HOW TO: HAVE SEX.

At NaughtyAds, we want our clients and escorts to have fun with each other and spending time with an Australian Escort often will lead to sex.  If you are thinking about having sex for the first time, you might be feeling a little nervous as well as excited. Awesome! 

Here are some tips to keep in mind:

• Sex Drive - it is complex and can be affected by emotions and physical
• Sex is not just for making babies - it should be simply pleasurable for everyone
• STI’s are common - Escorts are more safe than one night stands, safety first!

We would not be on this planet if it was not for Sex and most people find it a little bit uncomfortable to talk about but most people learn about sex during puberty, however if you are a late bloomer and have questions then this blog is for you.

THINK TO YOURSELF - ARE YOU READY?

Deciding to have sex for the firs time is a pretty big and exciting and we at NaughtyAds are happy for you but we also want you to make sure you have thought the following through clearly so you can be happy and confident:

1. Is sex something you really want to do, or do you feel pressured?
2. What are you comfortable doing, and what is ‘off limits’?
3. Do you want to be in a committed relationship with this person?

If you are not 100% sure or ready, it can help to talk with someone you trust, such as a friend or a family member or even your counsellor. There is no shame in wanting to have sex or to experience the pleasure of intimacy with another person.

YOU’VE DECIDED YOU ARE READY. NOW WHAT DO YOU DO?

So you are ready. Awesome!

At NaughtyAds we want your first sexual experience to be a memorable and enjoyable one so you keep enjoying these intimate moments in your life. We recommend safe sex always and there are things you can do to reduce changes of unsafe sex.

Safe Sex.

Safer sex is always encouraged whether you are having sex with an Independent Escort you have discovered on NaughtyAds or somewhere else.

Here are our Top 3 recommendations:

1. Correctly use condoms and barriers on body parts and toys for vagina, anal or oral
2. Begin sex mutually exclusive, only you and your partner
3. Regular testing for all STI’s, by you and your partner.

Practicing safe sex through the use of barriers like condoms and dental dams can reduce the risk of getting anything you don’t want from a sexual experience. It is also very important to use a barrier method to protect yourself and your partner against STI’s if either of you is unsure of your STI status, or if one of you is having sex with others.

WHAT SHOULD YOU EXPECT?

At NaughtyAds we are often asked a couple of questions by people who are looking to have sex for the first time and want to book an escort to provide that mind blowing experience. 

Here are a couple questions we have answered for you:

Will It Hurt?

For some people, first-time sex can be uncomfortable and may hurt or sting a little. For others though, it can be immediately comfy and enjoyable from the very beginning.

Everyones first time experience is different.

If there is pain during sex this means that you need more lubrication to help things move more smoothly, sometimes when there is not enough natural lubrication this could be a lack of desire or feeling nervous.

We recommend you try different positions, always communicate with your partner to slow down or use extra lubrication. Water-based lube for condoms and use extra lube for anal sex - if it hurts a lot - stop.

What is a Hymen?

Nothing is going to jump out and say “Hi-man!” But that is how you pronounce it.

The hymen is a thin membrane that surrounds the opening of the vagina. You may notice a little bit of blood the first time you have sex. This is normal. It is also normal if there is none. So don’t be too worried ladies!

Will There Be Fireworks?

First-time sex can be awesome, or it may leave you feeling a little disappointed. It is hard to tell before you do it and with most things good sex takes practice and experience.

If fireworks do not happen straight off, do not stress. 

Everyone is different for example:

• Some people orgasm really fast
• Some take a long time to reach orgasm
• You will be unsure about what you like at first
• You may experience some discomfort before and after
• Everyone feels good with different things, so be patient with each other
• Nobody expects you to be a mind reader

We at NaughtyAds understand that it is not always easy to talk about sex and it make take you some time before you feel ready to discuss it but always remember when you are having sex there is more than one person involved and they may just be as nervous as you are - and - you both want to make each other feel good!

SEXUAL PLEASURE.

When people think of sex, they often think of orgasms as the ultimate way to achieve pleasure. Not entirely true (yeah they are fun, but not necessary).

Even if you do not end up having an orgasm, there are other ways to experience pleasure. 

Ever heard of an Erogenous zone? 

These are places on the body that encourage sexual responses when stimulated. This can include areas such as genitals, nipples - or wherever you find you respond. Everyone is different - so start exploring.

It is important to understand that what feels good for you might not feel good to someone else. So always experiment with masturbation to figure out what you like and dislike first; before jumping into bed with someone else.

HOW TO HAVE SAFER SEX.

Safer sex is always encouraged whether you are having sex with an Independent Escort you have discovered on NaughtyAds or somewhere else.

Here are our Top 3 recommendations:

1. Correctly use condoms and barriers on body parts and toys for vagina, anal or oral
2. Begin sex mutually exclusive, only you and your partner
3. Regular testing for all STI’s, by you and your partner.

Practicing safe sex through the use of barriers like condoms and dental dams can reduce the risk of getting anything you don’t want from a sexual experience. It is also very important to use a barrier method to protect yourself and your partner against STI’s if either of you is unsure of your STI status, or if one of you is having sex with others.

SHOWERING CAN ELEVATE DESIRE.

Unfortunately, there is no proven pheromone that will make you irresistible. But if you want to more desirable consider starting with a shower, wash well. And put on your favourite cologne or perfume so you feel sexy and confident.

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR BREATHING.

Most people during sex breathe faster or slower depending on how active they are getting, if anyone is training for a sport they are going to focus on their breathing. 

Sex is an exciting and exhilarating experience, so if you focus and take control of your breathing, you will find your rhythm and will avoid running out of steam before you even get started. Also taking control of your breathing will ensure you remain calm and not anxious, especially if this is your first time getting down!

TALK…DIRTY.

Successful dirty talk is all about connection and intention.

Do you know if what you are doing is working for you or your partner? Knowing what is working (or not) can lead to a better, more rewarding sexual experience. So when you do communicate through dirty talk you can drive each other sexually crazy…but if you do it badly, they (or you) will be driving home!

DON’T WORRY SO MUCH, SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING.

Sometimes our mind can take over and we start thinking “I hope it works! I hope it works!” This can actually stop things from…working. 

The best advice you can take on board is that making intercourse the be all/end all is the worst thing you can do. In most cases, once you stop worrying about it - things start working. You can stress yourself out of being horny or that boner.

SEEKING INSPIRATION? TRY PORN.

Feeling awkward about sex? Unsure where to start?

A good point of reference is checking out some adult movies to get some ideas on what gets you going and what your favourites are. Porn can be a good point of reference to see some of the moves you could master before you dive into the bedroom.

Porn can also be a good ice breaker, to get that sexual stimulus into action so you are aroused and put in the mood to try out what you are watching.

CREATE THE MOOD.

For sex to be pleasurable for everyone involved it is important to turn off the daily stress and anxiety that is going on in the brain. If you or everyone is not relaxed, then the sex will not be very enjoyable at all. 

Consider dimming the lights and share a fantasy with each other. Consider touching each other sensually, a hug can increase the anticipation for sex if that is what is on the agenda from the beginning.

Closing Note…

After having sex for the first time, you may feel really great, excited and close to your partner - because of all the hormones rushing through your body.

You may also feel worried, confused, teary or a little guilty.

Sex is a very personal thing and the Escorts at NaughtyAds are experienced in putting your mind at ease and helping you relax especially if this is your first time, be sure to let the escort know because they can prepare to make your first or next experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Every escort on NaughtyAds is verified to ensure you are experiencing consensual sex workers who are ready to entertain you, spend time with you and explore your wildest desires and fantasies together.

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