Come again?
ShareIt was difficult to resist the urge to use the sexual version of the word for the article.
I have been asked A LOT about cum, and how I like to climax. Today's blog will deal with the cum part. Boundaries questions or what a provider will or won't provide is nothing new. Sometimes clients or potential clients will ask why things have to be a certain way.
For me, the top 2 questions relating to cum are
"Why don't you allow CIM?" (cum in the mouth)
and
"Why dont you allow CIMWS?" (cum in the mouth with swallow)
First and foremost, for any oral delights, my play partner needs to have impeccable hygiene.
As a bisexual woman, I enjoy oral with women. Also known as going down on them, dining at the Y, heading south of the border... hearing them moan or push against my face is bliss. Holding her hand and feeling it tighten around mine as she loses control...right through to her releasing and then passionately kissing her afterwards.
Now for the penis wielding folk. I provide two services.
The first- covered oral, otherwise known as oral sex with a condom. As an extremely sensory oriented person, I don't prefer this method, because I find that the condom detracts from the skin on skin sensation. I find my stamina for giving oral this way is reduced. But, it is offered, and I have some delicious oral gel which I will use with the condom.
The second- referred to as bareback, BBBJ, natural or uncovered. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than fellating a delicious, clean cock. But. My choice, as a provider, is to provide this service as a package of a full natural service which includes oral AND penetrative sex without a condom. If you wish to engage in natural services with me, we are both STI tested 7 days before our encounter, results shared, and then we have our date. Following, I do NOT engage in sex work with anyone else, or in my personal life, until I am tested and cleared again. This is why it is at a higher premium. Everyone runs their business differently. This is how I conduct mine.
Now to the cum part. I believe in being genuine and honest with my clients, companions and submissives. I have mentioned a few times that I have Sensory sensitivities. This can be a blessing AND a curse. For me, scent is a major turn on, but it also works conversely where I am sensitive to smell. Sorry penis people, I have not met ejaculate yet that I find pleasant. Healthy semen SHOULD smell like ammonia, bleach or other alkaline smells. I just can't handle the smell, and therefore the taste. Nobody should do anything in play that they don't want to do, so this is why CIM or CIMWS is not on my menu.
As for my favourite or my preference? It would be to pleasure you naturally, with both oral and penetrative sex. Collapsing together as we both climax. However, I understand that comes (literally) at a premium, with more organisation, so I offer covered services to maintain an accessible, safe menu.
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