Do Women Like Anal Sex?
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Let's kick things off by addressing the elephant in the room – porn has lied to you. Shocking, I know. All those hyper-realistic, clearly plausible sex scenes? Lies. Every perfectly timed orgasm? Lies. And if you thought the sheer size of what's being stuffed into places not initially built for traffic, that size looked a little uncomfortable? You're not wrong.
But the biggest lie porn has sold you? The idea that women are out here, left and right, just dying to take it up the ass. Let’s find out what women really think about anal sex with this article from Naughty Ads - Australia's favourite way to find and book Escorts.
Understanding Women's Perspectives on Anal Sex
Here's the not-so-shocking news: women's feelings on anal sex vary—a lot. The one-size-fits-all mentality about what's supposed to turn us on is complete and utter crap.
First up, there are women who straight-up love it. Like, can't-get-enough, bookmark-anal-Tuesday kind of love. It turns out that a bundle of nerves back there (the anus, perineum, and that sweet area near the vagina) can deliver unique sensations that other types of stimulation don't. Also, the elusive A-spot and even a little action in the G-spot neighbourhood can indirectly get involved during anal play. Add some pressure in the right places? Fireworks.
Also, yes, some women enjoy a little mix of pain and pleasure. This doesn't mean they want to be manhandled with a battering ram out of nowhere, but for some, that balance between intensity and sensation adds a new, thrilling dimension to sex.
But some women? Not. A. Chance.
For every gal screaming "Yes, harder!" in a porn scene, there's probably an actual woman out there muttering, "Please, for the love of God, no." Some women think the mere idea of anal sex is about as appetising as licking a public toilet. The discomfort, the idea of poop logistics, the potential pain - nope, not interested, thank you very much.
And then there's the third category—those women who aren't crazy about it but are willing to indulge once in a blue moon. Maybe it's out of curiosity, or more likely, they want to give their partner a special treat. These women? They don't love anal, but they'll play along because, hey, relationships involve some give-and-take.
Communication Is Key: Discussing Anal Play with Your Partner
"What?! TALK about butt sex? Ew, boring." Fair enough, but you can't just wing it when it comes to anal. This isn't "oops, wrong hole!" territory. This is advanced coursework, and nobody is impressed with surprise butt invasions. So, you want to try anal? Great! But you're going to need to ask for permission. Yes, ask—with your words, not through overly optimistic thrusting.
Open and honest conversation is mandatory here. Sit down (ha!) and have a no-bullshit chat with your partner. "Hey, babe, I've been thinking about trying some anal play. What do you think about it?"
Is this going to kill the mood? Hell no. Discussing fantasies and desires is hella sexy if you do it right. Plus, talking it out avoids scenarios where someone ends up kicking you off the bed and yelling, "If you ever pull that again, your ass is gone!"
Tips for Making Anal Sex More Enjoyable
So, your partner's on board and willing to go on this... backdoor journey with you. Now, here's where you have to get it right.
First and foremost: Lube. Like, an ungodly amount of lube. When you think it's enough, it's not. Keep applying. When do you think you're swimming in lube? More.
Secondly, don't be a hero. Go slow. We're not trying to speedrun a marathon here. Start with some gentle teasing, maybe even experiment with toys or fingers before launching full-on thrusts. Patience, grasshopper. If your partner says "ouch," don't be an ass - literally or figuratively - just stop and check-in.
Thirdly, comfort is vital. This isn't a horror movie. Make sure your partner is feeling good. Adjust positions so they can relax and, most importantly, remember that communication never stops. Does it feel good? Tell each other. If something feels off, dial it back.
Also, have an exit strategy - literally. Post-anal clean-up is non-negotiable, so ensure you're prepared to deal with the realities. It's part of the package.
Closing Time...
In the end, whether or not women like anal sex varies as much as preferences for ice cream or pizza. Some women love it, some hate it, and some fall in the middle. What's critical is being open, communicative, and respectful - and knowing how to make the most of it if it's something you're both into.
Just remember, if you handle it right, this isn't about doing some pornified favour. It can be fun, sexy, and even a little thrilling. But for the love of lube, talk before you try to walk that path.
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