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I used to order pizza and a lovely lady every Friday night - now what?

August 18th, 2020 by Claire Stellar

I have had the pleasure of having a very long term client/paramour that I have kept in touch with via Skype, WhatsApp and Facetime since March of this tumultuous, uncertain year. Over our virtual conversations, I asked what it meant to him to NOT be able to book his favourite girl (along with his favourite pizza) every Friday night.... well... his response surprised me .... After a huge breath in, he admitted that, "One way or another you need to have have sex - pizza can wait ... Therefore if there are options available for sex you will find them. Everywhere online - and a great deal more so online these days - you will see options for sex. If escort agencies are not available, you will find indivdual workers out there. And I am only human." I appreciated and thanked him for his honesty. However, it did make me wonder what he would do if Stage 4 restrictions came into place in Melbourne (this conversation was during a time when Stage 3 restrictions allowed private, individual workers to operate, as well as escort agencies). I discussed my concens with my client, and he seemed both surprised and confused by the fact certain adult services were available while others were not. I laughed and said we all were in the industry, but thanks to the dedicated pages on the website sexworklawreformvictoria.org.au, I had some clarity around the subject. I also directed him to the pages dedicated to answering client questions, an INVALUABLE resource for both confused clients and workers. We're still catching up virtually, however now that Stage 4 is in place we've just had to get a little naughtier, a little more naked and a little more creative ... all great fun, and very freeing for the mind and body! I am finding that virtual sex is becoming nearly like a form of aristic expression for me now, I have developed my own style, flow and flair and truly look forward to engaging with clients at a cyber level ;-)

Tackling 'skin hunger' during Lockdown 2.0

August 6th, 2020 by Claire Stellar

Living in Melbourne under Stage 4 Lockdowns does NOT simply eradicate the human, innate need for either sex, physical intimacy or deep connections. In the interests of public health and safety, social distancing and a ban on ALL forms of sex work within Metroplitan Melbourne apply from today - August 6th. Those of us without intimate partners may be increasingly experiencing what has been dubbed as 'skin hunger' - basically, touch deprivation. Human touch has been found to calm bodily functions, such as lowering heart rate and blood pressure.* It seems only natural then that long periods of touch deprivation can have negative impacts on both our physical and emotional wellbeing.Your favourite escort is also likely to be experiencing the effects of touch deprivation - many of us absolutely adore the physical and mental intimacy in a face-to-face encounter, and the tactile, tantalising nature of close contact as we explore each other's bodies. This can range from the first time we hug, caress or kiss a client, right down to those internal sensations and thrills we both receive once our bodies are melded together. The post-coital experience is also one of pure bliss - lying there in each other's sweaty embrace, catching our breath together and, for me personally, stroking my clients chest while I lay my head upon their shoulder. So how do we legally recapture this during a pandemic? Virtually. Apps such as FaceTime, WhatsApp video, Skype etc allow us to reconnnect intimately with clients. We can catch up on each other's lives, before progressing to undressing ... toys are not essential (we all have hands!), and cameras allow for great closeups of intimate areas. My advice is to ensure clients are are not recording for future purposes (you could film this statement from them), and to allow at least 30 minutes for the experience. Ask clients what they are craving to do with you, and tell them what you are aching to do to them. Mutual masturbation is fun and (in my experience) often results in simultaneous climaxing. You will both even smell sex in the air afterwards! Best of all - the virtual touch achievable through webcamming is perfectly legal (See https://sexworklawreformvictoria.org.au/coronavirus-laws-is-sex-work-banned/) - therefore lockdown 2.0 cannot prevent us from pursuing these connections. So get out there - ask your favourite girl/guy/escort if they would like to indulge, as your most titillating and creative sexy-fun times lay ahead! * Nicola Mackay, Stig Hansen and Oona McFarlane, 'Autonomic Nervous System Changes During Reiki Treatment: A Preliminary Study' (2004) Journal of Alternative Complementary Medicine 10(6) 1077-81. doi: 10.1089/acm.2004.10.1077.