves in the bedroom

October 5th, 2021 by Naughty Ads

Sometimes, keeping your love life and bedroom affairs burning and exciting is daunting. The sad truth about relationships is that we are always craving something, but we don’t know how to express it to our partners. The biggest reason for this is the fear of making them feel weird, angry, or uncomfortable. Whether it’s a one night stand or a long-term relationship, there is no point in having mediocre sex while you can take some advice from men all over the world as well as escorts in Port Macquarie. Here is a roundup of five things every man wishes their partner could do in bed. 1. He wants you to take charge. Every guy dreams of having a freaky superwoman—a woman who is hungry for more. You cannot watch him make the first move every time. If you fall to that, your sex will be repetitive, and with time, he will surely get bored of it. Keep in mind that this is between both of you, and he wishes to see you initiating as often as he does! 2. Hands and More hands! Forget about the D, and P. Hands are the most underrated and forgotten weapons of pleasure. The laziness that comes with relationships often leaves hands out of the action, which explains why most couples complain about boring sex. That guy wishes to see you touch him more. Explore his body the way you turn the pages of a book. Touch him, make him feel your presence. Massage him, and most importantly, use your hands to please yourself as he watches. You two are going to have a blast! 3. The balls! If your guy is like most men, he definitely likes some head. Blow jobs rank among the best and most loved sexual activities. However, there is a part that most women forget when it comes to the subject matter; more head and the balls. A man’s balls are a haven of pleasure. There is so much that’s hidden in the tiny tanks. Once in a while, as you give him some head, go the extra mile and please the balls too. He will sing your name! An icing to the cake would be a minty blow job. Try chewing on some minty candy or bubble gum before giving him a blow job of the year. Yes, we know he likes having your hot and all-wet mouth around his D, but that poor boy will love this one. Try it out this weekend! 4. Moan, moan more, and moan like you mean it. Men love to be motivated. When you moan, it feels like he is being cheered on. Up your game and moan to his strokes. The bottom line It’s not so hard making this work. With the 4 tips, you can’t get it wrong. Most importantly, we believe you know your person better. Try talking to him and see what he loves most. Go make us proud!

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October 2nd, 2021 by Naughty Ads

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Top 5 ways of boosting your sex drive

October 1st, 2021 by Naughty Ads

Sex drive, or libido as most people call it, varies between individuals. A simple term to define libido would be sexual desire, or rather that urge to make a sexual connection. A common misconception is that low libido or low sex drive kicks in in the later years. While some part of it is true (sex drive tends to reduce with the years), people forget that low sex drive can hit anyone. A slight mismatch in sex drive between partners could lead to strain in a healthy relationship. Although we don’t have a standard medical definition of low libido, someone with a low sex drive tends to think of sex very rarely. As discussed, this could be detrimental, especially in relationships. In this short write-up are the top 5 ways in which you can boost your sex drive. Fight and deal with anxiety The number one enemy to elated moments in the bedroom is anxiety. According to escorts in Tasmania, most of their clients approach them with unmatched anxiety, and the result is always poor performance. Generally, it’s quite hard to feel sexually satisfied when you're anxious, which has led to anxiety worsening sexual dysfunctions. If you wish to fight anxiety, try meditating, therapy, or talk to your doctor about anti-anxiety prescriptions. You can read about different types of anxiety disorders here. Figure out arousal and what turns you on When it comes to sex and intimacy, what works for you might not work for someone else. The desire for sexual connections isn’t there all day for some people and does not occur spontaneously. Such people need to get aroused first so as they can experience that desire seriously. Here are some ways to help you get aroused and ramp up that desire. â€¢ Fantasizing â€¢ Experiment with toys â€¢ Read or listen to erotic content â€¢ Touching yourself â€¢ Controlled porn Work on your self-esteem and self-confidence What you feel about your body directly translates to what you think about sex. If you don’t love yourself enough, no one will. Stay away from things such as unhealthy diets that make you have a poor self-image. In a nutshell, consider shifting your focus from your weaknesses to your strengths. Get enough sleep Doctors and health experts recommend about 8 hours of sleep in a day. However, due to busy schedules, most people don’t always achieve that, which makes it difficult for them to have sex. The situation is even worse for people who balance between work and stressing issues such as caring for kids. If possible, take naps during the day, and maintain a healthy diet that should be topped by enough night sleep. Communicate There is no single problem that can’t be solved through communication. If you think you’re dealing with low libido in your relationship, feel free to talk about it with your partner. Speak out about the things stressing you, which will ease up the load in your mind. That way, you are in a better position to bridge your sexual desires with reality. The bottom line Low libido is a common problem, especially in middle aged couples. If you’re experiencing this, you don’t have to worry, for it’s not a death sentence. All you need to do is fight stress levels, anxiety, and avoid any forms of intoxication. That way, you’re bound for the highs of sex.

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