Using Ben Wa Balls- 5 Expert Tips for Better and Sexier Foreplay
ShareSex toys are the perfect addition to sex. They come in different shapes and sizes and, best of all, functionalities. Some toys vibrate, while others rotate. Simply put, there are hundreds of ways of bringing these magical toys into your bedroom equation.
Ben wa balls are among the simplest, easiest-to-use, yet pleasurable toys in the market. They are tiny balls that, in most cases, come in sets of two and have little weights, such that when inserted into the vagina, they bounce when you move, causing soft vibrations that arouse you.
While you may be having some way around the Ben wa balls, here is a simple explainer on tips for better and sexier foreplay.
Wear Them A Few Hours Before Sex.
A little anticipation is usually the key to better and more pleasurable sex. It heightens the intensity and resulting sensations. Therefore, wear the Ben Wa balls a few hours before you meet your partner for sex. Remember, every time you move, the balls will also move around, reminding you of the fun to come. Such fantasies will be a great inspiration and a perfect foundation for sex.
Share The Secret with Your Partner.
Remember, Ben Wa balls work both ways. Although they’re pushed into the vagina, contact with the penis also increases pleasure. Therefore, sharing the anticipation with them will lead to better sex.
If possible, wear the balls while they watch, or even better yet, have them push them down into your vagina. That way, you'll build a sense of closeness, contributing to better intimacy.
Incorporate A Massager.
A little vibration will undoubtedly heighten the intensity. We, therefore, recommend tagging along a vibrator or a massager. Remember, the ball movement doesn’t really count as a vibration, necessitating amplification. A curved massager or a clitoral massager will do a perfect job.
Stay In Touch With Each Other
If you're spending time away from each other, let your partner know exactly how you're feeling wearing the Ben Wa balls. A little chat over text is recommended while you also add some naughty lingo.
The bottom line is to make the conversation exciting, like more of a sex chat, to increase the sexual tension.
Take Care Of Each Other.
Sex is all about communication. Unless two partners understand what's best for each other, all these tips will be in vain. We suggest sitting down and discussing how you two want to go about this whole process. That way, you're bound to have untellable pleasure. Refer to our previous blog on Ben Wa balls for a how to use them guide.
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