The 2 Cutest Dates Of My Life So Far
ShareToday I would like to share with you two personal life experiences of how I created a simple atmosphere of romance using a few cute steps. Romance is not dead, people are just not educated on the subject, men & women are not educated on how to create romance. Romance is not complex either, while yes you can go big and extravagant, sometimes it’s the smaller things that leave the biggest impact. Romance requires thought, effort, and a little time. And yes. A romantic evening can erupt into a wild untamed zoo.
My first anniversary
My first official girlfriend, and our first official anniversary. Even as just a girlfriend & boyfriend it has been interesting to learn the importance of an anniversary, most guys do not care about it, but to a lot girls it can be a big deal. And as I have matured erotically & emotionally, I see why too.
I booked a table at a restaurant in Southbank, Brisbane on Little Stanely St. She wore a long, black, cotton pleaded dress that accentuated all the right areas, showed an alluring yet playful amount of cleverage, make up on point as always, hair straight and smooth, she looked even more delicious than the food.
During the week I had gone shopping to buy her a gift - a small pair of gold, green-stoned earrings. During my walk through the centre there was a guy busking with a guitar, I went up and pitched him my idea. He agreed. I gave him the 3 songs I wanted him to play and a deposit.
Once my girlfriend & I had finished our dinner I messaged the guitarist informing him of our next rendezvous, The Goodwill bridge. When we sat at the little seating area on the Botanic Gardens end of the bridge, I had to try unsuspiciously text the guitarist our exact location, excusing myself from the present moment to ‘send an important message’ to mum or dad. Five minutes later this random guitarist just appeared from nowhere and started playing acoustic songs and singing. We laughed at the serendipity, though she did not grow suspicious until I had to pay ‘tip’ this random guitarist. With the remaining $50 ready I gave him his pay nonchalantly and he walked on his way. I tried to hide how much I was ‘tipping’ but she may have seen, because when I rekindled with her the repartee of interrogation began, “Was that $50?”, “You planned that didn’t you”, “That’s who you were texting wasn’t it”. Of course, I had never seen this stranger in my life and was only a $20 tip. We cuddled for a little while longer before walking back to our car and driving home. We bought our favourite Hungry Jack frozen drink on the commute (Bubble gum), enjoying a good night of sex once in the warmth of my bed.
The VIP Cinema. Home Made.
Every princess’s dream, a homemade cinema. This was with a different girl from the one above.
We hadn’t been on a date for a little while, life had been a little rough for us both, and so we needed something cute. During a doom scrolling moment I came across this reel where a guy had made a home cinema with make ship movie selection, snack bar & tickets – instantly I knew this was what needed to be done. I decided on a date and told my girlfriend at the time not to plan anything else for the scheduled afternoon. During the day I cleaned the entire apartment, made it smell incredible and feel clean. On my shop to Woolworths, I bought her favourite chocolate, kombucha, Honey Soy Chicken Chips, a microwave bag of popcorn – side note there was a local cinema but unfortunately it was going through renovations at the time otherwise I would have gone for the good stuff. I also bought a teddy that was holding a small bouquet of flowers.
There were a few hours of grace between her arriving home & our home styled date so there had to be nothing out of the ordinary that would give away the surprise. When it was time, I told her to have a shower, put some comfortable cute clothes on, and not to open the bedroomdoor until I say so. I was about to go buy Japanese from a local restaurant we had tried recently so I alluded her to fact I had to leave & come back as well. On return she was exactly where she was asked to stay, and was dressed accordingly, now to set everything up. Coffee table at the perfect position for a seated dinner in front of the big screen, set with 3 cups – wine glass for the kombucha, water glass, and a soft drink glass if requested; the 3 movie choices on the dinning table, air-conditioner set to the perfect temperature, snacks to the side of the coffee table – the bear was a surprise for when she arrived home from work; candles lit, salt lamps on, lights off, curtains closed; Japanese food given a quick reheat; and the entry of a waiter. Being a VIP cinema of course there is a waiter. I changed into a button-down shirt, dress pants, and some black suede dress shoes. “Hello Madam, your husband has just informed me to come get you, are you ready for the movie?”, the look of aghast pleasure will forever be engraved in my brain. She has a beautiful smile. “What the fuck!” were the words that came of her mouth though – if you know you know. Playing the role of the waiter I gave her the tickets and showed her to the movie selection, we enjoyed the terrifying movie that is Gremlins 1. Playing the role of the waiter very well, pouring her a drink like a gentleman, even testing her by seeing which drink her ‘husband’ would like – she got it right. I was cheesy at times with the role of the waiter but I did not break character. After changing back into my comfortable clothes I entered the room like a loud obnoxious aussie guy who always has something to complain about, carrying on about something in the bathroom. We enjoyed the dinner and movie together before playing with each other and sleeping.
Romance is fun. As the man in the equation, you have the opportunity to show your sensual energy and soft demeaner. A truly romantic experience is more then just flowers, and gifts. It is about being completely present in the moment, putting a little thought, effort, and time into your date.
Have you ever wanted a romantic experience? A really special moment that you will hold forever.
Give me an email or SMS and let’s arrange something that will have you feeling like the princess or queen that you so deserve to be.
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Warm regards,
L. Soule.
DISCLAIMER. This is not princess treatment.
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